What do you mean by aloof? From what aspects, how to achieve detachment?

Literally, it is loneliness and pride.

Performance: I don't fit in with the people around me, always take a cold attitude towards other people's affairs, like to despise people, look down on people who are not to his taste, and most of them will be rude to people. Seeing a group of people laughing and laughing, I feel very naive. I basically have no good friends and like a person. Wait a minute. . . .

Not being aloof means that you can get along with others, at least you will be passionate about some things, understand others' different views from yours, have many friends, and rarely like to play alone, and so on.