What does the old saying in rural areas mean: "The older girl laughs at the younger daughter-in-law and the younger daughter-in-law hums, and the baby calls her daddy." What does it mean? How to unde

What does the old saying in rural areas mean: "The older girl laughs at the younger daughter-in-law and the younger daughter-in-law hums, and the baby calls her daddy." What does it mean? How to understand?

What does the old saying in the countryside mean: "The older girl laughs at the younger daughter-in-law and the younger daughter-in-law hums, and the baby calls her daddy." What does it mean? How to understand?

"The older girl laughs and the younger daughter-in-law hums, and the baby calls her daddy" is an old saying in the countryside. Different places have different versions.

Shanxi: "Girls laugh, little ladies hum, the bride calls her husband in the bridal chamber, and the baby calls daddy for the first time."

Henan: "The older girl is flirting, the younger one is humming, the daughter-in-law gets up early and calls her father-in-law, and the child is the first to shout"

Shandong: "The older girl blushes, the younger one roars, and the bride in the bridal chamber is straight Hum hum, the first thing a daughter-in-law calls her mother-in-law is, "Da girl laughs"

Da girl refers to an unmarried woman, and is called by different names in many places in China. People in the Northeast are called "Niu", people in Henan are called "Girls", people in Shandong are called "Ni", people in Wuhan are called Ximeizai, people in Sichuan are called "Yomei", and people in Shaanxi and Shanxi are called "Nvwa".

In any case, the eldest girl is like the sun at 8 or 9 o'clock in the morning, full of vitality and charm; she is also like a budding flower, gorgeous and colorful.

In the feudal era, girls were not allowed to laugh heartily. They always smiled with their mouths pursed to avoid exposing their teeth, making their smile embarrassing and causing criticism from their elders.

Girls are naturally shy and cannot laugh out loud in most cases.

But older girls can also find it difficult to control their emotions in emergency situations. One situation is when you hear a humorous joke from your best friend and you can't help but laugh; the second situation is when you meet the man you love and you have spiritual sustenance; the third situation is when the wedding day is approaching and you have to be with your beloved.

So if a big girl doesn’t smile, forget about it. Laughing is when you are very happy and you can’t help yourself. Such a smile is a great beauty in life.

There is a saying in our hometown that "the three great blessings a day are: the magpies are noisy on the branches, the girls are laughing at the door, and the swallows are flying back to their nests." The cry of magpies on the branches is a sign of good news, the smile of a girl is a sign of celebration, and the return of swallows to their nests is also a sign of congratulations.

Little daughter-in-law hum

A newly married woman is called a little daughter-in-law. She is slim, charming, beautiful and full of youthfulness.

Different from the older girl’s smile, the younger daughter-in-law’s humming represents the shyness of identity change and is a kind of silent style. This kind of performance will definitely make the groom love it. The husband and wife are harmonious and beautiful. Harmony.

Not to mention the groom and the person involved, even the people passing by will feel relaxed and happy when they hear the bride's shy whisper, recalling the sweetness of the wedding that year.

The first time a baby calls daddy

Xie Dong once sang a song called "The Child's Dad" "The day you were born, the rain kept falling, and the wind and rain made you cry." "It's very loud." "But you gave your mother the first smile, and then looked at the man beside the bed blankly. "The child called mom first, and then the father was jealous, "Baby." , I am your baby".

When a child calls daddy, it must be the most beautiful voice in the world, better than Beethoven's symphony and Wang Feng's song.

After saying "Dad", the man completed the transition from son to father. From an ignorant boy, he grew into a broad-shouldered young man. He shouldered the heavy responsibility of the family and was full of ambition and confidence to prepare for his son's future. It’s a wonderful feeling to work hard, create a good growth environment for children, and look forward to a bright future.

In the eyes of the old people, their sons marry a wife simply to carry on the family line.

With my beloved son, the mission assigned by me has been completed. Especially in the era of tight family planning, it doesn’t matter whether the second child is a boy or a girl. There is no need to worry about fines, sterilization, or losing your job, and there is no need to leave your hometown to become a birth guerrilla.

The feeling of being a father at this time is even more beautiful, so beautiful that you don’t want it.

In fact, there are many beautiful things in people's lives. For example, as we said before, calling a daughter-in-law father-in-law or mother will make people smile from ear to ear. Chinese parents are the most miserable. They raise their children with shit and pee, send them to school, find jobs for them, build houses and find wives for them.

When a daughter-in-law is married, there are new members in the family, and in a year there will be a new generation, with children and grandchildren around her knees, three generations living under the same roof, laughing and having fun, what else can be better than a daughter-in-law? Parents deserve to be happier?

All in all, the big girl’s smile, the little wife’s hum and the child’s first call of daddy are the most beautiful things in life, worth looking forward to and longing for