Fukuhara Ai wrote that her ex-husband lied and wouldn't let him look after the children. What do you think of this?

Many people have a soft spot for table tennis. They also like Fukuhara Ai. He is very cute. But some Japanese people have a bad impression on her, especially some Japanese women. The main reason is that she cheated during her marriage. Her marriage with Jiang has broken down, but they still have many problems to deal with, including children. Fukuhara Ai posted that her ex-husband lied and wouldn't let her look after the children. In this respect, my personal feeling is that it takes two hands to make a sound.

First, Fukuhara Ai cheated on her during her marriage (although Fukuhara Ai denied it), which reflected the problems of two people.

Some people like Fukuhara Ai, and table tennis is one of the reasons. She studied table tennis with us and played ball with our top players, but she was often beaten and cried. For many people, this is a lovely performance. For professionals, this is an immature performance. Because she is beaming! The stadium is like a battlefield, and your face changes have been captured by others. This is a big no-no. Of course, some people like it, that's another matter.

The marriage with Jiang also had a honeymoon period. During this period, two people appeared in front of the media together. But then the two started a divorce war. The old woman said she was right, and the public said she was right. Some people say, if not, who knows you are Jiang? Jiang's popularity in Taiwan Province is not bad. Two people became attached to each other because of table tennis. Two people were separated because of their incompatible personalities. Even so, we shouldn't tear each other, should we?

Fukuhara Ai returned to Japan and checked into a hotel with a male friend. Her explanation is that her male friend comforted her, that's all. Can you believe it? Anyway, their marriage has broken down. They have different attitudes towards marriage. I don't know what Fukuhara Ai thought at that time. In any case, one person had a problem during the divorce, that is, two people did not coordinate well. Let's get together and part, shall we? Why? Chicken feathers are everywhere, which makes people laugh.

Second, two people tear each other apart, mainly because of children.

Both of them like children very much and want to keep them around. Fukuhara Ai intended to go with her two children, but it didn't work out. She wanted to see the children, but she didn't get it. As for why, I believe they both know the reason. Jiang wanted to see the child, but she didn't, because she didn't answer the phone. Some people say, don't look at Fukuhara Ai as cute as a lamb. In fact, she has a strong personality.

In that case, there should be no small problem for two people. Because of Jiang's character, he is in a hurry. When two people are together, there will be some friction You can know from Jiang that the post is in black and white. The phone didn't answer and the message didn't return, which made Jiang feel very uncomfortable, so he posted a question on the Internet. He explained that he was too tired to look at his mobile phone on the plane, instead of losing contact as Jiang said. As for whether this is the case, only she knows.

For the mutual tearing of two people, it is more because of children. However, this practice of tearing each other online is really bad. One of the regulations on the protection of children in Taiwan Province Province is that there should be no information about quarreling between husband and wife on the Internet or in messages. Before Wang Leehom and Li Lianglei tore each other apart, it was an eye-opener. In order to protect the children, they deleted the content that tore each other. Similarly, Jiang He's information should also be deleted, out of the same desire to protect children.

If two people like children, they should sit down and talk it over. Because children occupy an important position in two people's lives. What about the previous two? It's over. Let's sit down and talk for the children's sake. If Fukuhara Ai finds happiness again and lives with his two children, it will be quite difficult. If all this is given to Jiang, she may not agree, because she is a mother who likes her children very much, even though the affair is wrong.

Jiang should be disgusted with her behavior. But after all, she is the mother of the child. For the healthy growth of the child, she should not tear each other apart. Two people who once loved each other can't be together. Why do they want to be enemies? Let go, let go of yourself, let go of each other. Don't want to look back, just don't look back! Don't turn around and argue with each other, so that children will see it in their eyes and remember it in their hearts.

Third, in fact, it doesn't matter who lies, what matters is attitude.

Jiang doesn't like it, but he also uses white characters on a black background to show seriousness. In Fukuhara Ai's words, this is her public trial. In this regard, she is unwilling to back down. Because she thinks she's right. This is the fault of two people. Everyone thinks they are right and unwilling to change themselves. In marriage, there are not so many right and wrong, but two people have different understandings of the problem, that's all. Even if the other person is wrong, say she is right and make her happy, okay? There is a saying in the west that women are happy and the whole family is happy.

Said he was not wrong, but Jiang lied. He wouldn't let himself look after the children, so he had to call the police. After leaving with the children, she and her family were very tired. I don't want such a thing to happen again. If there are false statements, legal measures will be taken. It doesn't matter whether these are right or wrong. The important thing is that neither of them wants to meet. Quarrel as soon as we meet, I believe that children will hear it, which is not good for their growth.

If two people can pay attention to their attitudes, they may not be so stiff when they get along. For children, both of them like it. In that case, why not create a good atmosphere in front of children? Meeting and quarreling is not conducive to solving problems. They only care about expressing their emotions, but they don't listen to each other and don't care about each other's attitude, which makes both of them very tired. What do you think of this?