26-year-old undergraduate female, married to 28-year-old junior high school courier brother, married to love, or married to a joke?

I once saw a netizen's message on the Internet:

She has a female colleague who directly married a man who graduated from junior high school after graduating from undergraduate course. This man is a courier. When someone asked her why she married this courier? The woman naively replied: I just want him to be nice to me!

Now, they are not only married, but also have children. But this female colleague still has some heartfelt dissatisfaction: I feel that my husband has no future in express delivery, and I hope he is self-motivated!

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From her last sentence, I can see that she is actually unwilling, because in our concept, not only people are divided into three classes, but even occupations are divided into three classes.

Some time ago, it was reported that the screen was swiped. A girlfriend who earns 4,000 yuan a month has always disliked her boyfriend who earns15,000 yuan a month, just because her boyfriend is a courier brother.

In a woman's mind, if she wants to marry a man, she must marry a "self-motivated" man. However, now that they meet a courier boyfriend who earns more than 10,000 yuan a month, they begin to dislike the work of the younger brother, because these jobs are not "decent".

Usually, friends are afraid to tell others about their boyfriends' occupation, and they are afraid to take their boyfriends back to their hometown for fear of being laughed at by relatives!

This may be the so-called "requirement" of some women for men-not only to earn more, but also to work decently!

But when they ask others, they don't look back at themselves-they are just "little women" with a monthly income of three or four thousand. If you don't like them, have you ever thought that you are not qualified to make fun of them?

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In addition to discussing houses and cars, women also like to discuss the so-called "self-motivated".

What is self-motivated?

If I am a junior high school student, I work from morning till night for this family, and I usually don't want to spend any more money. I give all my salary to my wife, and I don't flirt around outside or take part in gambling.

Is such a man "self-motivated"?

If you think so, it's all wet. In the eyes of women, "self-motivated" means that you will earn a lot of money in the future. It is best for you to work alone to bring a "rich" life to the whole family, and the work must be "decent".

Otherwise, even if you are a courier or a takeaway brother, the monthly income of 15000 is "no way"!

In fact, in my opinion, it is "self-motivated" for two couples to work together for a better tomorrow. There is no need to push her boyfriend into the ranks of the so-called "Gao Fushuai". After all, plain life is true.