Why do we feel sad when our relatives leave?

In fact, I think that the sadness of the death of a loved one comes from all the things about the deceased in my mind. Those things are just like yesterday. Suddenly I thought, I can't see it anymore, I can't hear that person's voice anymore, I can't talk to her anymore. "This is the most direct source. Maybe you're adopted, not your own. It doesn't matter. The important thing is that the person lying in the coffin is closely related to you. They will never leave you. Even if your love breaks down and there is a third party in your marriage, they will always be people who love you. They are the first people you meet when you come to this world. They are happiest when you learn to speak. They are the proudest when you get 100 in the exam. They are the most reluctant when you leave for college. When you get married and have children, they are the most gratifying ... they will always be the closest to you. Besides, this relationship cannot be broken.

Now this unbreakable relationship has been broken.

People often say: rely on friends outside; People also say: it is essential to prevent people. But in front of parents and relatives, we are always unprepared. What's the matter with you? What's the problem? Tell your parents that they will help you. They won't be ashamed and laugh at you.

There are too many emotional relationships between people. Some feelings will fade away, and some will be deeply rooted forever.