How to change your dogmatic speaking tone?

In modern society, "joking" is becoming more and more indispensable. Being able to joke represents a person's humor, wisdom, and openness. mentality, and a funny attitude towards life, so joking is also a kind of wisdom. However, some people tend to live too dogmatically, especially when speaking. They will also look embarrassed when others joke. In fact, this needs to change. , because after all, life is for yourself and for happiness, living too rigidly will not only make you tired, but also make people around you gradually alienate yourself.

The dogmatic way of speaking actually comes from the dogmatic way of thinking. Perhaps the root cause is the family environment in which they grew up. Children from a family that speaks formally and unsmilingly will inevitably be a little reserved and appear to be He is incompatible with this society, because when he faces everything, he thinks and understands with a tense nerve, and he also comes to conclusions that make people feel too dogmatic. This is not his fault, but It’s a matter of inherent thinking. As long as we slowly change it, we can definitely adjust it. At this time, we very much need to work hard to adjust, adapt, and learn to be a person who can joke. Even if we can’t joke, we must at least be someone who understands. You guys, this is great, isn't it?

The reason why joking is a kind of wisdom is because it can alleviate too many embarrassing situations and can also bring a sense of relaxation and intimacy to people at any time. If you find that people around you are joking If you can't understand it, then it means you are already a little behind the times. Although many jokes come from jokes and "memes" on the Internet, it does not mean that those jokes are not worth learning, and it does not mean that they are irrelevant. , the first thing you have to learn is to know where these memes come from, and what makes people think they are ridiculous. You may feel that doing so is clumsy and stupid, but I think this is the most direct way to change yourself. Only by understanding the reasons for some small jokes can we develop the same kind of sense of humor, and then we can gradually accept this "joking" way of thinking. Doesn't it make sense?

In the final analysis, if you want to change your dogmatic way of thinking and speaking, you must relax your mind, focus on small things, and become interested in small things in life. Being interested in small things in life will come naturally to you. You will discover a lot of interesting little things, and you will naturally let go of your tight nerves, and slowly find that this relaxed and joyful lifestyle is really good and comfortable, and your dogmatic thinking will gradually fade away, which makes you If you inadvertently choose humor and an optimistic life, you will slowly discover that you don’t need to be serious at all times in life. Changing your attitude may make you live a happier life, so why not start changing yourself? Even if it's just a bad joke, it's enough to change your attitude towards life in the future.