The husband forced his wife to borrow seeds, and there were many lovers.

The husband forced his wife to borrow seeds, and there were many lovers.

A rural woman, out of what deep hatred, dare she risk poisoning her husband? Ouyang Fang's idea is "simple": to "live a better life" for herself and her two sons who should not have come into this world. 12 14, Ouyang Fang told the author about her life in Jiangyong County Detention Center. When she first met her husband, her face was full of happiness. When she entered the married life, her face was full of pain and despair.

1994, Ouyang Fang, who just turned 24, was introduced to fellow countryman Lu Hui. Less than a month after they met, they got a marriage certificate.

After more than three years of marriage, Ouyang Fang was beaten by her husband and even called "a bitch who can't lay eggs". Finally, the unbearable Ouyang Fang took her husband to the hospital for examination. I didn't expect Ouyang Fang to be fine, but the crux was Lu Hui. His sperm survival rate is low and he is doomed to be a father.

It happened that Lu Hui had a strong sense of "carrying on the family line" and thought it was shameful that men could not have children. In order to inherit the incense and take care of face, he actually came up with a crooked trick: borrow seeds! After hearing this, Ouyang Fang was greatly annoyed at first and resolutely disagreed, but she could not hold her husband's pleading and commitment, and finally nodded tearfully.

Lu Hui thought of the right person, a burly and handsome brother-in-law. The most important thing is that he lives in a foreign land and is far away. Lu Hui immediately communicated with her brother-in-law. At first, my brother-in-law was very reluctant, but Lu Hui always stressed that "it's okay", saying that he and his wife had discussed it and no fourth person would know.

1999 On a spring and summer handover night, my brother-in-law was invited to Lujia, and Lu Hui took the initiative to travel. In April of the following year, Ouyang Fang really gave birth to a chubby little baby boy.

The birth of the child really brought happiness to Lu Hui and Ouyang Fang. In particular, Lu Hui felt that he finally had a son named Lu to inherit the incense, and he could finally enjoy his old age. When the son is 3 years old, according to the family planning policy, Lu Hui and his wife can have a second child (both husband and wife are ethnic minorities), and so is the local "convention". In order not to arouse the suspicion of the villagers and prove that she can really have children, Lu Hui proposed to have a daughter and asked Ouyang Fang to "borrow seeds" from her brother-in-law again.

Soon, Ouyang Fang was pregnant again. Unexpectedly, Lu Hui's idea changed. When Ouyang Fang was pregnant for four months, she suddenly didn't want children. Considering that it costs money to have an abortion in a hospital, Lu Hui forced an orange with a diameter of about four or five centimeters into Ouyang Fang's lower body and squeezed it hard, causing her to miscarry the next day.

In 2005, Lu Hui still wanted a daughter, so she forced Ouyang Fang to go out and "borrow seeds". Ouyang Fang disagreed, and Lu Hui hit her son in front of her. Finally, Ouyang Fang had to promise again to have sex with a man in the village when she was herding cattle up the mountain. As a result, she gave birth to a baby boy

She didn't "sow" herself. She wanted a girl, but Ouyang Fang gave birth to a boy. Over time, Lu Hui always suspected that everyone in the village knew their own scandals and were all watching jokes. When he is in a bad mood or drunk, he often finds fault with his wife, quarrels with her, and even vents his depression by punching, kicking and sexually assaulting his wife.

20 10, the Daohe Expressway under construction passes through the village, and Xiao Lao, a man from Huaihua, Hunan Province, is responsible for guarding the materials for the construction party. At the same time, Xiao Lao also recruited some migrant workers from nearby villages from time to time on behalf of the construction party. In the long run, Lu Hui and Xiao Lao are familiar with each other. They are brothers. 20 1 1 After the completion of the expressway, Lu Hui still took Xiao Lao home as a guest and felt like a family. When two beds were spread out in a bedroom and three people slept in one room, Lu Hui joked that his wife would share a bed with Xiao Lao.

The speaker has no intention, but the listener has intention. After being teased many times, Ouyang Fang began to approach Xiao Lao on her own initiative, and Xiao Lao, who had long been interested in this, naturally wouldn't miss the opportunity. After tentative contact, the two quickly entered the "substantive" stage. Since then, they have not only helped to do farm work for free, but also shared the expenses of the Lujia family. His relationship with Ouyang Fang naturally failed to escape Lu Hui's eyes, but Lu Hui chose to turn a blind eye. Over time, the villagers also saw the clue and talked about it.

With the deepening of Ouyang Fang's affection for Xiao Lao, she became more and more indifferent to her husband Lu Hui. One noon in May this year, Lu Hui proposed to have sex with Ouyang Fang. After being rejected, Lu Hui chased all the way to the fish pond in the village and pressed Ouyang Fang to the ground and stuck her neck. With a genial smile, Xiao Lao stepped forward to stop the fight, but was also beaten by Lu Hui. After that, Lu Hui kicked Xiao Lao out of the house, and the latter went to work in other places.

At this time, Ouyang Fang was desperate, worried that if this continues, she will be tortured to death by Liu Hui sooner or later. Why not start first? But I am a weak woman, and I can't win again. How can I get out of the misery? 165438+1On the morning of October 28th, Lu Hui insulted Ouyang Fang again for trifles. Ouyang's revenge, which had been suppressed for many years, finally came out in generate: "Only he will die first, otherwise I will definitely die before him!" " Suddenly, she made a decision.

At 6 o'clock in the afternoon, Ouyang Fang specially fried several good dishes. While Lu Hui didn't come back, he took out a pack of rat poison and sprinkled it into the plastic cup he used to drink. Because there is still a little wine left at the bottom of the cup at noon, the powdered rat poison is almost imperceptible after it is dissolved in it.

Not long after, Lu Hui came back from the field to fight pesticides, and the family began to eat dinner. Lu Hui himself poured half a cup of rice wine from the bucket with a cup. After about 20 minutes, Lu Hui finished drinking and began to eat. Before a bowl of rice was finished, he suddenly fell to the ground from the stool, foaming at the mouth, and his hands and feet were still twitching. The eldest son asked to call an ambulance on 120, but Ouyang Fang stopped him on the grounds that he had no money at home. Later, Lu Hui went into the bedroom and lay down.

That night, Ouyang Fang and Lu Hui slept together silently, without any action. Let him be, she thought. If he dies, let him die. If he doesn't, forget it.

1 65438+1in the early morning of October 29th1pm, I saw Lu Hui's face was blue and his mouth was half open, as if he were sleeping. Ouyang Fang wants to get up and show it to her mother-in-law. Because she couldn't wake her mother-in-law, she had to go back to the bedroom and probe Lu Hui's nostrils with her hands. She felt the breath was still there, but there was something dirty on her mouth, so she wiped it clean with a paper towel and went back to bed and fell asleep.

At 5 o'clock in the morning, Ouyang Fang woke up and confirmed that Lu Hui had died. I woke up the whole family and then called my relatives and friends to help with the funeral. Relatives and friends thought Lu Hui died strangely and reported it to the police station. After receiving the police, the police rushed to the scene to investigate. It was preliminarily presumed that Lu Hui died of poisoning, so all the gastric juice residue of the deceased and the food eaten by the deceased's family members were sealed and sampled, and sent to the higher public security organs for physical and chemical analysis overnight.

On the first day of the trial, Ouyang Fang quickly admitted that she poisoned Lu Hui, but the next day she made a full confession. After a month-long interrogation and enlightenment, Ouyang Fang confessed to the public security organs the crime of poisoning and killing her husband in front of the evidence. With the approval of the procuratorate, the Public Security Bureau approved the arrest of Ouyang Fang, a suspect suspected of intentional homicide.

Whose tragedy is it that a series of abnormal events, such as borrowing seeds to have children, betraying in marriage, and wife poisoning her husband, lead to the continuation of incense and care for face? Only on this road of no return, the husband lost his sacred life, but the wife was arrested for intentional homicide, and the originally happy family was fragmented. Sadly, the two children who came into this world by borrowing seeds will face the embarrassment of losing their father and their mother going to jail, which is bound to be the most worrying thing for the two children in the future.

1. What kind of marriage tragedy will it bring to have children by borrowing seeds?

Borrowing children is a sign of cheating. In this process, some people choose simple physical infidelity, while others choose both physical and emotional infidelity. Whatever the outcome, it will cast a shadow over marriage. Perhaps the original intention of having children by seeds is just to cover up the embarrassment of infertility, but when the children really come into this world, the husband will feel that the children are not his own, and that his wife and another man have had bad behavior, thus forming another psychological distortion, thus making the marriage from a childless tragedy to a tragedy in which the husband cares about his wife's bad behavior.

Take the couple in this story as an example. It is also a bad idea for her husband to borrow seeds to have children. With the connivance of her husband, the wife has had bad behaviors with a man in the village and an old man who works outside the home. On the one hand, this bad behavior stems from the husband's eagerness to ask for a woman, on the other hand, the wife has lost her loyalty to marriage after shyly agreeing to her husband's request to borrow seeds for the first time to have children. Moreover, she suffered verbal abuse and violent domestic violence from her husband all the year round, which made her tired of her husband.

In other words, once a woman meets a infertile husband, she will either divorce or adopt a child. Never promise to borrow seeds and have children under the coercion of her husband, because she has actually sold herself at a low price while devoting herself to family interests. Afterwards, my husband will not only be ungrateful, but also do a lot of abnormal things, which is really thankless and easy to subvert her healthy concept of love.

Second, why do women who are despised by their husbands have a high betrayal coefficient?

I once asked Anonymous why you like Gao Fushuai. The woman replied like this: I once tried to find a plain love, even if he had no money and no looks, as long as he was kind to me. As a result, I was betrayed The woman's implication is: I'm not sure what kind of man I want, so why not choose a man with better conditions?

It's really like the man in the incident, who has no money, can't have children, and has domestic violence from time to time. Such a man really makes his wife miserable. That is to say, as a woman, even if she chooses to divorce, at most, she will find another garbage man with no money, infertility and domestic violence, but I don't think so. If the woman in the incident was pregnant only when she had bad behavior with her brother-in-law and the man in the same village, then she felt the care and care of a man in the process of getting along with the old man who was working outside, and she had feelings for it.

It can be seen that marriage sometimes has little to do with money and age. The key is that as a husband, he must give his wife at least respect, care and love, otherwise, his wife will seek comfort outside marriage.

Third, how can infertile families continue to be happy?

Modern male and female infertility index has risen sharply, which has become a modern disease. According to the statistics of the World Health Organization, 40% of infertility is caused by men, 50% by women, and also by both husband and wife. Health is so precious in the eyes of people with defects, but it is ignored by more normal people. In fact, infertility really plagues many families.

Of course, not everyone is willing to accept such a cruel reality. When one or both spouses are found to be infertile, they can go to an authoritative hospital for related treatment. If the treatment is successful, it will be the best outcome. However, some families must also correctly treat this tragic reality caused by lack of money or ineffective treatment.

Happiness is relative, either choose to break up peacefully or choose to accept fate. In those couples who choose to accept their fate, never borrow seeds to have children. The best way is to adopt a child. Maybe at the initial stage of adopting a child, you will feel a little embarrassed, but as time goes by, as long as you love your adopted child with your heart, you will find that there is not much difference between your biological parents and adoptive parents, because the innocence of your child's childhood can become the spiritual pillar of your husband and wife, and it can also become filial piety in adulthood.

A series of family tragedies caused by borrowing seeds to have children are really intriguing. In order to achieve a certain goal, human beings must stick to their own bottom line, and the behavior that violates ethics and morality will eventually outweigh the benefits.