Hey, wake up! You can still fall in love with others

Whether single, in love or after marriage.

You should maintain a certain degree of independence and self.

Have a complete and independent personality

Is the premise of love and being loved.

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Watching Battle of Love, a man complained that his girlfriend went to the company to deliver meals at noon every day, which made him lose face.

The two have known each other since college. The boy is the senior of the girl, and the girl is very beautiful. Boys took a fancy to her when she reported for duty as a freshman. Then there are all kinds of chases, which are sent to the dormitory downstairs in the morning, noon and evening, and will be picked up after class. It took a lot of effort to catch up.

The girl said that she was moved by his insistence, so she agreed to associate with him. However, now that the boy has graduated and she is still at school, the two of them are separated. They are worried that he can't eat on time at work, which is not good for his health. Therefore, he delivers meals almost every day, but the boy is ungrateful.

The scene of the program was full of sighs, and many people whispered to each other. The host said that it is not enough to have such a girlfriend. Is it to hate?

Tu Lei said to the woman, girl, such a man is not worth being so kind to. When you think of him, he only thinks of his face. Moreover, if ordinary people and girlfriends care so much about themselves, I wish the whole world knew that there were no such ignorant people. You ask the audience if they are willing to give up if you are their girlfriend. Besides, you are such a symbol that you are not afraid of not finding a boyfriend. On the contrary, it's him, but not necessarily without you.

Tu Lei's words seemed to make the girl feel something. She looked at the boy with the meaning of "Yes, it seems so, why didn't I think of it".

Seeing this situation, the boys are a little anxious and say that they should treat their girlfriends well in the future.

Believe me, for him, when you pretend that I am not without you, I am an independent person and I don't have to rely on you, he will never have such a disgusting attitude.

For you, only by loving yourself can others love you. You don't have to lower yourself into the dirt at all. You can't get the love you want with humble efforts.

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Not long ago, I had dinner with Xiao W, a college classmate, and listening to her talk about her things in recent years was even more irritating than the plot of a TV series.

Xiao W is my college classmate, but he dropped out of school in his sophomore year. She has known her husband since she was a freshman. When she was pregnant in the second year of high school, she refused to listen to her parents' advice of abortion and resolutely gave birth to a daughter for her husband, which is also the reason why her parents swept her out of the house. However, this is the beginning of suffering.

She was confined at home and her husband continued to go to school. During confinement, her mother-in-law asked her to do all kinds of work, such as washing clothes, cooking, cleaning and going out to buy food. There is nothing left, because it is not her son who makes a living. She complained to her husband on the phone.

She felt that she had to put up with it for love. Even though she has many health problems, she always feels extremely satisfied when she hears her husband's sweet words.

The humble effort finally paid off, and the reward was her husband's infidelity. She followed him for five years, and less than a year later, he asked her for a divorce.

She felt that her world collapsed in an instant, and the reasons that supported her to continue to love became ridiculous.

"At that moment, I felt that I was a joke in the eyes of others," Xiao W said.

She didn't want a divorce. She couldn't live without him. She begged his pity like a beggar, but he turned away without saying a word of comfort to her.

That month, Xiao San lived brazenly in the house and no one cared about her. She became an extra in the house. In-laws and husbands take good care of San Xiao.

She once wanted to die, but she still had a daughter. Later, she agreed to divorce on the condition that her daughter was hers.

Later, Xiao W returned to her mother's house, knelt in front of her parents and begged their forgiveness, and borrowed money from them to start a business. Maybe it's luck. I opened several branches in two years. In the past two years, she has been working, reading and taking her daughter out to play most of the time.

In front of her, Xiao W looks exquisite, dresses appropriately and behaves gracefully. Who can say for sure that she has lived a hellish life in recent years? Now even knowing that she has a daughter does not prevent her from becoming the object of men's queuing pursuit.

I remember once saying the same thing to a reader. In feelings, no matter how low you put yourself and how humble you love, you will eventually lose love painfully, especially women.

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Love is two-way, and it takes two people to work together to maintain a balanced state. If you keep giving unilaterally, love will collapse sooner or later.

Don't humbly ask for others' love, because all you get is sympathy and pity, which is destined to last for a long time.

When you are independent and powerful enough, it seems dispensable. In fact, love is the most lasting at this time, because no one needs to humbly pray for each other's pity.

Honey, you should be complete. Whether you are single, in love or after marriage, you must maintain a certain degree of independence and self, and have an independent personality, which is the premise of loving and being loved.

If one day this relationship comes to an end, it doesn't matter, you are still intact, you can still fall in love with others and be loved by others.

? Mo Liufeng+is quite picky.