Most Chaoshan girls marry Chaoshan boys. What are their considerations? Have you ever worried that being too close together is not conducive to the improvement of genes?

(This can be seen by comparing what happened after my eldest brother married a Shanghai woman and what happened after my sister got married) As for Chaoshan men, affected by this, they all have some machismo, but Chaoshan boys Macho chauvinism does not mean disrespecting women, but it means being willing to take on more family responsibilities. In their view, raising wives and children is a matter of course. Many boys think that girls do not have to struggle too hard, but they cannot do it without struggling. Bring a good life to your family. Maybe they have the same view on marriage and family, and prefer to find people from the same place. In addition, Chaoshan people have their own language system. It is easy to fall in love with one person, but both husband and wife need to integrate into each other's family, and they are the seventh generation of Chaoshan people. In a family where the aunt and uncle are closely connected, it would be easier if they share the same mother tongue. Parents' requirements are also an aspect. The parents of most of my peers told us that the criteria for choosing a spouse is that it is best to be from Chaoshan. However, every family has different circumstances. Some families are very opposed to it, especially if their daughters live far away. Marriage, there are some families where the parents don't care, but when two daughters-in-law and sons-in-law have the same conditions, one is from Chaoshan and the other is from outside, they will definitely like Chaoshan. Why? Maybe Chaoshan people are more exclusive and have some special customs. For example, children have to "go out of the garden" as an adult ceremony when they turn 15, for example, they have to "worship the master" on the first and fifteenth day of the lunar month, and there are unique customs for getting married. But there are exceptions. I once had dinner with some married sisters, all of whom were married to Chaoshan people. They complained and told me that they should never marry Chaoshan men. Later, it was speculated that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in Chaoshan is relatively tense. When Chaoshan men encounter problems with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they usually advise their wives to be patient and listen to their mother (I feel that Chaoshan men are generally filial, and the advantage of a woman choosing such a man for her husband is that a filial man is good to her) Parents are good, but the disadvantage is that between his wife and his parents, he usually chooses his parents). Those sisters said that, but I observed that my sister and another sister from Chaoshan will only choose between sisters. Complaining, I should do my best to be polite in front of my parents-in-law, but the other sister had an argument with her mother-in-law at home the day before dinner and almost got into a fight. I won’t comment on who is right or wrong here, because I am also an outsider. I just feel that Chaoshan people are relatively face-conscious and are afraid of other people’s comments. I don’t know about my roommate, so please invite him to answer!