How to have a daily chat with a seriously ill person?

If you are a patient who already knows his illness, try to say something that makes him happy, or something that interests him, so as to divert his attention and let him get out of his fear of death for a while. Topics of interest can not only divert his attention, but also make him feel better. When he is happy, his functional state is much better than when he is sad, and his immunity will be good, which is also very helpful for the control of his illness.

Try to avoid talking about the topic of life and death, because it will easily put pressure on his psychology and accelerate the development of his illness. From the day we were born, we knew that this day would come to an end, but when this day really came, our hearts were filled with more fears. There is no way to stop your inner fear with drugs. Only the patients themselves can be relieved through self-psychological adjustment. What family and friends need to do is to help them adjust their mentality. The attitude in chatting should also be positive, and it is not possible to transfer negative energy behaviors, such as sighing and regret. Also, don't repeatedly mention the illness in the conversation and show sympathy. If your attitude is pessimistic, patients will think that they have little hope for life.

If you don't know that you are terminally ill, in the process of chatting, your chat content is just like that of ordinary people, and the tone of the chat doesn't need to be deliberately modified. The more natural the better. In this way, the patient has a hint that he is no different from other ordinary patients and thinks that he can recover soon. This positive attitude is the best way to control the disease and prolong life, and the patient's quality of life is also relatively high, because he will spend the rest of his life hopefully.