How to stay away from annoying relatives?

There are always a few relatives around us, which may only be seen during the New Year. They are basically strangers, and I don't know how many generations have passed, but this doesn't prevent them from "meddling" at all.

Obviously unfamiliar, but always like to ask questions.

When you know that you are capable and rich, ask for help and borrow money in various ways. If you help once, they will ask for more. If you refuse them, they will slander you everywhere and say that you are a heinous ingrate. And when they know that you are incompetent, they will simply ignore you, a poor relative, and won't even pretend to be next time they meet.

Reader Xiao Wei once told me his story: "His career was just right that year. When he came home for the New Year, a relative was very enthusiastic about him, so he was embarrassed. During the Spring Festival, he bought a lot of new year's goods for that relative. " In the second year, because of business losses, the company closed down, so I went home early for the New Year. In order to save money, I decided to find a relative to stay for one night first, but I don't know which relative said a lot of gossip behind my back just because I stayed for one night. Xiao Wei also understands this, because they are fake, familiar and have no family relationship at all.

False relatives are often snobbish. No matter how enthusiastic they are, they just talk and do nothing.

They all say: "The world is bustling for profit, and the world is bustling for profit."

Most fake relatives come and go for profit, so stay away.

Answer the Chinese New Year and stay away from nosy relatives.

They all say, "shallow friendship is not deep."

The same applies to some nosy relatives, because those nosy relatives can't control their mouths at all. As long as you say it, the whole village must know.

They are inquisitive, not really worried about some people, but to satisfy their own gossip psychology.

In their minds, the more depressed you are, the more miserable you are, so the more satisfied they are when they say it, because all your misfortunes and valleys will become the biggest jokes in their mouths.

It's like "people's joys and sorrows are not connected, I just think they are noisy."

And when you are excellent, they will not spread the real you, but spread you in various ways, which will not give you a good reputation.

Of course, the above three kinds of relatives are only a few relatives.

In reality, most relatives are kind. Even if they envy you again, they won't take the initiative to harm you. They are annoying only because they choose the wrong expression.

If relatives are not so advanced, they can only express their concern with unpleasant or even excessive words. Simple and old-fashioned persuasion often turns into meddling.

And in the face of these relatives' "meddling", you should not be flustered and angry.

You might as well say to them, "Thank you for your advice. I will think about it. Let's talk about something else. "