At the engagement party in "Brother-in-law", Sister-in-law took out a debt of 654.38+0.6 million to scare off the bride-to-be. Should she get her money back?

It is said that every family has its own problems, and there are always some people whose family situation is very complicated and the twists and turns are unexpected.

But all the contradictions in the family can be solved in three words, that is, "sense of boundaries." As long as we have a sense of boundaries, we can get along properly and behave more appropriately, so we don't take it for granted so much.

Some people say that the most feared thing in marriage is that "you are bent on a good life, and he is bent on doing everything possible to stop you." Nothing is more chilling than such a marriage.

The phrase "husband and wife belong to the same family" has been said a thousand times, but some people still can't remember it, so many ridiculous things were born.

0 1 Brother At the legal engagement party, the eldest sister-in-law took out 16000 notes to scare off the bride-to-be.

Li Fang, a netizen, is getting a divorce these days. The reason is that she made a big noise at the engagement party in "Brother-in-law", which directly scared the whole family away and even showed her relatives and neighbors a big joke.

The cause of the incident is simple. Li Fang's husband started asking her for money again. This time, he asked for 50,000 yuan, saying that his own brother is not young, and he wants to get married and give some money to help him.

Li Fang was dumbfounded when he heard this. Since he married her husband, he has taken all the money he brought from her home for three years. The reason is the same every time, that is, my brother's job is not easy, and I should help him more.

In ancient times, "eldest sister-in-law was like a mother". Now my brother-in-law has hands, feet and a job, and his biological parents are still alive. What does her brother worry about all day?

What's more, my savings have been hollowed out in the past three years. Li Fang disagreed: "I married you to live a good life, not to help you be a demon. I have no money, so don't ask me for it. "

The husband asked for money several times, but he didn't succeed. He was furious and pointed at Li Fang. He said, "That's my brother getting married. You are a woman who falls into the eyes of money. Taking some money is like killing you. How can it be so material? "

After they had a quarrel, Li Fang saw her husband's face thoroughly. Husband and brother are a family, and wife is an outsider. Then she should simply settle accounts, and she should be the material woman in her husband's mouth.

So, Li Fang calculated the total amount of money that the husband had to leave for himself after three years of marriage, which was as high as 65,438+600,000.

She was so angry that she took the bill to her brother-in-law's engagement party and made an amazing move in front of the whole family. She threw the bill directly to her brother-in-law's fiancee and said, "Look, the person you are going to marry has no self-care ability at all. You must rely on us to raise it. You will be a family in the future. Remember to return this money to me. "

Finally, don't forget to point to your husband and say, "Don't you want your brother to get married?" Don't get married until you pay back the money. I'll get him married! "

The woman's parents were dumbfounded, obviously unable to push her daughter into the fire pit, and took her daughter and left. My brother-in-law's wedding reception was a complete disaster.

I want my own money, of course!

Li Fang culpable of punishment, but the next thing is not so simple.

On that day, her husband's family and Li Fang's family got together. The first thing everyone does is criticize what Li Fang did wrong. Even his own mother complained, "How could you do that? You tore your face for a little money. "

My brother-in-law was so angry that he threw everything away and said, "Sister-in-law, I remember all the money you gave me and I will pay you back later. How can you be so unkind and ruin someone else's marriage? "

My mother-in-law even hanged herself with tears in her eyes: "Ouch, our family is not blessed, and marrying such a wicked daughter-in-law makes our family restless."

Li Fang coldly watched the two families cry and complain. Obviously, no one thinks from her point of view. Some people think it's normal to be a brother and adopt a younger brother. As a sister-in-law, she should also work hard to earn money by herself and give it to others.

She even had doubts about life for a moment and couldn't get used to it. Are you crazy about yourself or others? Why can people who take advantage be justified? Isn't it natural to pay back debts?

"You don't say, let me say a few words. If you think my idea is wrong, just check what is the joint property of husband and wife and what is the family construction expenditure. Legally, I want my money, and there is nothing wrong.

Besides, I can only say that I don't owe your family anything in Li Fang. Of course, you can call me cold-blooded, but I'm a thousand times better than someone in their twenties and thirties who needs someone to support you. "

Li Fang said these words and went away. She doesn't want to stay in such a home for a moment. It is natural that she didn't take full advantage of this. She is nothing but a scoundrel.

03 "If the other party doesn't push his luck, who would want to make such an ugly scene?"

Perhaps many people think that Fang Li has really gone too far. For a few dollars and hundreds of thousands, she has torn her face and ruined her family.

Personally, I don't want to criticize her, and besides, I sympathize with her.

A person earns money all his life and enjoys many blessings. She paid for it for three years and hollowed out hundreds of thousands. Isn't it enough? If you really want to devote your life and lead a hard life, can you be a good woman?

Li Fang returned to her mother's house and said this to her parents who also didn't understand: "If they don't push their luck, who would want to make such an ugly scene?"

Yes, 350,000 can't be typed out, and 800,000 is still too little.160,000 will be gone in three years. Isn't this cruel?

It can be seen that whether in family or marriage, it is really too much to be a man. It is right to pay for the family, but family kidnapping and moral kidnapping are very inappropriate.

If there is no contradiction in the family, the husband must treat his wife as one of his own, and he can be selfish, but don't treat others as suckers.

"Stop when you are ready" is a good word that everyone should learn.