Is it really a good husband for a husband to learn to take the initiative to take care of his children?

Under the traditional concept of "men are the masters outside and women are the masters inside", it seems that many parents have a misunderstanding, that is, they divide the care and education for their children into the category of "inside". So many husbands mistakenly think that taking care of children is helping their wives.

For a really good husband, he doesn't feel that he is "helping" his wife to take care of the children, but doing his due duty and responsibility.

Eating in a restaurant, sitting next to a family of three. Throughout the meal, the mother is basically taking care of the baby. The baby should look over 1 year old, so whether it is eating or drinking water, it needs careful care from the mother.

Dad is playing with his mobile phone leisurely. When the mother needed to pour water for the baby, she actually said, "Husband, help me pour some warm water into the baby's cup." When you need to change the baby's diaper, you will also say, "Husband, bring me the baby's diaper."

The word "help" has always been used. It seems that taking care of the baby has nothing to do with the father of the child. The little things that the father helps are already "helping" his wife. When did the husband help his wife with the children? As the common crystallization of husband and wife, shouldn't children be taken care of and raised together?

1. Does the husband take care of the children and help his wife? 1. As a father, it is the husband's duty to take care of the children.

The husband is also the father of the child. From the moment children are born, they need to enter the role of "father". While forming a sense of fatherhood, we should also begin to do our father's duty to our children.

Father's care and education of children is the due duty entrusted by the role of "father", and the wife has no responsibility to undertake these things for her husband.

Taking care of children is not an easy task, and the wife can't bear it alone.

Women are weak, but mothers are strong. However, this does not mean that a mother's wife can bear all the burdens of caring for and educating her children. Under such heavy pressure, it will not only hurt the feelings of husband and wife, but also be detrimental to the physical and mental health of children.

It is not easy to take care of and educate children. Parents need to share, so that children can grow better and the relationship between husband and wife can remain stable.

3. As the common crystallization of husband and wife, children need the common care of both husband and wife.

The environment and atmosphere in which a child grows up will have different effects on his body and mind. A child who is accompanied by his parents will not have defects in character and conduct because of lack of fatherly love or maternal love.

As the common crystallization of husband and wife, children need the common care and care of husband and wife, so that children can feel full of love.

Nowadays, there are more and more TV programs with husbands taking care of children. In fact, this also conveys to the public the importance of husbands taking care of children. In a family, the company of father and mother is equally important to children.

The growth of children needs not only maternal love, but also fatherly love. Fatherly love is reflected in the dribs and drabs of daily companionship. Perfect fatherly love is an indispensable part of a child's healthy physical and mental growth.

Second, the benefits of husband taking care of children 1, enhance children's gender awareness

For young children, gender is just a very vague concept. If you just stay with your mother for a long time, your gender consciousness will only be blurred. With the father's company, children can know the gender differences and enhance their understanding of gender.

Enhancing children's gender awareness is actually to let children better protect themselves, protect their privacy and not hurt others in the future.

2. It helps to cultivate children's courage to explore the unknown.

Generally, when taking care of children, mothers are more sensitive and delicate, so they should think twice about everything. And dad will be more casual, bold and even informal. They will boldly let their children explore and learn. Let children be bold and dare to explore the unknown.

Careless fathers are more daring to let go of their children and don't need too much care, which is very important for children's courage and courage cultivation.

3. Rule awareness

Mothers are more likely to be soft on their children. And dad can stick to the principle more firmly and say "no" to the unreasonable demands made by children. This can make children understand that they should not violate the rules and order, which has a positive effect on cultivating children's awareness of rules.

Rule consciousness is an indispensable consciousness for children to integrate into the real society in the future.

The healthy growth and perfect growth of children need not only maternal love, but also paternal love. Father's influence on children's outlook on life and personality development is also extremely significant.

For a family, every member has his own responsibilities and obligations, just out of love, pay more. In a family, husband and wife should cooperate with each other, have equal status and equal responsibilities and obligations. A really good husband doesn't feel that he is helping his wife with the children.

Third, a really good husband doesn't feel that he is helping his wife with the children, and he is clearly aware of his obligations and responsibilities as a father.

For a responsible and mature husband, he can clearly realize his obligations and responsibilities as a "father". You don't have to talk all the time, you can take the initiative to do what you should do and take care of and educate your children with your wife.

Before each husband decides to become a father, he must first adjust his mentality, accept his new role and assume all the obligations and responsibilities brought by this role.

Running a family is the responsibility of every family member.

It is the responsibility of every family member to manage a family as well as possible. Everything in the family must be undertaken by every member.

For a responsible husband, whether he is taking care of children or doing housework, he should do it himself, instead of putting it all on his wife.

This is the husband's obligation as a partner and the embodiment of love.

For a husband who deeply loves his wife, children and this family, it is his duty to take care of his wife, children and the whole family. Sharing care and education for children, sharing family chores, is also the embodiment of love.

A husband who loves his wife, children and family does these things on his own initiative, instead of feeling compelled and ready to help others.

A good husband will not take care of and educate his children as the responsibility of his wife alone. They also use the same responsibilities and obligations. As a husband and father, I should take the initiative to undertake all kinds of trivial matters at home, handle them well with my wife and run this home well. We will also take the initiative to assume this responsibility for children's care and education.

For a really good husband, he never "helps" his wife with the children, but takes the initiative to take care of them!