Control your temper and your happiness.

Control your temper and your happiness.

We all know that everyone has his own temper, which is caused by our different personalities. We always lose our temper over trifles. Let's take a look at the emotional essay about controlling temper and keeping happy. I hope you like it.

Control your temper and keep your blessings. Everyone has a temper.

Losing your temper is just instinct. It's skill to control it.

Temper is coming, and luck is gone. If you want to keep the blessing, you must first control your temper.

Before you get angry, you might as well ask yourself a few questions:

Why should I lose my temper?

Is it worth losing your temper?

Can losing your temper solve the problem?

Maybe someone will say, who cares to think when you are angry!

You know, take the word "anger" apart, the upper part is a slave and the lower part is a heart. This shows that a person who can't even control his temper is doomed to be a slave of thought.

Orison marden wrote in "The Capital of Life": "At any time, a person should not be a slave to his own heart. He should not let all actions be subject to his own emotions, but should control them in turn."

No one is born knowing how to control his temper. But truly educated people will try to avoid immersing themselves in bad emotions and not let their bad temper affect others.

As the wife of Dr. Sun Yat-sen, Soong Ching Ling has made great contributions to the welfare of women and children.

Such a respected and accomplished woman has always maintained a gentle and polite good temper even in the most difficult times.

After the death of Dr. Sun Yat-sen, Chiang Kai-shek came to offer condolences. In order to inherit her husband's will, young Soong Ching Ling could not hide her grief, but she still showed her due dignity.

The situation is turbulent, and the Song tomb in Shanghai cemetery was stolen. Soong Ching Ling, who is nearly in her twilight years, fought back her anger only to maintain hard-won peace and stability.

A reporter once described her like this: "This woman is generous, kind and considerate, just like a deep and broad river, knowing her own channel, not rushing out of the embankment, and conveying all her hopes and goals to the sea."

As the old saying goes, first-class people have skill and no temper. Second-class, capable and tempered; The last person is incompetent and has a big temper.

People who achieve great things are often mature inside and know how to control their temper, because they know very well that losing their temper can't solve the problem.

If you do something wrong, who are you to lose your temper? If you are not wrong, why punish yourself with other people's mistakes?

Life is always trivial, and life is always full of problems.

As the saying goes, smooth sailing makes life boring. In life, always control your temper, don't worry when things happen, and be more patient with others.

Don't always dwell on trifles. Doing so will only bring trouble to your close relatives and friends, and also bring trouble to yourself.

Don't always be angry with people and things you care about. Doing so will not make things better, but will hurt those who also care about you because of what you say when you are angry.

Happiness or unhappiness depends on your state of mind. Life is not satisfactory, and I spend most of my time with myself.

Life never deliberately owes anyone. It casts a small shadow here, and it will certainly cast a large sunshine not far away.

We can't decide others, but at least learn to control our temper. As long as you try to change, even the smallest progress is better than being stuck in the same place and only complaining and angry.

Temper is like a wild horse. If you don't know how to control constraints and let them collide at will, it will inevitably trample on your inner peace.

You have to put a halter on it carefully and always hold the reins in your hand. Don't let wild horses get out of control and become beasts that hurt people everywhere.

Whether you are angry, sulking, or complaining, don't accumulate in your heart.

The mentality is relaxed and the pattern is naturally opened; If you control your temper, life will be smooth.

Being a man should be atmospheric, less tempered and more kind, so as to gather popularity and stay blessed.

I wish every friend good luck and a happy life.

Be able to control your temper and stay blessed. There are always troubles in life, big and small, which make you breathless and can't control your temper.

Mr. Hu Shi once said:

The worst thing in the world is an angry face; The dirtiest thing in the world is to show your angry face to others, which is worse than beating and cursing.

The seemingly ordinary "temper" has a subtle influence on everyone's life.

Losing your temper is instinct, and controlling it is skill.

If you can calm your emotions, life will give you peace.

Temper hides a person's accomplishment.

People often ask, what is cultivation?

Self-cultivation is not a matter of high academic qualifications or family background, but rather: when you speak, you are careless, generous and virtuous, when you do things, you are amiable and reasonable.

An educated person knows how to control his emotions and keep his inner peace.

Hu Shi wrote in the article "My Mother":

My mother is generous, good-natured, kind and gentle, and has never said anything hurtful.

Hu Shi's family was depressed when he was a child, and a large group of debt collectors would go home every New Year's Eve.

Mother came in and out, taking care of her age, without a trace of resentment on her face.

In the middle of the night, give each debtor some money and send the debt collector away happily.

The eldest sister-in-law is not sensible and the second sister-in-law is narrow-minded, but the mother never quarrels with the two eldest sisters.

"They often quarrel, but because of my mother's good example, they never publicly scold each other."

Finally, Hu Shi wrote:

"If I learn a little good temper, if I learn a little kindness to others, if I can forgive and understand others-I must thank my loving mother."

Cheng Hao, a great scholar in the Northern Song Dynasty, said:

A lady's affection is easy to control, but she is very angry.

First, when you are angry, you can suddenly forget your anger. When you look at right or wrong, you can also see that the external incentives are not evil enough, but you don't think too much.

Stupid people only get angry when things happen; A wise man can control his temper and win in the atmosphere.

When I was young, I was high-spirited and always felt happy.

After maturity, I understand that a person's good temper is the most precious accomplishment.

People with a big temper often have little skill.

In life, when evaluating a person, it is often mentioned that "this person is actually quite good, but his temper is not so good."

Understatedly, insignificant, as if to understand Bao's bad temper.

However, in the final analysis, bad temper is actually a low-level selfishness.

According to Shi Shuo Xin Yu, there was a man with a big temper in the Eastern Jin Dynasty named Wang Lantian.

Once he ate an egg and held it with chopsticks. When he missed it, he was very angry and threw the egg on the ground.

The eggs whirled on the ground as if to provoke him.

Wang Lantian flew into a rage and rushed to crush the eggs, but missed.

He was so angry that he picked up the egg, put it in his mouth, chewed it up and threw it on the ground.

Someone listened, shook his head and sighed: "Even if you are blessed and have such a bad temper, there is no cure."

Being angry for such a trivial matter is actually punishing yourself with your own anger.

If you can't control your temper, even if you give the whole world, you will destroy everything sooner or later.

Everyone has a temper. When you feel angry, you should learn to express yourself gently

If you can't bear the consequences, just vent your emotions and finally make yourself a joke.

"Xunzi" said: "I can't get rid of anger, and I can't be happy."

If you are right, you don't need to lose your temper; If you are wrong, you have no right to lose your temper.

Sometimes, to know whether a person can achieve anything depends on whether he can control his temper.

A truly capable person never fails to live up to expectations and is not angry.

The warmer the temper, the deeper the blessing.

Mr. nan huaijin said in The Analects of Confucius:

The upper class has skill and no temper, the middle class has skill and no temper, and the lower class has no skill and no temper.

This is not to say that people who have no temper have great skills, but that many people with great skills have gradually learned to control their emotions.

Du went from a rural orphan to the "Emperor of Shanghai" because he was capable and had no temper.

Du treats people, rich or poor, with an excellent temper. His servants often say, "Mr. Du is easy to serve. When we do something wrong, he speaks softly."

Looking for him to handle affairs, whether high-ranking officials, celebrities or ordinary people, Du is very polite:

"I know you."

"I'll do it for you."

"Ok, goodbye."

It is this good temper that makes Du not only have a deep friendship with political and business celebrities, but also be deeply loved by the people.

Capable people have been trying to improve their abilities, not their temper.

The feast master said:

Virtue is a blessing, anger is not a curse, life is prolonged and wisdom is abundant.

A good-natured person is all-inclusive, with a bright future and profound blessings.

As the saying goes: the warmer the temper, the deeper the blessing.

No matter what you hate, you should mention it again and again and put it down gently.

Every day is a beautiful day, and a beautiful time is not for being angry.

Cultivate good temper and win good luck.

Good temper is reserved for those who love it.

When Yang Lan interviewed Zhou, he asked, "Why do we all leave our good temper to outsiders and our bad temper to the people we love the most?"

Zhou, who has always been gentle, was silent for a while and said, "I often make this mistake."

Yes, a person's biggest mistake is to give the worst temper and the worst side to the closest relatives and favorite people.

Unfortunately, most people make this mistake.

So Zhou said to:

It is instinct to find fault with people close to you, but it is an education to overcome instinct and not lose your temper with people close to you.

Life is so tiring that no one is born with a good temper.

After experiencing joys and sorrows, I understand love and tolerance, and I understand that I should cherish the people around me.

The depth of the water slows down the flow, and the late words are expensive.

A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts in June.

Many times you will find that even if you are reasonable, what should you do if you lose your temper and win a temporary arrogance?

Good temper, but also for the loved ones, might as well start from the dribs and drabs around you.

1, emergency, speak slowly.

In case of emergency, think calmly, make things clear without haste, and deal with things calmly and slowly.

2, small things, humorously said.

In particular, some kind reminders, said in a joking way, will not make people feel stiff.

3, you can't say hurtful words.

No matter who the other person is, don't hurt others easily with words, especially close people, who are more likely to feel sad.

4, husband and wife, discuss and say.

Between husband and wife, the most feared thing is to blame each other when things happen. On the contrary, mutual consultation will play the role of "family" and enhance each other's feelings.

5, the child's business, enlighten.

Especially adolescent children are very rebellious. It will be more effective to enlighten them with a gentle and firm attitude, rather than blindly suppressing them.

Buddhists call losing temper "burning Kutokuhayashi", and a fire can burn all the merits and demerits of Fulu.

Whether the blessings are consumed or accumulated, whether they are overdrawn or promoted, are hidden in your temper.

Character determines fate, and temper determines happiness.

To keep the blessing, we must first control our temper.

Life is short, so you might as well be less angry, more graceful, less tempered and more blessed.