What does it mean when a girl takes the initiative to say good night?

1. Junjun, 22 years old, student, she said: I don’t mean anything, I’m just sleepy. Ever since I was little, my parents would say good night to me every day before going to bed, give me a good night kiss, and say Good night has become a habit. In my eyes, saying good night means that you are sleepy and want to sleep, and there is no other meaning. I think saying "good night" is just like saying "thank you" and "sorry", it is a kind of etiquette. Once, due to work reasons, I had to work with a colleague. Because I was busy very late, I habitually said "It's very late, good night." A few minutes later, he sent a message, "Are you interested?" I was asked inexplicably. Isn't this too funny? Good night, for some women, is a very simple and polite expression. In many cases, we can understand it normally and there is no need to misinterpret its meaning too much. Therefore, when a man is chatting with a woman, it is best for a man to understand her personality, her speaking habits, and the way she treats others, and make a comprehensive analysis and understanding based on these before making a final judgment. You must not just rely on your own subjective knowledge to guess out of thin air, otherwise it may really make a joke and embarrass everyone. 2. Keiko, 28 years old, makeup artist, said: When I said "good night", my meaning was really obvious, that is, I didn't want to waste time talking to a man I didn't like. Recently, a colleague chased me very hard. Yes, chatting with me all day long, I am really bored to death. But it’s not to the point of tearing off my face, so whenever I don’t want to talk to him, I will take the initiative to say good night to him. Once, I just said good night to him and went to play a game. I didn’t find him but I bumped into him in the game. It was so embarrassing. He actually came up and asked, aren't you asleep? At that time, I really felt so embarrassed. I also thought why this man was so annoying and couldn't read other people's faces. The next day at work, he had the audacity to ask me what was going on? I no longer wanted to play the guessing game with him, and my intuition told him, "I don't want to talk to you." From what Keiko said, men should watch their food. If you are having a lively chat with a woman, and she suddenly and inexplicably takes the initiative to say good night to you without any other meaning, it is probably because she does not want to talk to you. Maybe it’s because the topic you’re talking about bores her, or maybe you bore her as a whole. In short, in this case, when a woman takes the initiative to say “good night” to you, she just doesn’t want to waste time talking to you anymore. So, when a man hears a woman say good night to you, he must learn to understand the meaning behind the words. Because sometimes "good night" may mean rejection. Don't be rejected by others and still be stupid and don't know what happened. 3. Liu Er, 26 years old, freelancer, she said: If it were me, saying good night to a man would mean "I like you." Just imagine, who would say such intimate and disgusting words to an insignificant person all day long? I am relatively introverted and I don’t say good night to anyone easily. I always think that the word "good night" is very meaningful, it means like. In my opinion, good night is something that can only be said to people who are close to you. Therefore, I will not say good night to any man casually, I will only say it to the one I love. I want to wait until I meet the person I like and say good night to him every night. I want to let him understand my feelings in this way. For some women, saying good night is also a way to express their feelings. If a woman says good night to you every day, chances are she likes you. Because, when some women like someone, they like to say good morning and good night to him. Just imagine, a woman takes the initiative to say good night to you before going to bed every day. What kind of mood does this feel like? This means that she misses you every day and even hopes to see you in her dreams. So, when you meet such a woman again, if you treat her as an ordinary friend, just give her a simple reply. If you also like her, you can give her a bold reply of "Good night, see you in my dreams." In short , we must grasp the scale. The word "good night" seems simple, but it has different meanings. When a woman takes the initiative to say "good night" to you, she may mean different things. It may be a polite statement with no other meaning; it may be a tactful refusal and I don’t want to talk to you for the time being; or it may be a tentative courtship to express my love. In short, no matter what it means, men must see through the phenomenon to see the essence, analyze specific problems concretely, and cannot think wildly, nor can they be ignorant and ignorant.

, the next time a woman says good night to you, you should know what she wants to express, right? You can also find the most correct way to respond, right? What does it mean when a girl takes the initiative to say good night? 2. 1. When it’s still early. If it’s still early, and the girl says good night to you and only responds perfunctorily during the chat, Didn't start the conversation at all. Then these characteristics are obviously not interested in you, and they just want to end the chat as soon as possible when saying good night. At this time, you can simply reply good night, or just don't reply at all. On the one hand, this shows her that you are very sensible and not a piece of dog-skin plaster that cannot be shaken off. On the contrary, you also have a great attitude. If she doesn't want to talk to you, then you won't talk. You don't have a passive attitude of worrying about gains and losses. 2. It's early, but the reply is slow. Sometimes you can feel that she likes to chat with you and will not use replies like "um, ah, oh" to perfunctory you, and she will also take the initiative to ask you questions. During the chat, it was very harmonious and there was no awkward atmosphere, but she was just slow to reply. Then maybe she is really busy, and she may have to do other things when she says good night. Of course, some girls will take the initiative to tell you that she still has something else to be busy with, so she says good night to you. In this case, you can't say anything like "It's still early, let's chat for a while", which will naturally lower your favorability in her mind to a girl who still has a good impression of you. 3. The time is relatively late. Generally speaking, if a girl’s usual schedule is to fall asleep before ten o’clock, but she chats with you until eleven o’clock or even twelve o’clock before saying “good night”, the time has exceeded the usual time for girls to fall asleep. The fact that she is willing to chat with you until so late proves that she is still very interested in you. Good night at this time means that she is really going to sleep. Even if you haven't talked enough and feel energetic, let her sleep. Therefore, identifying the meaning of a girl suddenly taking the initiative to say good night and responding correctly will play a certain role in positioning yourself in the girl's heart. What does it mean when a girl takes the initiative to say good night? 3 01. In relationships, men and women always have different ways of thinking, so when they are in love, it may be difficult for men to truly understand women’s thoughts. When chatting with women, Sometimes, I can't hear what a woman is saying. After all, in many cases, a woman is still very reserved, so no matter what she is thinking in her heart, she will not say it easily, but will express her thoughts through some more secret words. People in today's era are always used to going to bed late. Before falling asleep every day, they can hear the opposite sex saying good night to themselves, and I believe they will sleep more comfortably. But when a woman takes the initiative to say "good night" to you What exactly did she want to express? Xiaodong has been very depressed recently. Although the woman he loves says good night to him every night, she goes to bed too early every day. She sends him a good night right after dinner, and Xiaodong is too embarrassed to say it again. Go and bother her. 02. Everyone in the company knows that Xiaodong likes his colleague Xiaomei. He goes to chat with her every day when he has nothing to do. However, Xiaomei is not interested in Xiaodong, so she never responds to him. But recently, the two of them have The contact is getting less and less. Xiaomei knew that Xiaodong always liked to chat with her at night, so before Xiaodong could chat with her, she sent him a good night early and didn't want to continue communicating with him. Maybe in the eyes of many people, it is very happy to hear their beloved woman say good night to them before going to bed, but for Xiaodong, it is really miserable. What Xiaomei said about good night is actually... Suggesting "don't disturb me" good night brings a kind of alienation. Sometimes, when a woman is not interested in the topic you are talking about, or does not want to continue chatting with you, she may choose to take the initiative to say good night to you, hoping to end the conversation between the two people. 03. Of course, it is usually a good sign for women to take the initiative to say good night. After all, women are often more reserved. The word "good night" also has a certain degree of intimacy, so women will not Just say it to others casually. If there is a woman who has a good relationship with you and often says good night to you before going to bed, it can be seen that your status in her heart is still very high, and she will also think of you before she falls asleep. In fact, there are not many men who are treated like this. When a woman treats you like this, you should understand the hint she is giving you and hope that there can be more communication between the two people and the relationship between the two people. can be further developed.

So when you receive this kind of hint from a woman to you, as a man, you should be more proactive and communicate with her frequently, so that more stories can happen between the two of you. 04. There is another explanation for the word "good night" on the Internet, which is "I love you." So when a woman says good night to you, she may also be expressing her feelings for you in a subtle way. A woman is always more emotional than a man, so when she finds that a man has no direction in his feelings for two people, she will express her feelings by saying "good night", hoping that one day the two of them can be together. . But this is not the case for Xiaodong and Xiaomei, although the word "good night" is often better. But when it comes to Xiaodong, it's a different story. Xiaomei takes the initiative to say good night to him every day because she doesn't want to chat with him. This is also a kind of helplessness. Although there is a big difference in the way men and women think, if a man pays careful attention, he can still grasp a woman's truest inner thoughts very accurately. For relationships, the most important thing is to treat them sincerely, but for men, they should be more proactive more often.