Life would be so much simpler if I didn't care so much

1. Love is indispensable, but it can only be an accelerator to push us forward, not a stumbling block to work and study. ---Zhang Zhixin

2. When you are young, you don’t understand; when you are middle-aged, you are reluctant to part with it; some things are boring when you completely own them; some things are only known when you have lost them forever. Extremely precious. Life is short, you can't stop what's coming, and you can't hold back what's going. Between gains and losses, as long as you have cultivated, sown, and watered, the amount of harvest is not the only criterion for success or failure. What is important is the time hidden in the details that makes you hurt, hates, loves, and is unforgettable for life. A heartbreaking and unforgettable experience.

3. There is a place that even if you buy a ticket and get on the bus, you may not be able to reach it. I am really afraid that this place is your heart. If there is a train that can go directly there, I will give everything I have. No matter what.

4. If a person is unable to help the person he loves, it is best not to talk about love or not. Of course, help does not equal love, but love cannot but include help. ---Lu Xun

5. This should be you, always the same, never changing.

6. We are always in parting, such as with loved ones, with hurt, and even with time.

7. The oldest and strongest human emotion is fear, and the oldest and strongest fear is the unknown.

8. Look down on it, the sky is just cloudy and sunny, people are just gathering and dispersing, and the earth is just high and low.

9. Real life is to do your part seriously every day. Don’t ask for love and vision that currently have nothing to do with you. Don’t dwell on unnecessary emotions and judgments. Don’t be delusional, don’t be self-indulgent in it. No harm, no enmity to yourself or others. Don’t perform and don’t trust other people’s performances.

10. In love, no agreement or commitment is beautiful, and nothing should be relied on except the beautiful love itself day after day. But as soon as doubt arises, everything sinks into nothingness.

11. Before everything gets better, we will always go through some unhappy days. These days may be very long, or they may just wake up.

12. I dance on the tip of the knife, whether it is heavy or light, there is always pain spreading from the soles of my feet to my heart.

13. How lucky I must be to be able to know you.

14. Love is really bitter. Sometimes it is like a lotus flower, with its fragrance and its bitterness.

15. An old pot is filled with the new green of February, and the fire of the years is used to cook a life of clouds and water. The days are spent in tea, and the life is uneventful. Making wine with peach blossoms and making tea with spring water, how poetic and elegant.

16. Life is like a bicycle. It sounds nice, but in fact you have to rely on yourself.

17. Some people say that missing is not a mistake, it is just a passing. However, I discovered that someone had been following my entire youth. I missed it so late, and it was painfully regretful.

18. Love is a hundred years of loneliness, until you meet the person who is determined to protect you. At that moment, all the bitter loneliness has its way back.

19. No matter how deep the feelings are, no matter how strong the kindness is, the friendship will gradually fade away despite the distance of the world. Things in the world are like this. If you don't take care of many familiar people, they will gradually fade away. If you don't reflect on many familiar things, they will gradually be forgotten. It doesn't mean that each other's hearts have changed, nor does it mean that they no longer regard each other as friends. It's just that we are far away from each other, and we can't fully enjoy the joy, anger, sorrow, and joy. The wind of time can not only dilute the love in our hearts, but also cool the righteousness in our hearts. The hand of time can not only blur me in your eyes, but also dilute you in my heart. No matter how familiar the road is, if you don’t When you walk, you will also be unfamiliar, this is life.

20. There is no destiny, only your own inability to bear it.

21. Loving or being loved is actually a kind of joy.

22. Greed, anger, hatred and resentment are all suffering. In a blink of an eye, youth blooms in a flash, and decades have passed in a hurry. What is there to keep in mind? --- "Step by Step Jingxin" by Tong Hua

23. Life would be much simpler if I didn't care so much.

24. This world does not meet everyone’s dreams. Some people persist, while others give up.

25. Most of the people you meet in your life go from unfamiliar to familiar, and then from familiar to unfamiliar. This is the most helpless gathering in the world. So the more you are with someone you care about, the more you want to toss. Everyone thinks that only in this way can we remember each other more deeply and never forget them. The mutual torture in relationships is just to keep someone in your life for a long time.

26. The so-called longing is just a person’s wishful thinking.

27. What are you afraid of because the road is far away? Every step brings you scenery, and every step you take brings you joy and happiness on the road. Life’s classic phrases: Learn to give up, and life will be easier

1. Our biggest mistake is to give our worst temper and worst side to the people closest to us and the ones we love most, while giving up our patience and tolerance. To a stranger. Don't take other people's care for granted. No matter how much they love you, they will eventually get tired one day. People's hearts generally don't die from big things, but from small disappointments that become fatal injuries. Human feelings are like teeth. Once they fall out, they are gone. No matter how you pretend, they are fake.

2. Quarrel is a way of communication, and it has a good explanation. I hope your heart can hear my voice, that’s why I am so loud.

3. No matter how outstanding your talents and knowledge are, if you lack enthusiasm, it will be like drawing cakes on paper to satisfy your hunger and will not help.

4. I feel sorry for you, so much that I neglect myself. I believe in you, even to the point of doubting myself.

5. If a woman loves you, you will see her willfulness, her paranoia, her pettiness, and her bad temper. If she doesn't love you, what will catch your eye is this woman's arrogance, indifference and goblin face.

6. When you grow up, you must learn to face war and chaos calmly.

7. Everyone is like this in adolescence, thinking that one thing or one person is the straw that completely saves you from the turbid and mediocre life.

8. I hope that one day you will eventually meet such a person, a completely unfamiliar person with no emotional foundation, but someone who feels like you can live well together. So, the exhausted heart was finally willing to stop.

9. A true friend should care and bless you in a positive way, rather than be jealous and disruptive in the opposite direction. He should be generous enough to accept that he can go further, fly higher, and live a better life than you. Happier.

10. As long as a person knows what he really wants and finds the life that best suits him, all the temptations and excitement of the outside world will indeed become irrelevant to him. In fact, in the end, what makes us persist is all out of love.

11. There is no despair in life, only inability to figure it out. There is no end in life, only inability to see through. Happiness is the joy of the heart, and happiness is the satisfaction of the heart. Don't compare with others, don't care about yourself, life is not a material feast, but a spiritual cultivation. Perfection is a pursuit. While pursuing perfection, you must also grasp the scale of being a human being. Happiness is a necessity of life. While pursuing happiness, we must keep the bottom line of kindness.

12. Mature people need masks. Put it on and face the society with strength; take it off and face your family gently.

13. Use a telescope to see others and a magnifying glass to see yourself.

14. When two people get along for a long time, it is a terrible penetration. Even what you hate about him or her the most will be deeply ingrained in your bones and flow in your blood. We have loved, but when we leave, who doesn’t cut the flesh and bones? We try our best to take away the heart, and only use it to survive.

15. Sometimes when I say that I am fine, I actually hope that someone can see through my eyes, hold me tightly and say, I know you are not fine, it doesn't matter, I am here.

16. You often think of the world as too good or too bad, you often think of people too well or too stupidly, you have not chosen a good angle to see the world, and have not accurately measured the good or bad of life. Everything is not as beautiful as you think, and everything is not as miserable as you think. The wind is very gentle, it rains occasionally, and you will be too tired if your posture is wrong.

17. Quarrel is a way of communication, and it has a good explanation. I hope your heart can hear my voice, that’s why I am so loud.

18. Those who truly love you will make you live like yourself, while those who don’t love you enough will change your way to conform to themselves.

19. Just like a magnet attracting fans around you, enthusiasm can also attract people around you and change the surrounding situation.

20. Many things can only be understood after experiencing them. Just like feelings, only after experiencing pain can you know how to protect yourself; only after being stupid can you know how to persist and give up at the right time. In gaining and losing, we slowly get to know ourselves. In fact, life does not require these meaningless persistence. If you don’t have something, you really can’t let it go. Learn to give up and life will be easier.

21. Of course, not all people can wait forever; not all feelings can last a lifetime. Many names are becoming more and more blurred; many moods are becoming more and more unfamiliar. It's not that I don't miss you, but I'm afraid of being sentimental; it's not that I don't miss you, but I'm afraid that I'll never get back to the past. Care for a relationship with your heart, watch this journey with love, and leave no regrets in life. Meeting is just the beginning; cherishing is the only way to stay together for a lifetime.

22. When you were still young, you thought you had met the best understanding and the most touching feelings in the world. Little do you know that this illusion will lead you into an endless swamp. From now on, on the road to healing your heartache and becoming stronger and bigger, you will have to rely on your inexperienced self. If you know how to appreciate the beauty in the ordinary, life will be more colorful

1. Many people are unhappy because they always feel that the past was too good, the present is too bad, and the future is too vague.

2. Please stand by my side and spend the warm spring and autumn.

3. The state of mind is like a vast maze, thousands of miles away, in which there is no boat that can ferry people across, and there is nothing others can do except to cross by oneself.

4. I used him as a crutch for a long time and could no longer walk with other people. ---"Twilight"

5. Don't let the sadness of the past ruin the happiness of the present

6. There are no obstacles in life that you can't overcome. You can't sit still The barrier is waiting for it to disappear, and you can only find a way to get through it. In life, there is no eternal love, and feelings that have no ending will always end; those who cannot have it will always forget it. Slowly, you will no longer shed tears; slowly, everything will pass. Appropriate giving up is an elegant turn in life.

7. People who are relied upon by everyone often have to face the pain alone when they are injured. ---Yusei Matsui, "Assassination Classroom"

8. There is always a road that must be walked. Never think that you have taken the wrong road, even if you make a big turn in the end.

9. I will devote my whole life in exchange for peace and quiet. I remember this passage: The time is quiet and good, and I talk to you; the years of gentle flow are with you; the prosperity has faded, and I am old with you. In quiet times, in small cities, there is always a person who will cherish your lifelong memories. Some people say that it is best not to have a good memory, because the more memories you have, the less happiness you will feel.

10. There is always an answer to everything. Instead of worrying, it is better to let nature take its course.

11. Eat simply, live simply, shop less, give more to those in need, talk less, do more, maintain energy, don’t spend recklessly, manage your emotions well, and keep smiling , understand self-love, and naturally understand other people's love, love the earth, reduce waste production, live modestly, do not waste, do more exercise, start from the body, maintain the mentality, and enhance the spirituality of love. This kind of woman is very, very beautiful. Su Hei

12. Whether two people can come together, timing is very important. If you show up when he wants to settle down... then you have a good chance of winning. You appear when he is full of curiosity about the world... Then no matter how beautiful and outstanding you are, it will be in vain. Loving deeply or loving early is not as good as loving just right. If possible, let us be together later, and then for a lifetime.

13. I often worry about not having enough time, but I waste the little time I have.

14. Don’t let the tragedies of the past or worries of the future ruin your current happiness.

15. Life is just one road, and every step has its own scenery. When a person faces the outside world, he needs a window; when a person faces himself, he needs a mirror. If your heart is bright, the world will be bright; if your heart is like a window, you will see the world.

16. All my arrogance comes from my inferiority complex, all my heroes come from my inner weakness, and all my plausibility comes from my heart full of doubts. I pretended to be ruthless, but actually I hated my own deep affection. I thought the meaning of life was to wander around and live in exile, but in fact it was just a cover-up that I hadn’t found a place I wanted to stop yet. Calvino

17. Don’t let the quiet and mellow life lose to the bluff and excitement. The busier the place, the more lonely it is. Loneliness is not because you don’t have friends, but because you don’t have friends with yourself. When you are alone with yourself, in the hustle and bustle of the world, a lotus flower finally blooms in your heart.

18. A good friend is like a four-leaf clover. It is difficult to find, but you are lucky if you get it.

19. If you know how to appreciate the beauty in the ordinary, your life will be more colorful.

20. The only thing in the world that can be gained for nothing is poverty, and the only thing that can be made out of nothing is dreams.

21. When I first came to the world, I clenched my little fists tightly, knowing that I would eventually lose. Later, when I grew up, I learned to spread my palms, knowing that I would eventually gain. In life, every day is growth.

22. Give up what you can’t get! Doesn’t your heart hurt when you think about it every day?

23. Have you ever had such an experience? When I was young, I was inexplicably proud and stubborn. I would say no to the person I liked, I would be stubborn, I would say strong words and make the other person hurt, and then I would regret it when my hair turns gray. That kind of feeling, that kind of person, only comes once in a lifetime. If you want to go back, you can't.

24. Leave tears to those who love you the most, and leave smiles to those who hurt you the most.

25. I am not a strong person, but I know that sometimes, I have no choice but to be strong.

26. In life, except for happiness and pain, dullness occupies most of our lives. We must learn to enjoy plainness, which is like a cup of tea, embellished with the tranquility and warmth of life; we must learn to endure dullness, learn to endure a touch of loneliness and loss, endure the lingering boredom and silence, and endure the unpredictability of life. The waiting and helplessness, life itself is a kind of endurance!

27. The most valuable thing about meeting by chance is cherishing; the most important thing about being happy with each other is sincerity; the most important thing about mutual trust and love is devotion; the most important thing about understanding and blending is knowing the heart; the most important thing about being full of affection is attentiveness; Love and happiness lie in contentment! What we are born with is not wealth, but family affection; what we sincerely exchange is not success, but love; what we are worried about is not status, but friendship; what we pursue hard is not fame and fortune, but happiness.

28. A person is really lonely and cannot speak out at all. But life is a stage, smile with people wherever you go, and pretend to live a fulfilling and uplifting life. If you are good at appreciating the beauty in the ordinary, your life will be more colorful

一 , fall in love, see you, how can I not understand humility. To talk about the ideals in my heart will not be tacky. Maybe life is too short to be with you. Emotions are like baggage, still heavy, waiting for me to sort them out. But I dragged my body and found that the happiness I was looking for along the way was still tied to your shoulders or actually waiting for me to let go. Then the kite would fly straight to heaven after the string was cut off.

2. We all grow up stumblingly in time, and then leave the original appearance little by little.

3. I am used to waiting, so in the cycle of reincarnation, I cannot resist standing back to the origin of waiting. I don’t know how long I have to wait to see an answer; I don’t know how long I can wait for a result? Missing is very powerless, that's because I can't see the result of missing. Perhaps, longing does not require results, it just proves that someone has existed in my heart. Is it possible to give longing a certificate to prove that it once existed?

4. What is the most powerful skill in the world? It is to grow old with a happy mood, to be able to choose to rest when you want to work, to remain silent when you want to talk, and to rekindle hope when you are disappointed. ---"The Messenger"

5. Youth is the most beautiful and invincible. Perhaps it is this charm that makes people forget the existence of time. When they suddenly look back, they find that there is not much youth left. I don’t know how long youth lasts, but I don’t want to know how long she lasts. How comfortable it must be to stay in youth all the time! If one day. If you can enter my heart, you will definitely shed tears.

Because it is all the love I give you.

6. If you are good at appreciating the beauty in the ordinary, your life will be more colorful.

7. The world is big, the scenery is beautiful, there are many opportunities, but life is short, don’t huddle in a small shadow!

8. Real life is to do your part seriously every day. Don’t ask for love and vision that currently have nothing to do with you. Don’t dwell on unnecessary emotions and judgments. Don’t be delusional, don’t be self-indulgent in it. No harm, no enmity to yourself or others. Don’t perform and don’t trust other people’s performances.

9. The real friends around you have little to do with your beauty or ugliness, or whether you have money or not, but they must have something to do with whether you are kind and humorous. A friend is not the one who can help you when you are in trouble, but he must be the one who will not laugh at you.

10. Everyone will have an extremely difficult time, the embarrassment of life, the frustration of work, the pressure of study, and the fear of love all day long. If you survive, your life will suddenly become enlightened; if you cannot survive, time will teach you how to make peace with them, so you don’t have to be afraid.

11. Loneliness is often the product of neglect. If you ignore others, you will be easily ignored by others. Don't be arrogant, arrogant, and do whatever you want, which will definitely make people disgusted. People with an arrogant personality are also easily abandoned by others. Don't deliberately avoid others, and don't deliberately approach others. Let everything take its course.

12. Sometimes, when something doesn’t feel right between people, just move a little farther away. After a while, when it feels right, you can slowly get closer, a bit like dancing a waltz. It's a beautiful dance. As for stepping on your foot, it doesn't matter, just smile and let it go! Berry

13. One person's indifference plus another person's difficulties, one person's loyalty plus another person's deception, one person's contribution plus another person's plunder, a One person's faith plus another person's perfunctoryness. Love is one person plus another person, but one plus one does not equal two, just like you plus me do not equal us. This feeling called love... If you forget to wake up, then I would rather close your eyes first.

14. We missed each other just by a glance. I regret that I let it go lightly at first. Now you punish me. Is it wrong to break up? After being separated for a thousand days, I look forward to meeting again every day. I'm afraid that you will find me first, but go straight through. Heaven will help you hide, avoid me. It's really ironic to say that I don't quite understand it, but I hope you do. Whether happiness is too light or too heavy, it doesn’t itch or hurt when overused. Those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are favored are confident.

15. Many people want to live a smooth life, but there are always storms and waves. A peaceful person will remain unscathed even if he goes through vicissitudes of life. Sensitive people will be riddled with holes if they encounter even the slightest bit of wind. Fate gives everyone equal arrangements, but choosing how to manage your own life and brew your own emotions depends on your own character.

16. Never regret the path you have chosen, whether it was ten years ago or now. Because the only thing you can do is to go on without hesitation. Never envy someone else's life, even if that person seems happy and prosperous. Never judge someone else's happiness, even if that person seems lonely and helpless. Happiness is like drinking water, knowing whether it is warm or cold. You are not me, how can you know the path I have walked, the joy and pain in my heart.

17. These days, being low-key is the greatest way to show off. Keeping a low profile can make you safe. Showing off happiness can easily arouse jealousy, and can also be counterproductive. If something changes one day, it will be difficult for me to step down. Just as happiness and pain are neighbors, if happiness is too loud, it will disturb pain, but if pain is too loud, it will not disturb happiness, because pain is deaf. Similarly, if happiness is exposed too early, it is easy to cause misfortune. ---Zhao Geyu

18. Remembering does not mean it will last forever, and forgetting does not mean it did not happen.

19. When you think of me, do you feel like I can’t sleep? That backpack is full of souvenirs and sufferings, as well as patterns left by friction. It has become familiar with my sweat even if it is worth a lot of money. It is a ring on my shoulder. Who believes in a lifetime, this superficial dialogue, I can only say a thousand words, put it in your heart, it is simpler than longing, forever and ever, but it is not rare.

20. When you are in trouble, never cry to others, let alone explain and talk. Because everyone who understands you is by your side. It’s useless to tell people who don’t understand you. Therefore, no one can understand your tears, and no explanation is needed, just let yourself smile to the world. Remember, only a smile is the most powerful: it reassures those who love you and makes those who hate you feel disappointed.