Cheated woman: If it weren't for the children, I would have divorced.

Cheated woman: If it weren't for the children, I would have divorced.

1, deny love.

After learning the news of her husband's infidelity, women feel that they are beginning to deny the love between husband and wife.

This is the real reaction after seeing many derailed stars in the entertainment circle say "Never believe in love again". Unlike men, women are emotional animals. They attach great importance to feelings and have their own persistence and pursuit of love. The occurrence of extramarital affairs destroys women's love, and women will fall into panic: how to persist in a marriage without love!

2. deny yourself.

It is a particularly desperate feeling to let women deny love and begin to deny themselves.

Women begin to become extremely sensitive, fragile and inferior. She will repeatedly ask herself what she did wrong, where she is inferior to a third party, and whether she is completely unattractive to men, thus summing up how pathetic an unattractive woman is. Women lose rational judgment, doubt their own advantages and magnify their own shortcomings. The clever, capable and enthusiastic woman has suddenly become a "poor worm". Her confidence was like a deflated balloon, and her mood became decadent, depressed and melancholy. In fact, the loss of self-identity is far more harmful than the extramarital affair itself. Its pain lies in the collapse of the spiritual pillar on which you live.

3. Deny marriage.

The heavy blow of extramarital affairs to marriage is the loss of trust in partners. Once holding your hand and growing old with your son seems to be a joke now.

In the eyes of women, a cheating man is like a bill falling into the toilet. And who can guarantee that he won't fall into the toilet again this time? Even if he does choose to divorce, it is difficult to guarantee that the next marriage will encounter extramarital affairs. It is precisely because of these three kinds of cognition of extramarital affairs that women begin to fear love, marriage and men.

In the face of extramarital affairs, I can't cope with it, which leads to the deterioration of my marriage and the great loss of my inner strength.