Never seen a blind date chat template, practical chat opening skills.

Whether it's a friend's introduction or a parent's arrangement, before a blind date, we usually let both parties chat on WeChat to get to know each other, but chatting with strangers will inevitably be embarrassing because they don't know what to talk about. So how do you chat with blind date? Now I'll teach you.

First, how do you chat with blind dates you have never met?

Blind dates are usually arranged by friends or parents. Before meeting, they already have a certain understanding, so they must not be too blunt in the choice of opening remarks, which will only increase the strange and embarrassing atmosphere. In order to establish contact with girls faster, we can start from the following aspects:

Standard prologue

After adding the girl's WeChat, self-introduction is very important. Compared with directly telling girls "Hello, I'm xxx introduced by xxx", opening with appropriate praise can break the strangeness and maybe make girls happy. But not all girls like humorous opening remarks, and they can use opening remarks suitable for their own personality.

(1) is suitable for mature and steady boys, who are more polite and won't feel abrupt.

(Smiling expression) You look very gentle and suitable for making friends.

② It is suitable for extroverted and active boys, which is more interesting and can arouse girls' interest.

Hi, my last name is Li. Just call me Xiao Li. Of course, it is best not to add a penny in the end.

Prelude of curiosity

It is a good choice to make use of women's curiosity to start at any time, because girls are born with a gossip heart, and this opening is easy to confuse girls, thus becoming interested in you or the topic itself.

Pretend to be an acquaintance

Have we met somewhere?

② suspense

I find you have one characteristic.

Detailed praise opening remarks

Chatting with girls and talking about her can easily arouse her interest, especially as a way to praise each other.

Praise the details of girls' looks.

Your eyes are really beautiful, like a clear lake.

2 don't praise according to the routine.

I don't think you can reply me if I send you a "hello, beauty".

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Second, how do blind dates who have never met talk about WeChat?

Talking about WeChat with blind date that I have never met is actually paving the way for meeting and dating. The sooner you ask a girl out, the key is. If you want a girl to accept your invitation, it is particularly important to control the atmosphere.

Chatting must be connected.

You know, chatting with girls is generally not in a state of stalemate or death, but many people still have nothing to say when chatting. In fact, there is a lack of contact and good interaction in chatting. For example:

Man: What are you doing?

Woman: Lying down.

M: Didn't you go out to play at the weekend?

W: There is nothing interesting outside.

That's true.

Many boys here are often answering girls' questions when choosing to continue the topic, and it is easy to be passive or have to change the topic.

The correct way is:

Man: What are you doing?

Woman: Lying down.

M: Didn't you go out to play at the weekend?

W: There is nothing interesting outside.

Man: People who don't go out to play have no soul.

W: So you are an excellent athlete.

M: People who are good at playing don't have time to play mobile phones.

In the face of girls' questions, boys should first clarify themselves and refute their sisters' questions in an interesting way to show that they are an interesting person, so that girls will be more interested in continuing the dialogue.

Make chatting interesting.

If you want to chat with your sister, you must have an "interesting soul", and an interesting soul needs you to express yourself indirectly while answering the questions raised by the other party completely in the chat. For example:

Man: People who don't go out to play have no soul.

W: So you are an excellent athlete.

Man: People who can play don't have time to play mobile phones.

Woman: So am I chatting with a soulless person?

Man: My heart is talking to you, but my soul is floating to you.

Woman: Where is it? Why didn't I see it?

Answer girls' questions with jokes, change the subject with humor, and create a relaxed and pleasant chat atmosphere.

Let nature take its course and invite

When chatting with blind date, when the atmosphere feels good, you can invite girls to meet. Pay attention to let nature take its course when asking girls. Don't just say "Let's meet". You can use this way:

M: (sending photos of food) A new restaurant has been opened. Their grilled fish is delicious.

W: It looks very good.

Do you like grilled fish?

W: Not bad. I like hot pot.

M: I know a store whose hot pot is very distinctive. I have time to try.

W: ok.