The child wanted to help his father bathe, but he was refused. Why does he feel a little too much when he sees the "tools" in his hand?

In our time, I always felt that there was a generation gap between my parents and me. What my parents say is like "imperial edict", and my parents are tall and powerful in my mind. Talk to your parents seriously, don't play games. But now the way parents get along with their children has changed after 90. In the eyes of children, parents and themselves are equal, they can get along like friends and say anything to their parents.

Of course, the post-90s parents' view of their children is that it is meaningless to take them out to play when they are born. Therefore, when their children fall or make jokes, the parents of the post-90 s are not the first to help their children, but take out their mobile phones to record the funny moments of their children. Of course, sometimes children will "spoof" their parents.

The child kindly helped his father to bathe, but was ruthlessly rejected.

Wen Jie is a post-90 s treasure dad who already has a 5-year-old son. He usually gets along with his son like a friend, and the relationship is very close. One day, because it was very hot, Wen Jie planned to take a cold bath to cool off. Just as he was taking a bath, his son suddenly came in and said to him, Dad, let me help you take a bath. Thinking of his son's filial piety, Wen Jie agreed. But when his son rubbed the "bath ball" in his hand, Wen Jie cried out in pain. As soon as he turned around, he saw the so-called "bath ball" in his son's hand and shouted directly. I don't need your help. Get out of here.

Seeing the "tools" in my son's hand feels a bit too much.

The son was scared to cry by his father's roar. When the mother heard her son crying, she rushed over to see what was wrong with him. My son said, I just want to help my father take a bath, but my father yelled at me and told me to go away. Seeing her son wronged, the wife wanted to scold her husband. But when I saw the "tools" in my son's hand clearly, my mother felt a little too much. It turns out that the "tool" in my son's hand is a dry silk ball for washing dishes. No wonder my husband asked him to come out.

Looking at her husband's back, her son rubbed off a piece of skin with a dry silk ball, and her wife was distressed. After all, her son has good intentions. It's just a little kindness to do bad things. But who is your own? Even if a piece of skin is worn off by his son, it will not affect Wenjie's love for his son.

In fact, in real life, many children will do bad things with good intentions. The child did it out of kindness, but he did something bad.

Then, what should parents do in the face of their children's "good intentions to do bad things"?

1, understand the child's motivation.

In fact, it is normal for children to be naughty when they are young. Many times, parents will get angry and wonder how their children can be so naughty. When you are angry, give your child a scolding, and don't ask your child why. Doing so will not only hurt the child's young mind, but also affect the parent-child relationship. Therefore, when parents find that their children have done something wrong, don't beat and scold at the first time, first understand the children's motives.

2. Establish a correct view of children.

Parents should establish a correct outlook on life when their children are young. Cultivate children to be polite and civilized children. Because if a person doesn't even have basic etiquette and morality. No matter how excellent your academic performance is, it's useless. Therefore, parents can't only pay attention to their children's learning, but ignore the most basic truth of teaching their children to be human.

Now many parents are most worried about their children's education and study. Parents want their children to be excellent people, so sometimes they are strict with their children. Parents' feelings are understandable, but many times, children are still children after all, and children at each stage will have different reactions. Parents sometimes don't push their children too hard. Find more suitable communication methods for yourself and your children, communicate more, and give your children more trust and companionship. Become a guiding light for children's growth.