Parental love: Dehua loves Mrding, but he is the most Edward. Do you know who he is?

Dehua is Jiang Defu's sister, a simple, kind, careless and intolerant rural woman. She is uneducated, outspoken, invisible and straightforward. Her smile is always so bright, pure and heartless. Help my brother and sister-in-law take care of several nephews and nieces to grow up; For Xiue and her brother, she drove her sister-in-law to the island. After Xiue died, she took care of Mrding and his children. Her persistence and determination to win in Mrding often make people laugh.

So, when did Dehua take a fancy to Mrding? An Jie once jokingly asked her if she liked Mrding when Wang Xiue was alive. Dehua quickly denied that such jokes were not allowed. So did Dehua lie?

Personally, Dehua fell in love with Mrding the first time he met him. This kind of love is not love, not possession, but a vague feeling of the opposite sex that you like and appreciate, which is unclear and unclear. There is no denying that Mrding is a very attractive man. He is more cultured and handsome than Jiang Defu. To some extent, he is more thoughtful and profound than Jiang Defu. Of course, it is also more realistic and snobbish.

After Xiue's death, Mrding also came to the island. The official career is not smooth, and a big man with children is always stretched. In Anji's eyes, he became a listless, bearded, sallow and emaciated pauper, full of complaints. This kind of poverty is not economic poverty, but life poverty. Dehua once made friends with Xiue's sister-in-law, and Mrding was my brother's good friend and comrade-in-arms. Warm-hearted Dehua should not have thought much at that time, but only wanted to help Xiue take care of her children and help her brother take care of his comrades. Washing clothes, cooking and cleaning, Dehua has almost become a member of Lao Ding's family. Unconsciously, Dehua found himself more and more willing to run to Mrding's house. Every time I see Mrding, I feel good. If I don't see him, I will have infinite troubles.

"I don't know what it is, but it is deep."

Dehua knows that Lao Ding likes educated women just as his brother likes his sister-in-law. Since an uneducated brother married a literate sister-in-law, a literate old Ding Can naturally married an uneducated self. Dehua doesn't know when he fell in love with Mrding or why he fell in love with Mrding. All I know is that I'm going to marry Mrding. There is no one thousand, and there will be no one thousand. She is so sure. Although, she doesn't know what sincerity is. But she wants to meet Mrding, take care of Mrding and his children, and make Mrding aware of his existence. He treated Lao Ding as a stone, and she felt that even a stone would be covered with heat.

Sister-in-law thinks she is an anthomaniac, and brother thinks she is Mrding's spare tire, which makes him lose face. However, Dehua's heart is not so tortuous. She just likes it. Her love for Ding Xi has nothing to do with whether she likes her or not, and has nothing to do with what others think of her.

Knowing that Mrding suffers from arthritis, she lent her brother's dog skin mattress to Mrding. After being rejected by Mrding, she was angry and wronged, but after a night, she went straight to Mrding's house with a dog skin plate. What she said to Anjie was firm and magnificent: "I won't go if he doesn't let me go? That home is not his own, and that home also has my sister-in-law's share. I'm not going to wait on him. I'm going to wait on sister-in-law Soo-e's son. I can't watch Soo-e's son go unattended. I think how good Sister Soo-e was to me. Can't be heartless. " What she said was not so much for Anjie as for Mrding and herself. Her request is not high. She just wants to see Mrding more and take care of him, so that he can restore a radiant Mrding when Xiue's sister-in-law is here.

"What should I do for him to get married? I don't work for him, I work for Xiue's sister-in-law and children. " Stubborn Dehua was still making quilts and delivering meals to the children when he heard that he was going to marry Ge.

When he learned that Ge He's marriage had failed, the generous Dehua smiled like a child and rushed back to report the good news to his brother and sister-in-law.

Knowing that Mrding was going home for dinner, she sang happily and forced her sister-in-law to take out Maotai to entertain Mrding. Her eyebrows and eyes are smiling and her mouth is beautiful, so she can't hide it.

Thinking of Mrding eating next door, Dehua has endless energy in the kitchen; She secretly hid in front of the next room, sipping her mouth and listening nervously to the conversation between her brother and Mrding. For a moment, her face lost her rampaging arrogance, lost the joy of smiling, lost her nervousness, lost her melancholy and lost her shyness.

When she heard her brother persuade Mrding to continue fighting for her marriage with Ge Xia Mei, she couldn't help saying, "What a shame!"

"He is so convincing? Send someone to the fire pit. " In Dehua's mind, who Mrding is with is a fire pit, and only with himself is heaven;

Watching Mrding drink too much, she pushed her brother away and complained bitterly that he drank Mrding.

I heard that Mrding is dating Wu Yizhou. She wants to meet her, see what she looks like and whether she can be kind to her children.

In fact, as long as she married Mrding, she didn't like it, and she didn't think she was a good crop.

Watching her brother and Ouyang drink Maotai together, she was very angry because her brother didn't call. An Jie sighed and said, Dehua, you are so kind to Lao Ding.

Hearing the news of marrying Wu Medical Assistant, she said bitterly: "It is better to embarrass him, I don't care!"

This is love! I love you, whether you love me or not. I love you, regardless of whether you love me or not. My kindness to you has nothing to do with whether you love me or not.

When she came back from Mrding's house in frustration, she just said to Angie, "I don't know what happened. This key can't be opened anyway. " Dehua really doesn't know what's going on She knows, but she doesn't want to believe it, and she can't believe it. After listening to an Jie's words, he said categorically: when people change locks. She cried loudly and painfully, venting her unrequited love and grievances. But when she saw Ge, she wiped her tears happily and said bitterly, Grandma, why are you crying? What's the use of crying?

"It was that damn Mrding who changed the key to the house and wouldn't let me in." A woman would never say such desperate words to her former rival in love. But Dehua said it so brazenly. Her courage and openness to love made Ge and Anjie feel ashamed.

"Hello, you're going to marry him, and you didn't make him change his keys." What Dehua said to Ge was still so straightforward, without faking or affectation.

"If I don't scold him today, I won't get through, and I will go crazy." She forced Angie to call Mrding home. However, when she saw Mrding's thin figure, she walked into the room fidgeting again. She looked in the mirror, adjusted her hair and said to herself, I can't let him see me crying.

Jiang Dehua, who has always been glib, moved her feet step by step, walked out of the room with her eyes down and walked to Mrding, not knowing where to put her eyes in fear and trembling.

"I'm sorry I didn't say hello to you in advance." Mrding's deep voice made Dehua feel sour.

An Jieyi reprimanded Mrding with words. At that time, Dehua's brain was empty, and her heart and eyes only had Mrding. Looking at Mrding leaving, she mechanically poured a cup of tea for Mrding. Angie wanted to give the key to Mrding. She jerked forward and picked it up and handed it to Mrding. She fell in love with this man and wanted to get close to him, which has nothing to do with whether this man loves her or not, and has nothing to do with his own consciousness and thoughts.

With Mrding gone, Dehua's heart and soul can come back. Her head hung in love, and Mrding, who was trained like a grandson, yelled at her sister-in-law, and then she sat in the kitchen in pain. Doesn't she know that sister-in-law is doing it for her? She knew, but she couldn't help trying to protect Mrding's thoughts.

Dehua sat on the roof, looking at the distant sea, looking at the clouds rolling and relaxing, with a disappointed face. "Sister-in-law, why don't you think Mrding despises me?" Her tears ran down her cheeks to her mouth, bitter and astringent.

When she realized that Mrding was going to marry her, she stared at Mrding: "Tell me, when shall we do things?" A word almost choked Mrding who was drinking water.

On the way home, Dehua smiled and laughed, but tears poured out. She kept crying. At this point, it seems that only tears can vent her feelings for Mrding, the pressure she bears for Mrding, and the bittersweet she tastes for Mrding.

When her brother and sister-in-law asked her when the wedding would be held, she said, "I want it as soon as possible so as not to fall asleep."

Dehua is the kindest, truest and most beautiful existence in the love of parents. Because she has no culture, everything she says and does is her own, without modification or affectation. This true feelings, this courage, this desperation for love are admirable and desirable.

"Life has been infatuated since ancient times, and this resentment has nothing to do with romance."

It can't be said that the attitude of Jiang brothers and sisters towards love is the same, and they all have a dizzy taste. In order to marry Anjie, Jiang Defu would rather give up his party membership, army membership and military uniform and go home to farm. Dehua has worked hard for Mrding for several years and is not afraid of being told. Both brother and sister are faithful wives.

Mrding's greatest regret in this life is arranged marriage. Daughter-in-law bears hardships and stands hard work, can have babies and be a housekeeper. Just have no culture. When two people talk, the chicken often talks to the duck, so they can't communicate. Looking at my good friend and brother, I found a beautiful, capable, educated and stylish daughter-in-law. Mrding is both envious and jealous. After Wang Xiue's death, he really wanted to find a wife with culture and language, so that they could talk about life and ideals. However, he is really unlucky, or he just doesn't have a literate wife. The marriage with Ge was blocked by Wang Zhengwei, and the marriage with Wu Yizhou was "slandered". He can't marry Ge as he did at the beginning. He is glad that he discovered the true colors of Wu Medical Help before marriage.

Finally, looking at the busy inside and outside Dehua, Mrding resigned. After all, he married Dehua, and he may still be a little unwilling to get married. However, Dehua accompanied him for 30 years, took care of her in every possible way, gave birth to a little daughter for her and helped him bring up several grandchildren. This simple, kind and enthusiastic rural woman made him have no worries at work and lived a happy life in his later years.

People often worry about choosing to marry someone who loves them or someone they love. Jiang Defu married Angie, who he loved, and Jiang Dehua married Mrding, who he loved. Both families are very happy. Jiang Defu will be happy as long as he looks at Anjie happy; Dehua will be happy every day as long as he can see Mrding every day and serve Mrding comfortably; Anji has been spoiled by Telford for decades, and her eyes are still pure and clear, sweet and quiet; Mrding read newspapers and practiced calligraphy every day, and also gained peace of mind and body. Everyone needs something different. As Yafei said to Yaning, "I'm not an aunt. I can't work as hard as my aunt and bear the burden of humiliation. In that case, I will be wronged by myself. "

In Yafei's eyes, grievances are enjoyed by Dehua. Because arsenic is my honey, she likes being with Mrding every day and every year. Therefore, what everyone thinks and wants is different. Follow your heart to choose. Two of a kind is good, but if you can't do it, it's no big deal to follow your heart to find someone you love or someone who loves you.