The husband has been paralyzed in bed for 12 years, and the wife asks the neighbor uncle to take care of her. What do you think of this?

Husband is paralyzed

Sharing joys and sorrows, embracing adversity, especially between husband and wife, these words should be fulfilled, because since they are a couple, they are meant to be together. We should be in the same boat through thick and thin and face all the ups and downs together. Because no one's life will be smooth. They all have to go through some ups and downs. When two people come together, no matter what they were like before, they will usher in changes later. Moreover, what we face more often is the test. However, there are many people who can't do it, which is why the following sentence comes out, "Husband and wife are like birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes." It seems to be more like this, especially now.

We are going to tell a story today, which is about the test of human nature. Almost 20 years ago, Luo Youhua married to Shantou. You must know that she was originally from Guizhou, so this was really considered a distant marriage. To Chen Xiliang. The two became a couple, and later they had a child. Although the conditions were not very good, the family was still very happy together. It's just that good things happen. Two years after they got married, my husband was suddenly diagnosed with cerebellar atrophy, which was so serious that he could only be paralyzed in bed. Let the neighbor man take care of her

It should have been 20 years now. If only paralysis was counted, it should have been more than ten years. During this period, his wife was naturally The most difficult thing is that she has to take care of her husband and then find a way to survive. Later, she started selling breakfast, which was a bit of income after all. Then she had to take care of her bedridden husband every day, which was really hard for her. Although he was paralyzed, her husband was still relatively strong at the time, so it was difficult to move him.

So going to the toilet and taking a bath are her biggest problems. Although my son has grown up slowly, he also has mental illness and is basically disabled. She was supposed to be helping her family, but now it became a burden. Finally, she couldn't help it anymore and decided to find someone else to help her. Although her husband felt particularly helpless, he could only agree because he also knew that it was indeed not easy for his wife these years. Later, I found my neighbor Lao Wang, because it was relatively close, so it was easier to take care of him.

His wife has also died a long time ago, and he has always been alone here and has always found it difficult for her, so the two of them hit it off. Then their strange combination was formed. The key is that family members on both sides actually agree, but he himself feels a little uncomfortable. So the relationship ended here later. How to put it, if you ask me, he has been dragging down his wife for so long, so he should throw away his so-called dignity. If he really has that kind of backbone, he might as well just walk away. Although these words may not be appropriate, that’s really what I think. What do you think?