What should I do if I find that my obesity and my misfortune have become jokes of my good friends?

First, from your point of view, think about what your friends are like. First of all, I think everyone is different when making friends. It is very likely that she doesn't like you at all, and making friends with you is only superficial. Is she really kind to you? Did she do anything when you needed help? I have always felt that if a person can't show up when you need it, or even treat these experiences as a joke, you will not be regarded as a friend 90% of the time. What's the story? It's easy to talk standing up.

This kind of friend, if you find that you don't take you seriously in the process of contact with her, then let your heart go. Only when she has something of her own will she think of you, use you and even laugh at you. Maybe she feels that she hurts you again and again, and sometimes she is unhappy when she can't see you. There is really no need to be friends.

If such people don't comfort you when you are unlucky, or even sprinkle salt on your wound, then such people really don't need to be friends. I never thought that a person that big didn't even look like this. A good friend must know you better. This kind of knowing it is even more irritating.

Another situation is that she is not so serious about you. She's fine, but she's careless. She doesn't care about your innermost thoughts many times. But when she sees that you are unhappy, she will still care about you and ask you, so this can't be said to be sarcasm. After all, it is possible for girlfriends to be black with each other. I also believe that there must be such a friend, because my friend has a good girlfriend. She is careless, not to mention her, but she seldom cares about her object. But people are pure and kind.

In fact, a thousand sentences and ten thousand sentences ultimately depend on the friendship between you, which is not absolute. Besides, no one expresses love in different ways. Some people love you more, others are more subtle, know you very well and will comfort you when you are in a bad mood. Of course, the final way to deal with these things depends on you, and what others say is just some suggestions, which is not enough to generalize. So the final treatment is up to you.

At this time, no matter what others say, they are just their own ideas. Don't let other people's words affect your thoughts, and don't think that she has been a good friend for more than ten years. Even if she changed in the end, she didn't take you seriously. Such friends are as far away as possible.

Finally, I hope you can finish it as soon as possible. I also hope that your friendship will last. Everyone is imperfect, but if she is willing to change some of her small shortcomings for you, this friendship is progressive and meaningful.