Don't laugh at what the widow said.

Are there many things in front of widows? People have been saying this proverb for many years, which means that a woman with a dead husband can easily cause others to make irresponsible remarks, especially in the old society where women wanted three obedience and four virtues and advertised chastity archways. Widow? It seems to be a hot topic in the whole society. People are not only very demanding of women and widows, but also particularly interested in the widow's family affairs, as if this is the love of life? Widow? Physically, so? Are there many things in front of widows? Few people care about the first half of the sentence, let alone know it.

Speaking of this, some friends may have a big question mark in their hearts. So what? Are there many things in front of widows? There is one last sentence! Yes, there is a saying in many common sayings we say now, such as? Speak of the devil? It also has a sentence. What's the next sentence? Wouldn't it be funny to miss it yourself? Maybe many friends have never heard of it!

So what? Are there many things in front of widows? What was the last sentence? The answer is? Is there less smoke on the widower's roof? , the whole sentence is? There is less smoke on the widower's roof, but there is more right and wrong in front of the widow's door? .

Guns (guān)? Refers to a widowed or widowed man, and? Widow? In contrast, the Book of Rites records that those who have few fathers are lonely, those who are old and childless are lonely, those who have no wives are widowed, and those who have no husbands are widowed. There's an idiom? Widowed and lonely? A person who has no relatives to support and no one to rely on.

Is there less smoke on the widower's roof? This is also easy to explain, literally. It's about a man without a wife. There is little smoke in his kitchen, and he hardly cooks with fire. Especially in the era when men are superior to women, women do housework and men hardly need to cook.

This sentence also reflects a certain social phenomenon, that is, the shackles of feudal ethics on people, especially women should be loyal to their husbands, and even if their husbands die, they can't easily remarry, just as the saying goes? A martyr doesn't serve two husbands? Coupled with other people's gossip, many women are ultimately depressed in loneliness, especially after the prevalence of Neo-Confucianism, the constraints on women are more stringent.

On the one hand, everyone emphasizes that widows should abide by women's morality, on the other hand, they will ridicule or even bully widows with various excuses. This is really a social deformity. Fortunately, with the continuous improvement of women's status, everyone is right. Widow? I don't care so much anymore. The liberation of nature has brought about the complete liberation of women.

In fact, losing a husband or wife is a very tragic thing. We should have a heart of sympathy for widowers or widows, not just ridicule and satire.