The bride is seven months pregnant and can't bend over when she gets married. When the old man told her to kneel, the groom became angry: What do you say?

Getting married is a happy thing and the most important moment in the bride's life. Everyone hopes that the wedding will go smoothly, but there will always be some red tape, which will make the wedding atmosphere very subtle.

In many areas, the customs when getting married are different. For example, the couple must kneel down to their elders at the wedding to show their respect and filial piety.

In fact, this custom seems nothing, but this couple is different, because the bride has been pregnant for 7 months, and the pregnant belly is already very big. It is very difficult to kneel down and get things. I thought the old man would understand and wouldn't let the bride kneel, but the old man didn't.

The groom is domineering and protects his wife, and the bride is a real man. Not only was her stomach inconvenient, but the wedding dress she wore that day made it even more inconvenient for her to move, because the old man insisted on kneeling, and then the bride tried several times with a big belly, but it didn't work at all. In addition, the action of kneeling will push the child to the top, and she is also very worried about the child in her belly.

The husband next to me was worried when he saw it, and then his voice was obviously a few degrees higher.

Later, the groom said to the bride, you don't have to kneel, I will kneel for you. This behavior still needs the groom's praise. It seems that he still cares about the bride.

But I didn't expect that when the groom said this, although the old people didn't say anything, they became angry at first sight. This thing is over, but after I saw the news, I really felt that the old man in this family was a little unreasonable.

In fact, when getting married in many areas, the act of kneeling has disappeared. At most, it's just bowing when offering tea. In the face of this special situation of the bride's body, I don't understand it very much, and I am a little embarrassed. It's really speechless.

In rural areas, whether the old people respect etiquette or despise the bride, many old people's ideas are still conservative and a little conservative. In such an old man's mind, it is necessary to marry a daughter-in-law for his children and then honor his in-laws. If there is something they can't see, they will criticize it directly.

However, now that society is progressing, many things can no longer be measured by old ideas. Is it filial piety and respect to kneel down when getting married? Is it unfilial not to kneel down?

In fact, many old people insist on these etiquette, which is no longer applicable in this society.

The bride has been pregnant for 7 months. For many families, she should be protected by everyone like a giant panda. After all, she is pregnant with your own flesh and blood. If there is a mistake, who can bear it?

But through this behavior, I can vaguely feel that the other party doesn't like the bride very much. If you really love the bride, the old man should take the initiative to ask, and there is no need to kneel.

Because I think that even if the old people are too old-fashioned, they will not know the state of a woman who is pregnant for seven months.

Pregnancy before marriage will be looked down upon by her husband's family. For young people in the new era, this should not be a big deal, but it is still very important for the elderly. In their idea, you can't live together without getting married, let alone get pregnant. Especially the elderly in rural areas, their thoughts are more conservative.

Let me give you a simple example. If the bride is pregnant before she gets married, then both parents will start talking about the bride price. If she is not pregnant, the bride price may be 654.38+ 10,000. If she is pregnant, the bride price given by her husband's family may be halved, because they think that if you are pregnant, who can have you if you marry my son?

Some old people still think that this girl is pregnant without getting married, isn't it a bit unfair?

Most old people will say that a serious girl is pregnant before she gets married.

If such an unmarried pregnant woman marries an old-fashioned family, her life in her husband's family should not be too easy in the future. If you have a husband who loves you, so much the better. If your husband doesn't care about you very much, then you can only say, "You are miserable." Many enlightened people may think that I am exaggerating, but I am not exaggerating. Go to the countryside if you don't believe me.

For girls, getting pregnant before marriage is a risk to tell you a real case that happened around me. I have a good friend. We were roommates in college and have always been in the same city, and the relationship is very close.

Later, she talked about a boyfriend. In the second year of love, the two are ready to get married. Then the parents of both sides began to talk about the details of the wedding and the bride price. Originally, all this was discussed, but one day, my best friend found out that she was pregnant. I didn't expect to get married. It is because of pregnancy that time has changed dramatically.

Parents are very happy when they know the news of pregnancy, but I didn't expect that my girlfriend's prospective mother-in-law began to calculate behind her back.

Since my best friend became pregnant, the prospective mother-in-law's family has been dragging on not getting married, and the original wedding date has been delayed. Because I am pregnant, I am worried that my stomach is getting bigger and bigger, and my girlfriend's parents are also very anxious.

I started urging them, urging them many times, and all I got was that I couldn't come up with so much money for the bride price. My girlfriend was very angry. Originally, the bride price money was not much, so it was100000, and then it was agreed that the bride price money would still be given to the young couple after marriage.

This bride price money is just a process. Before that, both families agreed, but now, the husband has changed his mind.

The result is even more irritating. At that time, the house was decorated by the man's family. Now my husband says they bought the house, so the decoration has to be done at my best friend's house. Otherwise, you can live in a rough house when you get married.

As soon as these words came out, the girlfriend made her boyfriend always ask for help from her parents.

Later, after discussing with her parents, my best friend decided to refuse this marriage, and then went to the hospital the next day and never contacted the man again.

My best friend once said, "I don't want to be trapped in such a family all my life."

Through the wedding, we can see a lot of truth. For women, life is another battlefield. In this process, if you get pregnant before marriage, in many families, it is equivalent to losing without sending troops. So this 7-month-old pregnant bride doesn't know if she has seen the essence of this matter.

But she is lucky because her husband still cares about her. But this kind of thing cannot be generalized, because many families are very willing to accept it, because the elderly can have grandchildren earlier.

Therefore, whether unmarried pregnancy can be tolerated in the husband's family depends mainly on what the family of the husband's family is like. If it is reasonable, then you can live happily.