Why are many people unwilling to admit that they are trying?

Because of his/her low self-esteem, he/she hides the part of his/her efforts, and he/she is afraid that he/she will be teased if he/she fails to succeed after his/her efforts.

Actually, it might be called cowardice. Of course, this word is good, but it is not entirely correct. Because some things have different psychological effects on people, and many things will make people have different mentality on different occasions, people will choose and consider decisions in combination with the current environment and occasions.

Just like Lin Daiyu entered the Jia family, her words and deeds were cautious, and behind her was a deep sense of inferiority, and the ending would not be good. We should be aboveboard, work hard, make progress diligently, and show others the process of our efforts. Once I fail, I have tried. Once I succeed, I deserve it. This is a desirable way.

Most people around me study hard. I have retired from active service. I don't think I dare admit that I'm trying. Maybe I'm afraid I'll be embarrassed after failure. Face-saving people will not easily admit that they are trying.

The result doesn't correspond to what I paid. At this time, someone will secretly say that I have worked hard for nothing, and I am not as good as I am. Hearing this, I feel very hurt. I even thought I never wanted to share my efforts with anyone again, so I have to understand those who work hard but dare not admit their efforts.