How can girls be coaxed if they feel uncomfortable?

How girls feel depressed and uncomfortable is as follows:

First of all, guide girls to talk and create an atmosphere that can make girls feel at ease and not be disturbed;

Then, don't interrupt girls and try to educate them. At this time, continue to guide girls to express their opinions and provide their own emotional support;

Finally, wait until the first two steps are finished, and then find ways to transfer girls' emotions so that girls don't always immerse themselves in sad emotions.