Who gave me the 10 philosophical story?

Author: Yu Dan

Whether a woman is old or not lies not in how many wrinkles there are on her face, but in whether she is light or not. A woman with a light figure will not get old, although her face is wrinkled.

I remembered a story: a king was very picky and could never find a suitable wife. One day, he met a girl as spotless as a fairy at the edge of the forest and fell in love at first sight. He wanted to marry her as the queen, but the girl agreed, but on one condition: she would return to the forest at 4 pm every day, only for one hour, and she must come out at 5 pm; Don't ask why or follow her. The king agreed and took the girl back to the palace. The young queen Xia Zi won everyone's love. She bore children for the king and coordinated the affairs inside and outside the palace. She is neither sad nor upset, and everything is in order. The king thinks she is a perfect woman. It is unshakable that she must go back to the forest at that time every day.

After more than 20 years, the children have grown up, and the middle-aged queen looks as young, soft and bright as before; I don't lose my temper. I've been like this for over 20 years. The king became more and more afraid and felt that he was not married to a mortal. He suspected that she was enchanted when she returned to the forest every day. That strong curiosity tortured him and made him break his word. Finally, one day, he quietly followed the queen into the forest. He watched the queen jump around and came to a small river. There are stones and flowers on the green grass. The queen took off her diamond-encrusted crown, her gorgeous robe and all her clothes one by one until she sat naked on the grass. The queen watched the clouds in the sky for a while, played in the stream for a while, smelled the flowers and listened to the birds singing. At that time, the light was still very good, and the light hanging over her was particularly soft and full. There is no fairy, and there is no magic. When she was a child, she put on her clothes one by one, put on her crown and skipped out of the forest with her skirt.

In fact, in the past 20 years, she just did the same thing every day. This is the secret of turning mortals into fairies: returning to nature like virgins and babies. At that moment, she was neither a queen nor a mother, nor did she have any social status. She is just a virgin, as close to her own life as cattle, sheep and grass. So I've been thinking, how can people find ways to keep their lives fresh? I think whether you learn from cattle and sheep or give yourself an hour silently like a fairy, you are giving yourself a reason to keep your life fresh in the transformation of life coordinates.

People have mixed feelings about growth, and the days are advancing, but people are also aging. In fact, the older you get, the more you will think about this problem, that is, how to keep people's lives alive in the streamer. What is the freshness of life? I think there are many old people, and their innocence will make young people tempted.

I sometimes think, what can we use to resist the streamer? Today is the material age, and women are afraid of getting old. There are cosmetics outside, nutrient solution inside and a lot of vitamins, which is nothing more than icing on the cake. What really comes in handy is that you have the ability to keep your life updated, a curiosity, a pleasure to do things instead of spending, and a nourishment of life, which can have the real meaning of keeping your life fresh forever.

Dig a well

Two monks live next door. The so-called next door is the mountain next door. They live in temples on two adjacent hills. There is a stream between the two mountains, so the two monks go down to get water at the same time every day. Over time, they became good friends.

In this way, five years passed unconsciously in carrying water every day. Suddenly one day, the monk on the left mountain didn't go down to fetch water. The monk on the mountain on the right thought, "He probably overslept." I don't care.

I don't know if the monk on Zuoshan still didn't go down to fetch water the next day, nor did he on the third day. It was the same after a week, until a month later, the monk on the right mountain finally couldn't stand it. He thought, "My friend may be ill, so I'm going to see him and see what I can do." So he climbed the mountain on the left to visit his old friend.

When he arrived at the temple on the left side of the mountain, he was surprised to see his old friend, because his old friend was beating Tai Ji Chuan in front of the temple, unlike a man who had not drunk water for a month. He asked curiously, "You haven't carried water down the mountain for a month. Can you not drink water? "

The monk on the left mountain said, "Come, let me show you." So he took the monk from the mountain on the right to the backyard of the temple, pointed to a well and said, "In the past five years, I took time to dig this well every day after finishing my homework, even if I was busy sometimes, I dug as much as I could. Now that I have finally dug up the well water, I don't have to go down the mountain to fetch water, and I can have more time to practice my favorite Tai Ji Chuan. "

How much salary we get in the company is just a waste of water. And grasp the time after work to dig a well of your own. In the future, when you are old, your physical strength will be inferior to that of young people. You still have water to drink. Drink it leisurely.

Instant happiness

God does not allow children to remember their parents' deep love forever, which will make them unable to grow up; Parents are not allowed to remember the sacrifices they made for their children forever, which will make the elderly fall into self-pity and expect returns. Children are just the eyes of sad and happy middle-aged people.

I wrote several articles and invited some young friends to read them. They only took one look and concluded: "This is for the elderly, wait until I am old!" " "It depresses me. Because, I'm just writing to young friends. If you are lucky or unlucky to live to my age, you won't have time to watch any more. You only have time to be upset.

Before the disintegration of the Soviet Union, there was a popular story. Congress had a heated debate on improving prisons or schools. The importance of schools is well known in the world; A prison is a place where criminals are held. It doesn't matter whether it's thick or not. However, just before the vote, a forward-looking legislator made a speech, which turned the situation around and unanimously approved the improvement of prisons.

That sentence is "is it possible for you to go to school in this life?" -blessed are the readers who don't understand this humor. You're away from the horrors of voodoo. In this humor, forward-looking members remind everyone:

"I can't go to school anymore, but I may go to jail again!" That's why I wrote these articles. Young friends must understand that I am not calling for being old, but I hope young friends understand that if you don't die young, then I am afraid you must be old.

At the beginning, I suggested that young parents, who are new parents, uproot the expected psychology of "raising children to prevent old age" in traditional culture. It's useless to talk, but they must have a profound natural mentality. It is not that accepting gifts or feedback from children is evil, but that it is not easy to do so. Children have their own children to raise, their own world to face, and they can't take care of everything. Moreover, love is downward, except for the Confucian sage system, which goes against the sky and incites the destruction of ethics with the tragedy of "Guo Ju burying his son". Generally speaking, people love their children more than their parents.

However, parents don't have to be as solemn as statues and publicize: "Raising children is a responsibility!" "Let the warmth of mutual help be as cold as a steel plate. If one day, the child suddenly opens his eyes and warns the old man, "You have the responsibility to provide for my college graduation!" " "The world must become a glacier. If one day, parents drive adult children out of the door and clap their hands and say, "My responsibility is over, you must never come back!" " "Or one day, adult children will leave, and if we don't meet again, I'm afraid there won't be the problem of the elderly at that time, but only the problem of the jackal.

Human beings have a special feeling, a gene specially endowed by nature, which makes parents and children have long-term care. Responsibility comes and goes, and care is always there.

Put your feelings in the right place, and neither side will lose them. When people reach middle age, family interaction is a kind of staged happiness. Don't give it too serious meaning, and don't take it lightly. God does not allow children to remember their parents' deep love forever, which will make them unable to grow up; Parents are not allowed to always remember the sacrifices they have made for their children, which will make the elderly feel sorry for themselves and expect returns. Moreover, in fact, children can already use children's language, hug and "mom, I love you so much!" " ""Dad, I want to marry a good husband like Dad! "It worked completely! Yes, it paid off completely. Children are just the eyes of sad and happy middle-aged people.

People who used to have immediate pleasure and cherish it will be much happier in their old age.

Author: Bai Yang

mustard seed

In ancient times, there was a king who ordered a history to be written for him. A ten-volume history has been written, and the king is not satisfied. Compressed into five volumes, the king was still not satisfied. Finally, his history is abbreviated as "his birth, life and death".

The king is a great mustard seed. We should respect him, and at the same time, we should re-read an old story, which is recorded in the Talmud.

One day, the wise man Kony saw a man planting carob trees on the road. He asked, "How many years will it take for this tree to bear fruit?"

The man replied, "Seventy years."

The wise man asked again, "Do you believe you can live for seventy years?"

The man replied, "I have seen carob trees in the world." Just as my predecessors planted trees for me, I will also plant trees for my descendants. Someone used to work for me. Why shouldn't I work for the future? "

We are mustard seeds, but each of us came to this world with our own secret mission. Maybe we can all write on our tombstones without fear: "He was born, lived and died."

Results are more important than rules.

If you don't give yourself any restrictions, there will be no restrictions on you.

People who know too much have too many rules, but they are bound by themselves and miss development opportunities. The truly successful person is not without principles, but knows that he is not limited by principles. They are result-oriented, because results are ten thousand times more important than principles.

People often don't know what they want, so they make many jokes like "buy a gift and return the pearl" It is the biggest failure in the world to stick to the so-called rules and miss the result without knowing it.

Remember, your boss only cares about your performance, and efforts without results are worthless. We should establish the mentality that the result comes first and realize that the result determines everything. Then, the whole team actively cooperated to get the result. If the individual does not pay attention to the results, the individual has no future; If the team doesn't pay attention to the results, the team is worthless.

Rules obey and serve the purpose, and what life wants is the result.

Master's details

Although Qian Zhongshu is a world-famous university expert, his childishness has been with him all his life.

My daughter is still a doll's age. He often draws a big painted face on her belly when she is asleep. Or bury mines in her bed: toys, mirrors, brushes, writing brushes, inkstones, even brooms and dustpans. He smiled proudly when her daughter screamed. Once, he fell ill and was admitted to the hospital, where he lived with Xia Yan. On Xia Yan's birthday, his daughter also gave Qian Zhongshu a cake. Qian Zhongshu, whose condition has just improved, opened his mouth, sat by the bed and ate heartily, chatting with people who came to visit. Suddenly he found the reporter's camera lens, so he opened the quilt and covered the people and the cake, completely ignoring the cream covered by the quilt.

In the mid-1980s, he was elected as the vice chairman of the Chinese Writers Association, but he never left Suzhou. Soon, I met with the unit, but I don't know how old he is as a Beijing official and what level of treatment he should be. I called Beijing to ask, and the people there vaguely said that it was equivalent to the deputy provincial level. The local government was very busy. At that time, there were no such big officials in Suzhou, so Lu was assigned a small villa, a single house and a car. After the new house was allocated, he received foreign guests at home for the first time and made a joke. That day, he personally drove the foreign guests home. Because the boundary of his house is too narrow, the car pulls over and can only get off from the outside. Sitting outside, he should get off first. Out of courtesy, he insisted on humility, but the guests couldn't get out inside, so the international friends had to say, "I'm sorry!" " "Then he stretched out his legs and finally crossed in front of him.

Huang Yongyu, a famous painting and calligraphy artist, loved painting since childhood. As a teenager, he became famous for his excellent woodcut works and was known as "one of the three prodigies in China". In that year, Master Huang Yongyu came to Beijing with his vicissitudes and soul-shaking paintings, and lived in the former residence of mustard in Jingxin Lane. This is a house that has been shelved for many years. There is not even a window on the wall. I felt depressed as soon as I walked in. However, Huang Yongyu didn't hate the hut. He smiled and took out a piece of white drawing paper and stuck it on the wall. Then the alphabet hand drew a window on it, which looked like a real window. He suddenly felt that the sunshine outside the house poured into the hut like running water, and everything inside the house immediately became extremely vivid.

Life is actually a collection of details. A casual detail can reflect a person's self-restraint and inner realm. Qian Zhongshu, Lu, and Lu are all masters, but they are capricious in life, and over time, they become persistent in life, just like the tranquility, peace, lightness and Ming Che of the water towns in the south of the Yangtze River, with enduring charm.

Make a living and have fun.

I will walk until the river blocks my way, and then sit down and watch the clouds rising in Ran Ran. In fact, life is very simple, there are only two things-making a living and having fun.

Some people say that "making a living" is a bitter word, which means to endure, give, be tired, be helpless, suffer indignities, wear stars and Dai Yue, and sweat like rain. Making a living is a necessary skill for people to become "people". Knowing how to make a living will not become a burden to society, but will bear various responsibilities of the family.

From birth, we are taught by our parents all the necessary qualities to make a living. Think about learning to walk and fall when you were a child. My parents will definitely tell us to be strong and get up by ourselves. This has begun to train our ability to make money. Then, insist on reading and learning, learn all kinds of knowledge and skills, and understand all kinds of life truths, which is to prepare for future livelihood. After taking part in the work, I try my best to adapt, be dedicated, enterprising and patient, and bear all kinds of things that I can't help. This is the real livelihood.

Yes, when we have to repay and provoke the responsibilities entrusted by various roles, we are pushed into the competition to make a living. This is a natural life obligation that everyone must fulfill. Therefore, we should not resent and reject all this, that is what we should do. Don't want to live is the most irresponsible behavior, we despise this kind of behavior!

"Love life" is a nice word, which refers to material, interest, taste, cleanliness, love and music. Happiness belongs to the spiritual level, is a state of mind, and has little to do with material things. Material-rich people are not necessarily happy, and poor people are not necessarily unhappy. If you can love life, love all beings and put a bright moon in your heart, then you can face any suffering calmly and find happiness from it.

Life is too short to let troubles drown happiness, and you can't live with troubles all your life. The heart is the root of trouble and happiness. We can't get rid of troubles, get rid of life and death, and achieve nirvana like Buddha. However, we can learn to manipulate our hearts and let ourselves face the sunshine and bright side. As long as our hearts are clear and clean, we will be happy.

Snails and flies

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It is so difficult to find a job now that many people describe him as a job-hunting snail, which is really touching. But the symbol of snail is hard work and duty, so each of us should be down-to-earth, one step at a time, otherwise it will be difficult to achieve it in one step.

Many people are like flies, working blindly for work, regardless of their own preferences, and have no plans for life. Thinking about it is really one of the biggest employment problems in our country. The representative of flies is such a group of empty and unrealistic people. Although the name may make these people feel humiliated, the essential characteristics do reflect this psychological shadow. There is nothing in the world that you get for nothing, even if you pick it up on the ground, you need to bend over.

A group of flies, hiding in the corner, met a snail, but didn't notice the latter. Snails have no sound, but from the eyes of flies who dare not look at each other, we know that these flies are laughing at the quiet snails. Maybe in their eyes, the snail is a stupid thing. It can't fly, do great things or talk. In this world, this kind of thing appears in the eyes of flies, which is very complicated. A year later, they dispersed, some died in the water, some died in cobwebs, and some even lived, but they could only be chased by their owners at people's dinner tables and kept wandering. Finally, one day, instead of wandering, they ran back to a dark place and started guerrillas. When they saw the snail again in the dark, they were surprised to find that the snail was still so optimistic and full of yearning for life.

In fact, life is not so cruel, but some people always like challenges. If you want to be a scientist and an entrepreneur, not everyone can be considered successful. For ordinary people, being a loyal person and doing their daily work may be a very successful life course.

Different ideas affect our working conditions. Many people, like flies, are free without clear goals and can't get used to their self-righteous lifestyle. The result of flies is very thought-provoking. If we have to live an ideal life and work so hard, I think many people can only wait until they are eliminated by society, and it will be too late.

Snail's footsteps are solid, which means confidence in life. Without enough confidence to stick to ordinary work, we often give up halfway. As long as we keep a positive working attitude every day, even if the difficulties are great, we will solve them one by one with your firm perseverance. In this age full of temptations, we can't deal with our daily work so urgently. It is very important to organize our thinking scientifically and arrange our lifestyle.

The cow looks big and the goose looks small.

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Goose eye, everything you see is shrinking; Bull's-eye, what you see is big.

Therefore, the goose is not afraid of anything, because everything is insignificant in its eyes; The cow is afraid of everything because it is powerful in its eyes.

People's eyes are different from those of geese and cows. In general, people and things are in normal proportion, but there are exceptions.

Being a man pays attention to being reasonable. In fact, the reason is very simple: that is: narrow yourself and enlarge others; Lower yourself and raise others.

In this world, people have different positions, different levels of knowledge and different amounts of money, but in terms of their fundamental human values, people are all equal. People are vulgar, what is "vulgar"? People eat whole grains. Therefore, no matter how capable you are, how high your position is and how much money you have, you still have to be an ordinary person, speak Mandarin and do ordinary things. People should treat themselves and others correctly. When people get along with each other, they should learn to be tolerant, think more about the advantages of others, think more about their own shortcomings, remember the advantages of others, stand in each other's position and put themselves in others' shoes. This will not only make others happy, but also make yourself happy.

In the traditional etiquette of China, people bow to each other when they meet. Why? Because bowing is to lower yourself and raise others.

But don't be too aggressive. People should not learn from geese. Goose is not afraid to see people, and everything is reduced. That is underestimating others. But people should not learn from cows. Cows are afraid when they see people, because their eyes are completely opposite to those of geese, and everything they see is magnified. That is to underestimate yourself. Excerpt from The Cow Looks Big and the Goose Looks Small.

God's proof

1987165438+1October 8, New Jersey, USA. Miss Jones left the supermarket with a big bag. The moment I opened the taxi door, my waist was strangled by a hard thing. Suddenly, she realized that she was in trouble.

What happened next confirmed her hunch. She met a young black man, Jackson, who had just wounded a prison guard, grabbed his gun and escaped from the prison. The police car behind him screamed sharply, and Jackson thought of taking hostages. As a result, Miss Jones unfortunately became a lamb to be slaughtered in Jackson's hands.

At Miss Jones's home, she was taped by Jackson in a narrow bathtub, and she became Jackson's bargaining chip with the police. If Miss Jones is to be safe, the police must prepare the helicopter and $6,543,800+in cash within 24 hours.

Jackson is like a trapped animal, and his heart is occupied by tension, anxiety and fear. The distance from the balcony to the bathroom is less than 10 meter, and Jackson walks around, howling like a wolf. However, his wail was masked by the louder and harsher siren outside the window.

However, Miss Jones could hear Jackson's crying and knew Jackson's inner panic better than anyone else. Her tone is gentle and quiet: "Come on, listen to me tell a story, which may help you calm down and make the right choice." Jackson still looks like a human child. He sat down, biting his nails uneasily, and listened to Miss Jones tell her story.

15 years ago, Miss Jones was penniless and worked as a maid in a rich family. The contrast between poverty and wealth often makes her angry. In the end, the devil occupied her heart, and she took the baby from a rich family as a baby and tried to beat it hard.

She also put the baby in this bathtub. To make him stable and comfortable, she put a big pillow under the baby's head. She went out to contact the rich family with a public phone. When she came home, she was stupid. The pillow covered the baby's face and took it away. The child stopped breathing.

Not intentionally, but who can prove it? There was no one at the scene except the baby. Of course, Miss Jones can't prove her innocence. Without witnesses, it is obvious that first-degree murder will be established.

Surprisingly, the rich couple persuaded the jury. They said that besides the baby, there was another person at the scene, and that was God. They found the proof of God in Miss Jones's eyes. Life now is incredible. At the moment when the gavel fell, Miss Jones realized that she had fallen off the cliff and was saved.

At the moment when Jackson walked out of Miss Jones' house, his hands were tied to Jones with tape. The police believe that Jackson tied it himself, because they also found God's proof in Jackson's eyes.

The tooth fairy, Obama and diet pills

(America) Laura? Compiled by bennett Pang Fan Qi.

Last week, my 6-year-old son Pearson lost a front tooth at school. He took it home after school. This tooth was carefully placed in a plastic dental mold box with a beautiful rope tied to it. In public schools, children can pull out a paper towel from the bathroom to wrap the replaced teeth home, which shows one advantage of expensive private schools: the paper towel is upgraded to a box. Pearson grinned and proudly announced to his eldest brother Parker that he had changed his teeth! What makes people laugh and cry is that the naughty peck knocked out his other front tooth by the way.

Pearson was very excited when he slept. He kept imagining how the tooth fairy could compensate for his double loss. Two teeth were lost on the same day, and obviously the integer value will be greater than 2. He is looking forward to extra rewards.

"Mom, that's great! How many rewards will there be for losing two teeth a day? " Pearson asked me. He has a little difficulty in speaking because he has lost two front teeth. I never shy away from pretending that the tooth fairy has filled the children's teeth, because the money is usually found in the clothes of the washing machine the next day and then returned to me. This is just a formality.

This made me think about these questions: What kind of imaginary gift-giving god does my child believe in? If they stop believing, how old will they be before they give up the idea? Who stopped believing in the Easter Bunny and decided to believe in Santa Claus? Who no longer believes in the gods who give gifts, but pretends to continue to believe in order to get gifts? In any case, if you no longer believe in the tooth fairy, you should stop expecting that winged fairy to put money or gifts under your pillow.

I always tell older children not to spoil the fun for their younger brothers and sisters, but I doubt whether they can restrain themselves and tell them the truth cruelly: "Little guy, there is no Santa Claus. Don't you want to think, can such a fat guy come in from such a small chimney? " I always feel very happy when I talk about the street. I think I almost felt the same way when I told my sister-in-law the truth about Santa Claus.

I know Pearson still believes that the tooth fairy really exists. His teeth fell out long before he went to bed, but he still dreamed of receiving magical money. He put a tooth change certificate signed by me under the pillow to make sure that the tooth fairy knew that it was a fact that he changed his teeth.

I know a lady who thinks that SARS virus is caused by Asians eating a plate of soy sauce. My friend Susan believes that StarCaps can definitely make people lose weight, because it is worth $65,438+000. She also believes that her husband will one day come home with a box of precious Tiffany jewels on a whim. I believe that a Chanel suit is worth $6,000. I also believe Warren? Buffett is a stock god who can turn stone into gold. Now, more than 65 million Americans believe that barack obama will bring "change".

From this point of view, it is not difficult to understand why children believe in the Easter Bunny: it runs around the world just to hide those nasty boiled eggs and distribute cheap chocolates and marshmallows into baskets. I think at any age, we will believe what we want to believe.

Turn 180 degrees

When you feel uninterested, depressed or even painful, please think about it. Are you facing the wrong "direction"? If so, you need to make a "walking" direction-

180 degree turn

Heraclitus, an ancient Greek philosopher, said that the way up the mountain is the same as the way down the mountain. Later, many people also said this sentence, but in different ways.

There is a story: two towns gave unemployed families 50 dollars, one of which was declared as "relief money" and the other as "insurance money". Unemployed families in the last town felt that there were too few, full of complaints and looking forward to arranging jobs; Unemployed families in the latter town felt that they had no worries and began to strive for jobs. Fifty dollars is the same, but the effect is different.

Have you heard the story that two salesmen were sent to Africa to sell shoes? One of the salesmen wrote in a telegram sent back to the company: "Return immediately, no one wears shoes here." Another person wrote: "Excellent opportunity, it will sell 6.5438+0 million pairs, because no one here has shoes yet."

When you see half a glass of water, how do you describe it? Is it half a glass of water or half a glass of water? When you think of traffic lights, do you think of red lights or green lights first? In other words, many times, we will face a road like Heraclitus, and we must make a choice: uphill? Or downhill? The key depends on which direction we are facing.

If it is not intentional, it is difficult for people to feel the difference in "altitude" at both ends of the road of life. One mother simply magnified this difference, one towering into the sky and the other stepping on the soles of her feet, just to shock people. She wrote back to her bored daughter and said, "Two prisoners looked out of the window from the prison. One saw the mud and the other saw the stars. "

The daughter looked at her mother's words again and again and felt very ashamed. "All right!" She thought, "I'm going to find that star."

So she stopped complaining about the high temperature outside and went outside to make friends with the neighboring Indians and asked them to teach her how to weave and make pottery. At first, they were a little unfamiliar, but when they learned that she was really interested in these things, they treated each other sincerely. Because of this, she is fascinated by Indian culture, history, language and everything related to Indians, and this place that once made her feel pain has become magical and beautiful.

When we feel dull, we should think of another possibility of life, which is equivalent to changing our walking direction by 180 degrees. Aware of this change, we may be able to raise our depressed life to an unexpected height.

[Interpretation]

This is a short article full of philosophy of life. "The uphill road and the downhill road are the same road", one end leads to the top of the slope and the other end extends to the bottom of the slope. Do you think this is uphill or downhill? If you think this is an uphill road, you will try your best to climb it. Even if you are sweating, you will eventually climb to the top of the uphill and reach a new situation. If you think it's downhill, it may be easier to follow it, but it will soon fall to the bottom of the slope. Similarly, when dealing with life, we should also have a good grasp of "which direction to face", and we must move upward and in a positive direction, so as to "raise our sluggish life to an unexpected height".