"whoever likes to go, I won't go anyway." When her mother-in-law died, her 50-year-old daughter-in-law refused to attend the funeral. what do you think?

I believe my 50-year-old daughter-in-law wouldn't refuse to attend her mother-in-law's funeral if she didn't hate her to the extreme. Mother-in-law should not be too strong, like to be in charge, especially like to intervene between her son and daughter-in-law, otherwise she will only make her son unhappy in marriage.

A daughter-in-law must hate this mother-in-law to the extreme. 50% women must have their own children, but why did she attend her mother-in-law's funeral? Obviously, she is unhappy with her mother-in-law, and she hates her mother-in-law to a certain extent, so she will say who loves to go and doesn't go anyway.

After all, if you are an ordinary mother-in-law, after all, this person is dead. Going to the funeral is just a formality. If the contradiction is not great, you can go. After all, if you don't go, someone must be pointing fingers.

However, some mothers-in-law were too picky when they were young, and they found fault with their daughter-in-law all day, so that their 50-year-old daughter-in-law didn't even pretend to attend her own funeral.

Second, the mother-in-law should not be too strong or too involved in the affairs between her son and daughter-in-law, otherwise no one will be happy. In real life, many mothers-in-law are just too strong. Before the daughter-in-law came in, she was busy making rules and taking care of things between her son and daughter-in-law. Some even ask the other party to hand in the salary card, especially because she can't afford the money. Usually her daughter-in-law gets up a little late on her rest day, and her mother-in-law will accuse her daughter-in-law of being lazy and getting up late.

In this case, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is naturally not good, but the real deterioration of many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the confinement of children. Some mothers-in-law insist on having daughters in order to save money, while others prefer sons to daughters. They felt that their daughter was unhappy, so they went to the hospital to go through the motions. How can such a relationship be good? Especially when it comes to children, it is easier for daughters-in-law not to forgive their mother-in-law.

Therefore, a really smart mother-in-law, especially between husband and wife, knows how to let her son and daughter-in-law solve it by themselves, and try her best to help each other when the daughter-in-law needs help, so that the other party will naturally appreciate you.

Third, the mother-in-law knows how to measure and the daughter-in-law knows how to be grateful, so that the family will be happier. A truly happy family is one where her mother-in-law knows the boundaries, that is, when to let go and when to let go, instead of trying to catch everything, which leads to tension between herself and her daughter-in-law. If the mother-in-law knows the boundaries, her relationship with her daughter-in-law will be more harmonious.

If the mother-in-law knows how to measure, it will appear that the daughter-in-law knows how to be grateful and seems to be very good to her mother-in-law. I believe that many daughters-in-law will be grateful if they really feel that their mother-in-law is kind to them.

So don't blame your daughter-in-law for not being sensible. You should know her mother-in-law, but I believe that she will not be treated like this after her death. After all, some mothers-in-law are really too strong and like to be in charge.