How to break the silence confidently, can you talk about it?

What do you talk to others in the gap before serving in the restaurant? There is nothing wrong with two people taking a taxi together. When two people wait for the third person to come together, they stare at each other, staring at each other? These sentence patterns can help you relieve awkward silence and are suitable for unfamiliar social situations.

First, "What reminds me of what ...". For example, "the waiter reminds me that there was a waiter who was particularly funny at the last group building." This background music reminds me of a video I brushed yesterday.

Second, "You look like …", which means a little compliment. For example, you look thinner. Have you been working out recently? You look better than before. Do you take any skin care products? Be careful here, don't say that you look so haggard and tired, even if it is true, no one wants to hear it.

Third, ask your own little questions for answers. For example, I feel a little hair loss recently. Any suggestions? A friend of mine recently came to Shanghai to play. Are there any interesting exhibitions or plays recommended?

Fourth, ask some industry-related questions. Why did you want to do this industry in the first place? Do you have any plans to change careers? What is the prospect of this industry?

Fifth, find common ground and ask relevant questions. If you have a relationship with a friend, you can ask him how he met another person. At the same time, you can find people who are married and love sports. Finally, silence is not a bad thing, there is really nothing to say. Needless to say, you can accept silence. As long as you are silent long enough, the other party will take the initiative to find a topic.

Sixth, praise and ask questions. Even shy people will be happy when they hear compliments. You must make people who don't like to talk understand that the audience appreciates and appreciates their efforts and thinks their professional knowledge is very valuable. Then, you ask them to elaborate on their ideas. At the same time, you can prompt them with short questions, and only people with professional experience and knowledge can answer your questions. In this way, even people who are usually quiet and stingy will become easy to get close to others after hearing such positive feedback. So in the process of listening, similar "sweet words" will get you the information you want.