Who doesn't talk behind people's backs? Have you ever spoken ill of your colleagues?

I think it is very immoral to speak ill of my colleagues. On the one hand, belittle yourself, on the other hand, it will also have a bad influence on others. As the saying goes, make friends with others. I hope you can work as hard as I do, do your own thing well, don't spread rumors casually, let alone speak ill of others.

If you speak ill of your colleagues, there will be a great backlash, including that audience. In fact, the audience is not stupid. They will think that you are a person who speaks ill of others. No one wants to associate with such people, so you may lose more.

In fact, how a person is is his own business, and everyone has his own choice. We have no responsibility or obligation to evaluate or change. If a person is really hateful, you might as well comfort yourself like this: hateful people must have compassion. Some people see the world differently from others because they have been hurt by others. We should be glad that we have not become such a person and have not been hurt so deeply by others.

It is inevitable that someone will speak ill of colleagues or yourself in life, so don't take the initiative to participate. It is better to do one more thing. As long as you keep your distance from these people, these people often don't take the initiative to approach themselves.

However, when talking with others, sometimes, I am careless, put my foot in my mouth and said the shortcomings of others. If it is an unintentional mistake, I should apologize in time to show my sincerity and resolve the contradictions and barriers between colleagues. If you have a sincere apology, you can always remember it for a long time and be more careful when you speak in the future.