Do you still think children talk late? Children talk late, parents have to do it.

Every parent hopes that their children can talk, walk and teether early, and all their growth and development can be normal, even reaching the forefront of their peers. But in reality, many children will call their parents when they are two or three years old, and they can't say a complete sentence, so their language understanding ability is poor. They can't adapt to the kindergarten and have been dismissed many times.

This is a typical language retardation, which requires early intervention. However, many old people are lucky and indifferent, thinking that this is "the nobles speak late" and "just wait a little longer". Indeed, every child's speaking time is different, but if you have fallen behind your peers for more than half a year or more, do you dare to ban them? You know, children who can be "greatly good" are only rare, one in a million. How dare you use this small opportunity to kill their future?

Rumor: Your language is late?

People often say that "distinguished people talk late" is actually just a beautiful imagination, not scientific. It is ridiculous to simply think that children talk late as a sign of being rich and expensive. Some people even moved Einstein out to speak, saying that a great scientist like him could not speak at the age of three and was not fluent at the age of nine. Using such "arguments" to mistake children for cleverness is a bit far-fetched.

▼ Tracing back to the original meaning of "noble people speak late":

The phrase "a gentleman talks but doesn't do it" comes from The Analects of Confucius. The original text is: "A noble person speaks late, but works quickly, but does not speak slowly. Taishan collapsed in front of it, and its color did not change. Elk walks on the left, but its eyes don't blink.

Noble people talk late, which originally meant to describe people who are strategic but not good at talking and are very motivated.

People only use the first four words of this sentence to describe that although children learn to speak late, their intelligence can achieve great things, which is obviously taken out of context.

In addition, it is often said that there is an age limit for people who talk late and find it difficult to speak. If you haven't learned to speak by the age of 2 to 3, then parents should intervene as soon as possible to diagnose whether it is language retardation.

The reason why children speak late:

1, physiological factors

The first thing parents need to consider is whether it is hereditary for their children to speak late. In addition, if the child has problems with hearing or intelligence, it will also lead to speaking late. If it is these physiological reasons, you must take your child to the hospital for examination as soon as possible.

2. Psychological factors

Many children have obvious rejection of learning to speak, which may be because parents push them too hard. For example, letting children start reading and speaking at an early age is counterproductive. Once a child has an aversion to speech and language, it is likely to affect his own psychology. Parents must communicate with their children in time.

3. Family factors

If parents themselves are reticent, children are easily influenced in this family environment. Sometimes parents speak too fast or too slowly, which will lead to children unable to imitate learning and slowly lose interest in learning to speak.

To guide children to learn to speak, parents should get out of the misunderstanding.

Language talent is not available to everyone, and most of them need the guidance and help of their parents.

1 to 3 years old is a critical period for language formation. A two-year-old child's vocabulary can reach 270 words. If the child is two years old, but the language is unreasonable, parents should consider whether they have entered a misunderstanding.

Myth 1: Parents and children seldom talk and use electronic devices instead of accompanying themselves.

This situation is especially common among young parents, who are usually under great pressure at work and pay little attention to their children. Many times, when they see a child crying, they will use iPad or mobile phone to get their own private time. Over time, children who can be accompanied by machines will gradually weaken their language ability and learn to speak indefinitely.

Children's language is learned by imitating and learning from their parents from the beginning. If there is no basic companionship and communication between parents and children, then the time for children to learn to speak will definitely be late. Therefore, when necessary, parents should talk about some topics that children are interested in and try to speak slowly, so as to play a positive guiding role.

Myth 2: Parents are too "considerate" and deprive their children of the opportunity to speak.

Many parents are very careful when taking care of their children. As soon as a child cries or cries a little, parents will know whether he is hungry or has a bowel movement. Such meticulous care actually deprives the child of the opportunity to express himself, which is not good for his language development. The correct way is, when the child points to an object, don't worry about answering for the child, let him organize the language himself. The meaning may not be accurate at first, but with the increase of times, the child's language ability will continue to improve.

Myth 3: The growing environment is complex, and dialects and Putonghua are used alternately, which leads to confusion among children.

In many families, grandparents may be taking care of their children, and the older generation are often used to communicating in local dialects, which will confuse the baby in the language development period. Babies who want to learn to imitate adult languages don't know what to do when they hear dialects and Mandarin. In addition, many families like to communicate with their children by overlapping words. Parents think this kind of communication is cute, such as "eating a meal" and "drinking water". In fact, this way of communication virtually prolongs the time for children to learn a language. After all, we will not use this way in normal communication, nor will we use this way of word formation.

Myth 4: Repeating your baby's pronunciation mistakes or laughing at your child will leave a psychological shadow.

Many children may not pronounce correctly when they first learn to speak. Parents will repeat their children's pronunciation mistakes and sometimes even make fun of them for fun. However, such behavior will make children feel that their pronunciation is inaccurate or ugly, and they are reluctant to speak over time.

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