Ming Lan agreed to Gu Tingye's concubinage without any expression, didn't he like Gu Tingye?

Ming Lan's mind was honed and matured in the Sheng family. First of all, her mother, don't say anything about being pampered and kind, even the minimum living is a problem. It's just that my master occasionally cares for me, but she's pregnant again, which leads to Lin Xiaoniang's jealousy and she wants to get rid of it quickly. What Ming Lan saw from her mother was not the sweet love of the nobles, but the calculation of the hearts of the women in the deep house compound, and they fought for each other. ?

Then there is her father. When her mother died, her most reliable people were her father and grandmother. However, her father never valued her most. No gentle words, no loving eyes, no stubborn preference. Occasionally, the eyes that swept over were cold, and the hands that were implicated were cold and heavy. Minglan played the fool and fully distracted in Shengfu, being cautious, and suffering a cold heart and cold intestines, looking at this world coldly. Ming Lan first shed tears and then turned to laugh

After Gu Tingye made a deep confession to Ming Lan, Ming Lan promised to marry him and sat in the sedan chair. Ming Lan first shed tears and then turned to laugh. At that time, did Ming Lan think that he had found the right man to accompany him for life? Actually, it's not. Why doesn't Ming Lan mind her husband taking concubinage and her husband looking for a son? Because I don't love, of course.

We saw Ming Lan talking privately with the maid in the room, which was heard by Gu Tingye. Ming Lan spoke of her real state of mind when she married Gu Tingye at the moment: "I just want to regard the official as my boss! Be conscientious ... "Gu Tingye took Ming Lan as his wife, while Ming Lan took him as his owner! This is because Ming Lan is looking after his family, and he just makes a living. Ming Lan knows how to be a big lady, but he is not ready to be a good wife.

In fact, the biggest reason why Ming Lan is willing to marry Gu Tingye is not because she loves him, nor because he knows her. What makes Ming Lan most moved is that he is willing to protect her. She is always grateful to Gu Tingye. Ming Lan even said, "I want to be your child."

Ming Lan's heart for her husband was also reflected in her previous private conversation with her grandmother. She also had misgivings about Gu Tingye's personality and was afraid to entrust it completely. Look at this conversation with my grandmother, it really doesn't look like husband and wife, but it seems that the relationship between the monarch and the minister is more appropriate.

Ming Lan even said, "I want to be your child." Ming Lan's childhood was too bitter. Without his father's care and love, he was always treated unfairly, but Gu Tingye was different. So in Ming Lan's eyes, he has the role of "good father" in addition to "owner"! How will Gu Tingye feel when he hears this?

not being jealous means that you don't love enough and don't care. It is also sad to have a generous lady who is not jealous. Ming Lan has always lived carefully, neither wanting to rely on others nor dare to rely on others. Even if she marries, she always has reservations and dares not entrust her completely. Ming Lan was very lack of care when she was growing up

Ming Lan was very lack of care when she was growing up. She was a child who grew up on thin ice, and it was difficult for ordinary people to walk into her heart. In fact, Gu Tingye knew this very well. When others thought Ming Lan was as bright as the sun, only he silently sighed: She had a hard time.

The role of father, which has a great influence on girls' mate selection, has not set a good image for Ming Lan. Sheng Ji not only spoils his concubine and kills his wife, but also fails to make a bowl of water even for his children. When Lin Xiaoniang was proud, Moran bullied Ming Lan, regardless of whether he asked or not. Revenge for his mother depended on Ming Lan's own plan. Moran's mother and daughter lost power and became a family honor in Ming Lan, and her father still put a clean spectrum in front of her daughter.

Ming Lan never dared to expect anything from his father, because the greater the expectation, the more disappointment and resentment. Don't want to live a life crazy with resentment, Ming Lan had to learn not to expect others.

Qi Heng was the only bold choice in her forbearing life for many years, but she was still disappointed in the end, which made Ming Lan realize that men's love at that time would change not only by themselves, but also by various responsibilities and environmental factors.

After this first love, Ming Lan has a more cool thin perspective on marriage. When she talked with Mrs. Sheng about He Hongwen, the marriage concept expressed was no longer in the mind of her little daughter, but more like an old man who saw through the world. Tell her not to be too virtuous, but to "play with her temper" appropriately

Ming Lan has such an idea because of her small living environment and the traditional marriage situation of ancient people, and Gu Er understands why she has such an idea. Even if it weren't for Gu Erxian's affection for her, he would be happy that Ming Lan was so "considerate", but since he loved her, he wouldn't let go, and eventually he would use his sincerity to influence Ming Lan.

With regard to Ming Lan's mentality, I feel that my grandmother advised Ming Lan not to be too virtuous, but to "play the temper" appropriately and express her true feelings. Because Gu Er is a straight-tempered person, if he deliberately conceals and pretends to be virtuous, it will affect the relationship between husband and wife. Taking a concubine to her husband looks virtuous to others, but it also shows that she doesn't care. It will make the other person feel lost.

after listening to her grandmother's words, Ming Lan immediately took the opportunity to explain to Gu Mingye that because she valued Gu Er, wanted to repay Gu Er's affection and wanted to be a virtuous wife, she pretended not to be jealous and didn't mind, and suddenly she untied Gu Er's heart, and their feelings warmed up again.