There is a story about nine cows. Who knows?

Once upon a time, there were two good friends, one named Xiaozhuang and the other named Xiao Qiang. They found that there was no girl they wanted in the village, so they decided to go outside together.

After leaving their hometown, they went to many places. One day, they came to a fishing village and met a girl at the head of the village. Xiaozhuang thinks that girl is the person in her mind. Maybe it was love at first sight. So he decided to stay. So he said to Xiao Qiang, "That girl is the one I am looking for, and I want to stay here." Xiao Qiang saw that the girl was nothing vulgar, so he said to his good friend, "Since you like it, you can stay. I still have to find someone I like. "

So Xiaozhuang bid farewell to Xiao Qiang and went to the local area to inquire about the custom of proposing marriage. The locals told him that proposing marriage is to send cattle. Ordinary girls only need to send one or two cows, and virtuous and beautiful girls send more cows, that is, four or five cows, up to nine. Such girls are excellent and rare. No one here has ever sent nine cows.

As a result, Xiaozhuang bought nine cows and proposed to them.

When Xiaozhuang "bang, bang, bang ……" knocked on the girl's door, her father came out, held the door frame and asked in surprise, "What can I do for you, young man?" Xiaozhuang said, "Uncle, I have a crush on your daughter. Am I driving a cow to propose? " The old man said, "You don't have to drive so many cows when you propose. My daughter is just an ordinary person, and she needs three or four cows at most. It is wrong of you to send so many cows. My neighbors will laugh if I accept them. " Xiaozhuang said, "no, grandpa, I think your daughter is the most beautiful and best girl in the world." I think she is worth nine cows. " Please be sure to accept it. "

The old man couldn't refuse, so he had to accept nine cows.

After marriage, Xiaozhuang has always regarded his wife as the most beautiful and lovely woman.

Three years later, two old people missed their daughter and went to see her. As a result, they found a big bonfire party in Xiaozhuang village. By the burning bonfire, everyone is watching a light and beautiful young woman dancing. The two old people looked at them and said, if only my daughter were so beautiful and lovely.

I didn't expect to take a closer look. The dancing woman is their daughter. They were surprised to ask why you have changed so much after three years.

Daughter said: from small to large, everyone thought I was an ordinary person, and even thought I was nothing special. But since I had a boyfriend, the first person thought I was a nine-year-old Niu Nan, and I began to learn the advantages of nine-year-old Niu Nan. As a result, three years later, I didn't expect that I really became a smart, virtuous, beautiful and lovely nine Niu Nan.

Wisdom of life: The process of life growth is a process of continuous self-improvement. You position yourself, and you really become that person. Are you willing to look at people around you with the eyes of people who have found nine cows?