How do you get along with old frame, who worked in the same unit more than ten years ago?

I met my old lover more than ten years ago when I was working in the company, and now I am in the same company with my old lover. What should I do?

I'll share with you the experience of working in the same company as my first lover, and then talk about how to get along with old frame more than ten years ago in the company. The two situations are different, because I met my first lover in the company less than 3 years old, and if I met my old lover more than ten years ago in the company, I would have to be at least 4 years old, with different ages and different ways to get along!

At that time, I was an electrical engineer in the company. Every day, I just drew electrical schematic diagrams, which was boring except for tiredness. Every day, I just drew drawings and made samples, and there were endless meetings, which was very boring!

Suddenly, a girl came to the office one day. At first glance, it turned out to be my first girlfriend in college. At that time, we were really embarrassed when we met, and neither of us knew what to say. At that time, we said two words when we met:

I said, "How did you come here?"

She: "Are you here, too? What a coincidence! "

Then two people smiled awkwardly and got into their seats! At that time, I didn't have the mind to work. Although my eyes were staring at the computer and the mouse was constantly clicking, my brain had already flown to the outside of the cloud nine and I didn't know what I was thinking!

On the first day after work, I asked her, "Where do you live? How did you come to work? " At that time, I wanted to send her home on the way, and say hello politely!

"I work as a factory car!" She said.

"oh, ok." In this way, our first day ended with the last "bye-bye"!

the next day, we learned that she was applying for PMC, which is our production plan, and we became familiar with it, which was much more relaxed than the first day. On this day, we talked a lot about both work and digression. When I got off work, I invited him to have dinner together, and he agreed happily. On the way to dinner, we all chatted heartily, recalled our classmates in college and thought about interesting things at that time. It brought our relationship closer at once. At that time, we also broke up peacefully after graduating from college. Now we can't talk about who hates who. We all have our own families. At least we didn't think about further development at that time, so we wanted to be good friends who talked about everything!

From then on, I feel energetic when I go to work, and sometimes I don't want to get off work so early. Every day, I brag with her, Kan Kan Dashan, and you talk to me, and I talk to you, hurting each other and being happy with each other. Up to now, we have a good relationship, but we all know what to do and what not to do, and we won't give each other a chance to make mistakes. Everything is over.

This is the feeling that my first love and I work together. There is no embarrassment. Instead, we expect each other every day. I feel that I finally have something else to do in the company besides work. This feeling can only be understood, but can't be expressed!

It depends on what you think in your heart. If you want to be together, you can:

If you want to maintain a proper relationship and don't want to affect each other's families, you can:

(2) You don't have extra free time, and you usually rest at home with your wife and children

(3) Feel sorry for you.

the ultimate idea is that you are very happy now and have no intention of cheating!

3. When you encounter difficulties at work, you should help her as much as you can, but don't be too diligent, don't not help, and don't let her feel that you are heartless and unintentional. After all, it is the old lover who sometimes deliberately avoids it, which has become an important performance in your heart!

4. Don't bring up the topic of sending her home after work or going out to play together on weekends, which is easy to make people think!

Youth is a kind of feeling, which is worth remembering. A lover is a glass of hard liquor, which is worth tasting!

Everyone has youth. Who is not lost in youth and who has no first love or lover? When we meet him or her again, how can we get along? Again, if you can't put on her wedding clothes without any worries, you must not untie others' underwear. Love that doesn't aim at marriage is hooliganism!

that's my answer. I hope I can help you! Here I wish all lovers in the world will be well!

After I graduated from college, I didn't find a job for a while. By chance, I called my ex-girlfriend and she asked me if I found a job after graduation. I said no, and then she introduced me to work in their company.

I first went to their company to submit a resume, and then had a brief interview. Later, after a short training, I was ready to join the company. At that time, there were five office locations, and the company randomly assigned me a place close to my rental.

On the first day of work, I just finished reporting, and when I went out, I met my predecessor. At that moment, we both froze. We just looked at each other for about a few tens of seconds. I started by saying, thank you for introducing me to work. She also smiled and replied that she was welcome. She is an old friend. She still wants to help if she can. It was five years since we last met and broke up. Later, we never met again. This work was an accident. At first, I was inevitably a little excited and had a little expectation, but with the passage of working time, I also calmed down. After being separated for so long, it was basically impossible to get together again. Moreover, she also had a boyfriend at that time, and I didn't want to disturb her happiness.

I am a relatively open-minded person, and my mentality is well adjusted. I am indifferent to our relationship. I try my best to do my work well at work, do my own thing after work, and occasionally invite my ex to dinner. I will take the initiative to ask her to bring my boyfriend. Avoid misunderstanding, and the time will never exceed 8: 3. After dinner, I will watch her go by car. After work, we will also chat, and we will talk about our lives and experiences over the years, but the relationship will never be mentioned, and we will never talk about some impulsive topics. I will listen to her talk about the good and bad over the years and naturally express our past. Everyone is like old friends for many years.

conclusion: in the beautiful past, it can only be once. Let everything go with the wind. If there is no result of beauty, just take it as a memory and let it go. Say hello when you meet! Don't disturb the happiness of others, don't embarrass both sides.

viewpoint of wandering around the workplace:

When encountering this kind of problem, the most important thing is not to believe in yourself too well and be too confident. The development of many things often does not follow their own wishes. Let it develop naturally, it is better to kill it in the bud.

I have the following suggestions on how to get along with each other:

This situation is easy to handle, and both parties have no family burden. No matter whether the old love will rekindle or not, it will not have any impact on both families. If the feelings are still there, nature can let nature take its course. If the feelings are not there, it is a proper colleague relationship.

In this case, it is the minimum respect for the families of both sides to reduce the continuity between them as much as possible, especially to take the initiative to contact each other.

Everyone is selfish. Even if there is nothing between you, once it is discovered by family members, it will definitely become the fuse of each other's future life, and it will inevitably not break out in trivial matters of life.

two people together are caused by coincidences, and the separation of two people is also accumulated by little misunderstandings.

Don't fantasize that sobriety in soap operas is performed in reality. Although art comes from life, it is far higher than life.

especially for men, I think this is a good opportunity to play ambiguous. Don't you know that it is not as simple as you think, nor can ordinary people control it. Don't fantasize that you are not ordinary people, and you will eventually harm others and yourself.

People have two characteristics:

People are emotional animals, and feelings don't disappear easily, or they will be awakened in some special circumstances.

However, there must be reasons and obstacles for you not being with each other before. After more than ten years, this obstacle may not be eliminated. After a long separation, I may forget these pains, but I can't pretend that they don't exist.

Therefore, it's better for both sides to keep a certain distance, and don't think that you can be above ordinary people and despise much ado about nothing in the end.

normal work and communication can be carried out, but mutual cooperation, especially long-term coordination of work, should be avoided as much as possible. Normal conversation, greeting, reporting and communication are all normal behaviors. But don't have too much care and care beyond the redundant colleague relationship, because one of your casual actions may cause misunderstanding.

In old frame for more than ten years, it's the same as before. Are you afraid of being embarrassed? In fact, your relationship has long gone beyond that of husband and wife, and it is already a lover's relationship. What else is embarrassing? I advise you to be respectful to your old lover or rekindle the old love without affecting your family and work. You need to seriously consider it before making a decision.

1. Lovers more than ten years ago must be at least 4 years old today. It is the age of successful career and charm. After more than ten years of baptism, your faces have changed, but your life experience has made you more mature and attractive. Even if you don't have any idea of rekindling the old relationship, there is no guarantee that she has no idea. Therefore, everything should be considered from a long-term perspective.

2. For your old lover, try to keep a low profile when you first meet, and consider each other's greetings, meetings and meetings, and never show too familiar and enthusiastic expressions. You can't let the people in the current unit see any clues. You know, what a unit likes most is the affair between colleagues. Hide yourself first, this is the best self-defense technique.

3. Take care at work. For an old lover, it is also an investment to try to help her at work and solve all kinds of problems she encounters. Even if you don't rekindle the old love, she will be grateful to you from the heart, which will be of great benefit to the communication and cooperation between the two sides at work and promote each other.

4. Let's get together when we have the chance. You also came up to ask us how to get along, and told you that if it happened by chance, you could get back together if you were interested in her. There is already a lover relationship between men and women, so it is interesting and energetic to pretend to be pure boys and girls. As long as you are together and don't hurt both families for the purpose of divorce, I think it is ok. Because let you meet each other with eyes wide open every day, nothing happens, and you feel good and uncomfortable. If you think about it, just get along.

I work in the same unit as old frame more than ten years ago. As for how to get along? In fact, I think it can be analyzed from the following points:

At this time, you are not old frame, but an ordinary colleague or friend!

I suggest that you must put your mind right. You may have been lovers, but you were separated for some reason. Meet again at this time, your identity has changed!

Therefore, it is necessary to change roles in time and tell yourself that the other person and himself are no longer in a loving relationship! At this time, you are just a colleague or a friend. Everything should be treated as colleagues or friends!

It is precisely because you two once had a story, and now you are working in the same company, which is likely to rekindle the old dream, but this is precisely the most dangerous point!

So anyway, two people forget everything in the past and keep a most peaceful mind!

After meeting, don't feel embarrassed when talking and chatting normally, and don't feel indebted to the other party or the other party! Forget the past story and start a new emotion!

getting along with two people is really an embarrassing situation now! Therefore, it is suggested to test each other's attitude and see how they intend to get along with themselves.

Maybe the other person's mentality is good, so you two get along completely according to the relationship between friends and colleagues, and there is nothing wrong with everything;

If the other person ignores his love or even shows extreme indifference to himself, it actually shows that the other person is not willing to have a closer relationship with himself!

So in that case, you don't have to force yourself, just treat each other as strangers!

Tell more emotions and listen to more voices!

The past is the past.

Don't be attached to it.

Don't get too close to each other.

The recurrence of the old love hurts the family.

Once the thing is over,

Don't shy away from it.

Don't contact each other after work.

Be strangers to each other.

It didn't happen before,

Now I'm just an ordinary person,

I don't have any illusions in my heart,

The road goes its own way,

I don't want the old love to harm my family,

It turns out that the two have broken up,

It shows that it's not suitable to be together,

We don't have to be true to each other.

Don't rush to ask the question of how to get along with old frame when they work in the same unit. I'd like to know. Are you still considering how to get along with this question? It means that it doesn't affect each other unless the other party doesn't know that you work here. This has puzzled you. I want to cure your intractable diseases with the right medicine.

No matter why they didn't get together in the end more than ten years ago, after years of baptism, they all played down the previous fanaticism and finally turned to dullness. Occasion is the best way to let each other know the status quo.

Knowing each other's current situation, leave the rest to the other party. Just go to work with peace of mind, told even more in silence than they had told in sound, and let the other party's actions determine your handling method. If the other party still cares about the past, she will definitely resign and doesn't want to see you. If she doesn't care, she can work normally.

after separation, everyone hopes to live a better life for each other, especially as a man, and he must make some achievements. You think, in the same company, you are still a small clerk, what do you think? Say you "left you is the right choice", "ten years later, it's still like that", this