Mom and Dad, please shut up! -in the rebellious period of children, "silence" is the best reconciliation

Would you please shut up first? I'm really annoyed!

I know, when I finished this sentence, you must be surprised and even trembling with anger!

It seems that this should not be what a 13-year-old teenager said to his parents! I understand your anger and see your disappointment.

But, mom and dad, I'm 13 years old. Can you listen to my voice?

I know that in your eyes, I have "changed", like "changed a person", no longer so clever as before, no longer tell you everything, and sometimes even "oppose" you!

You are upset and at a loss!

However, I don't want this either! I am sorry to see you disappointed. The sadder I am, the less I know how to explain it to you. In the end, it all turned into a quarrel or a cold war.

Mom, do you remember the last time? I came back from school that day, feeling a little depressed, and I was in a bad mood because of some things with my classmates. I want to finish my meal quickly and then go back to my room. But you have been criticizing me, from my grades to my habits, and even the slippers at the door are not put away.

I know I shouldn't be angry with you, but I really didn't know how to explain it at that time. Finally, I slammed the door and entered the room.

Mom, you know what? At that moment, I wanted to be alone. I am 13 years old and want to learn to deal with my emotions. So can you please be silent first and allow me to be silent?

Dad, although you don't nag me as often as your mother, you make me feel that your authority is beyond doubt! But, dad, when I grow up, I want to be like you. So, when I want to discuss some issues with you, please don't treat me like a child, don't laugh at my naivety, and don't "add fuel to the fire" when my mother scolds me.

Mom and Dad, I know you love me very much, all for my own good, but please stop criticizing me and nagging me in the name of "love".

During this period, I grew up in contradiction. I have my own ideas (even if you feel immature and naive) and my own "secrets". I want to try to "grow" my brain!

So, mom and dad,

Please continue to love me, but sometimes, please keep silent!

Love your son forever.