What changes will happen to women after giving birth?

What changes will happen to a woman after giving birth?

The first thing that changed after giving birth was my body. The night before I gave birth, I was measured at 120 pounds. I could get out of bed and walk in the afternoon after giving birth. I went to the nurse's station and re-measured my weight, and it turned out that I was still 115 pounds, which is equivalent to saying that I only lost five pounds after removing the amniotic fluid after giving birth. Moreover, just after giving birth, the whole body will look puffy and the flesh on the body will not be firm. I didn’t have any stretch marks during the entire pregnancy, so the flesh on my belly was like a white swimming ring.

The second change may be psychological. After giving birth to a baby, I feel like the baby is so precious. Even when I am so weak, I want to hold it by myself, but it will be dirty if others hold it. . . Regarding the feeding of the baby, everything is done with reference to the book. Whatever the old man says is unscientific and everything said in the book is correct. But every little one is an individual, and there must be differences. If you blindly follow the book but ignore the actual situation, the baby will be injured in the end. Now that I think about it, I was really unreasonable!

The third change should be the temper! Children who have just been born for a month or two are facing a new environment. Unstable situations such as jaundice, emotional restlessness, crying, colic, breastfeeding, diarrhea, etc. occur every day, and mothers have to take care of them even when they are weak. Children, lack of sleep, bags and dark circles under the eyes suddenly appear. His temper became extremely violent! He gets angry and sulky at every turn. If you can't adjust in time, you will feel like you are going to suffer from depression. When the complexion does not recover quickly after giving birth, the whole person looks very unhealthy.

But in the process of taking care of their little friends, the brilliance of women’s motherhood continues to amplify, making women look more gentle and warm!

I answer from a man’s point of view. When my wife didn’t have children, she had a shrewd personality. She was also willful in what she did and she loved to cry. He also likes to party and be lively. It is also natural for women to love beauty. They like to buy clothes and cosmetics. Generally, they would never leave a shopping mall for less than a day. As her only support, I have always followed her temperament.

Not long after the baby was born, she seemed very impatient when she first started taking care of the baby. She cried countless times just about breastfeeding and was quite anxious. I always comforted her and said that she would be fine after this period of time. Well, I will try my best to share what I can on weekdays. After all, women have given birth to our children and suffered.

Gradually, I found that she had changed a lot, her heart became particularly soft, her speech became gentler, and she began to put herself in others' shoes, which she could not understand before. I think this is after becoming a mother. The biggest change in her was her children.

Not to mention going out to play. Now she is at home every day to do things about her children. When her friends ask her to go out to play, she goes home after only a few hours. It is normal to go out to shopping malls for the most part. Expenses, this is because the child has given her a sense of responsibility as a mother, so I am quite contented and grateful for her changes now.

Giving birth to a baby is also an important process in a woman’s life. After giving birth, there will be changes to varying degrees, which is also our transition to growth.

1. Changes in body shape. Many women gain weight after giving birth, especially around their belly. This is the case for me. I didn't care about it at first. I thought about feeding the baby and didn't dare to lose weight. Who knew that the baby was already one year old and the belly still hadn't been reduced. I could only think of ways to lose weight every day. Therefore, I still advise all female compatriots to use medical restraints during the confinement period to reduce the size of the belly.

2. Changes in dressing. When I was a young girl, I had to buy new clothes almost every season. I always felt that last year’s clothes were not suitable for me this year. But after having a baby, the type of clothes I buy has changed. I often buy pants instead of skirts. Even in the summer, I only buy two-piece skirt suits. On the one hand, it is convenient for breastfeeding the baby, and on the other hand, I feel it is suitable. At this age, after all, children are already fucking human beings.

3. Changes in spending money. Women often like the feeling of shopping, and this will never change. It has become my focus when buying things.

In the past, I always thought about what clothes and shoes I had yet to buy. Now, I always think about what my baby still lacks. Throughout the year, I find that baby items account for 80% of my bills. Come to think of it, he is really a spender!

A woman will definitely change after giving birth, but it is also a kind of growth!

1. First of all, I am a lot fatter than before, and my waist and waist are bigger. In the past, I was also a beautiful girl, very slim, weighing less than 110 pounds. A few days before giving birth, I I weighed over 140 pounds. After giving birth, the baby weighed 6 pounds. All the meat I ate went to my body. I had no choice but to wear the clothes I had before, so I could only buy clothes two sizes larger;

2. Secondly, my hair quality and skin have deteriorated. Due to pregnancy, confinement and other reasons, I have stopped using skin care products, I no longer dare to wash my hair frequently, and I take less baths. I exercised less, but ate more and more, which led to dry and oily hair and aging skin;

3. In the end, I was actually very happy, even though I lost the I lost my figure and lost my beautiful skin, but after receiving the baby, I will accompany the baby every day and grow together. I feel very happy. In front of the baby, everything else is secondary.

My baby is 11 months old, and it has been almost a year since I became a mother. Let me talk about my own changes.

1. My personality has become much softer. My personality used to be a bit tough and I would bully others from time to time, but now I am obviously much softer and less impatient. I think it was the baby that changed me. Faced with a baby that is so small and soft and can only rely on adults, I really feel like my heart is about to melt. I saw many mothers saying that their babies turned into female tyrannosaurs. I hope that as the babies become more and more naughty, I will be more patient.

2. Transform into a strong man. My husband used to do all the heavy lifting at home; now I go out to play with my 20-pound baby and go shopping for an hour or two without any problems. The strength in my arms has really improved

3. Changes in life routine. I used to have to wake up after the alarm clock rang several times from Monday to Friday, and I would sleep until I woke up naturally on weekends. Now I must wake up before 6 o'clock every day, because my baby goes to bed on time at 8 o'clock in the evening and wakes up between 5 and 6 o'clock in the morning. When I wake up to change diapers and nurse, the drowsiness is long gone.

4. Spend money. In the past, my husband and I would go out for a big meal on weekends, and I would buy something for myself after my salary was paid. I could accept the price of a few hundred yuan for clothes and shoes. Now when I go to Taobao, I mostly look at children’s things, such as clothes, toys, and daily necessities. The basic cost of buying things for yourself is less than a hundred yuan. What you buy for your baby must be carefully selected and must be of good quality.

5. Chat topics. In the past, my favorite things to talk about were delicious food and fun things, but now I talk about my children. No matter who I talk to, I have to talk about my children. In the past, I didn’t pay much attention to someone posting a baby when I scrolled through Moments. Now, when I see a baby posting on Moments, I have to like, comment, and chat a few words.

6. Eat. In the past, I didn't like anything spicy, and my taste was on the heavy side. From pregnancy to lactation, I basically stopped eating spicy food, and used less salt in cooking. My taste was light, and I basically avoided junk food.

7. Play. I used to go out with my husband during the holidays. After having a baby, I basically only play around the community. If I go further, I go to the park half an hour away. Because it is too troublesome to take the baby out, it is inconvenient to change diapers and feed the baby, and she has to sleep in the morning and afternoon.

When Dabao was born, I was malnourished, anxious, irritable, impatient, worried, couldn't sleep well at night, couldn't rest well during the day, was stressed, nervous, and my family was inconsiderate, and I once wanted to divorce. His complexion is sallow, his complexion is dull, he has spots on his face, his eyes are dull, his hair is withered and yellow, his whole person is in bad condition, and his negative energy is overwhelming, but this person has worked very hard to live. When my second child was born, I found ways to release stress, liberate myself, and leave the environment that made me unhappy. My skin improved, I gained weight, I became cheerful, and I became energetic. I had the strength to do whatever I did, and I was positive, and my life was full of hope every day. All the spots are gone and I am separated from my parents-in-law. Our family still leads a tight but happy life. Body shape deformation, waistline, loose skin, sagging breasts, buttocks can all be restored to firmness through exercise. There is nothing difficult in this world, as long as there are people who are willing to do so.

It is said that women will become gentle after giving birth, but that is all a lie. After I gave birth to my baby, I almost turned into a tyrannosaurus.

The newly born baby is noisy every day, day and night, and the joy of being a first-time mother is exhausted. When the baby gets a little older, he gets even more angry every day. He can hear my yelling at any time at home. Everyone knows that yelling at the baby is not good and understands the truth. However, he is often so angry that he cannot control his ancient power.

I used to dress myself very delicately every day, even if I didn’t go out, I still wanted to look beautiful. After giving birth to a baby, let alone makeup, I don’t even have the time or mood to apply a facial mask. I dress like an aunt every day, even when I go out. One day my husband asked me, "Can you look like a woman?" I was so angry that I threw the baby to him and went out shopping dressed beautifully. I went home after playing for a whole day. When my husband saw me, he told me that my wife had worked hard.

In the past, I made my own money and spent it myself. I would buy nice clothes, bags and shoes every month, every month. Now, I haven’t bought much clothes all year round, and the new models are too expensive, so I can’t part with them. When you see the toys and nice-looking clothes that your baby likes, you don’t blink an eye at the money.

There is a joke on the Internet about forced marriage and forced childbirth: Those who have never been married will definitely be forced to marry when they get married, but those who have been married and divorced without having children will still be forced to marry again. If you are married and have children, you will not be forced to marry again. Why?

Because the uterus has been served, will it be forced into marriage and forced...

1. Changes in the uterus

The uterus that has been served will Slowly recovering, but the cervix after giving birth changed from the round shape before the birth to the straight shape after the birth. This is mainly because the cervix will be lacerated during childbirth.

And if it is a caesarean section, the child is not born through the cervix, but it leaves a glorious mark, a scar, on the uterus, and it is a scar that will never disappear.

2. Changes in the birth canal

Mainly changes in the vagina. If our pelvic floor muscles decline in strength due to pregnancy and childbirth but are not repaired in time, then The vagina will become looser. This change is known to God and earth, but you don’t know that your husband knows it.

Generally, men are the most sensitive when living as a couple.

3. Changes in belly skin

Some mothers will have stretch marks on them, while others will not have stretch marks, and the skin will become like old pine bark. Those who have never given birth will have stretch marks. A pregnant belly is smooth and the skin is firm, but after pregnancy and giving birth, it is like a balloon being blown up and deflated, the skin becomes loose.

4. Changes in the breasts

From B to D, then slowly from D to A. When the breasts were large, they could not resist gravity and sagging downwards. When they were small, there was no fat. The skin no longer looks as smooth as a newborn egg.

5. Changes in mentality, a weakness

A woman has a weakness after giving birth to a baby. From now on, she no longer just leaves, but has concerns.

Having a child is a great process for a woman to transform into a mother. In this process, more or less, some marks will be left, which may be physical or psychological. Especially for ordinary people, the changes are quite big.

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Change 1: The belly is loose and not as tight as before. During pregnancy, the fetus grows day by day in the mother's belly. The pregnant mother's belly gradually swells from flat to the limit that the skin can bear. After giving birth, it deflates quickly like a rapidly deflated balloon. Eventually it became a loose pile of existence.

Change 2: The crotch becomes wider and the chest sags. During pregnancy, the relaxin secreted by the pregnant mother's body will relax the ligaments between the pelvis. In addition, after lactation, the glands in the breasts atrophy, the breasts become smaller, and the breasts will also sag.

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Change three: vaginal relaxation. During delivery, the baby's head and body have to pass through the mother's birth canal, which is stretched five times. In addition, during the delivery process, the vaginal sphincter may be torn and strained, and the bulbospongiosus muscles around the vagina and part of the anus may be damaged. The levator muscle, pubococcygeus muscle, etc. can all cause vaginal relaxation.

Change 4: There are stretch marks on the body and pregnancy spots on the face.

During pregnancy, a pregnant mother's belly expands, and the subcutaneous tissue cannot keep up with the speed at which the epidermis is stretched. It will be torn off like a rubber band that has been stretched to a certain limit, leaving stretch marks on the skin, whether on the belly or on the belly. , buttocks, waist, chest, and thighs are also the hardest hit areas for stretch marks. Some women who have given birth still have yellow-brown pregnancy spots on their faces, which is caused by the increase in hormones in the body during pregnancy.

Change 5: It is easier to forget things. There is a folk saying that pregnancy makes you stupid for three years. After pregnancy and giving birth to a child, mothers focus all their attention on the child and pay much less attention to the surrounding things. They often forget this and forget that, but how much does the child eat in a day? I remember clearly how many times I had my first milk, how many times I pooped, etc.

When a woman gives birth to a child, she loses not only her figure and beauty, but also her freedom and even herself. Every child that comes into the world is bought by the mother with her courage and perseverance, and deserves to be treated well.

About the question "What changes do women have after giving birth?" I have some personal opinions. The physical characteristics and psychological aspects of a woman after giving birth will have a great impact. The following is the content and viewpoint analyzed from a psychological perspective:

1. Body changes.

Due to experiencing the October labor period and so on. A woman is always providing nutrition for two people with one mouth. After giving birth, a woman will become very fragile and her body functions will decline. And at this time, you need a man's love and care the most, and you have to be careful at the same time. At this time, a woman's body will also become flabby and it is easy to accumulate fat and become fat. This is a significant change.

2. There are more doubts

Women often feel that they are much older after giving birth. At this time, they want to become more beautiful and become more beautiful. You have to be more charming and feminine. Come and ask to dress yourself up. And sexual desire will become stronger. I want to attract the attention and love of my husband. They have a lot of doubts about all aspects of things and are easily sensitive. This is also the reason why many family marriages are in trouble. As the head of the family, we often have to take good care of our women.

3. The sense of family responsibility will be stronger

As a woman who has given birth to a child, the sense of family responsibility will be stronger. And sometimes they think longer term and are more willing to sacrifice their careers for their families to focus on their families. Thinking about how to maintain the family well. They always think about many things surrounding their offspring.

4. Become more mature.

Before giving birth to children, they were a little woman. From the dressing point of view, they are more youthful and trendy, and after giving birth to children, they will become more mature and reveal maternal love in every aspect, so they will be more secure in their clothing.