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Parental love: Jiang Defu Anjie is like 90% couples. Why are they all trivial matters?

0 1 child is the touchstone to verify whether the relationship between husband and wife is hard or not.

In family relations, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is close and far because of its special status. Sometimes, they are enemies who hit it off at first sight, and sometimes, they are comrades-in-arms who share the same enemy.

This is the relationship between Angie and Jiang Dehua in The Love of Parents.

At first, Jiang Dehua came to the city to take care of her brother and sister-in-law. When she first saw her sister-in-law, she didn't like it. Her behavior, language, thoughts and habits are not on the same channel. She tried to restrain herself, but she never got her sister-in-law's opinion.

When Angie saw Jiang Dehua, Jiang Dehua felt that Angie's growing environment caused her innate pride. Facing Jiang Dehua, who was born in a bitter peasant life, even if she tried to restrain herself, the powerful aura was enough to keep her at a respectful distance.

Each with a "little wine" in his heart, both ends fought for three days.

Most people who have seen The Love of Parents think that Jiang Defu and An Jie can have a textbook-level love that is envied by adults, because Jiang Defu has a high emotional intelligence and An Jie knows how to give in.

In fact, their happy love, in addition to their own management of marriage and feelings, is also inseparable from the contribution of aunt Jiang Dehua.

Anji gave birth to five children, and the capitalist Miss Jiao was born. She is an out-and-out male chauvinist. Without Jiang Dehua's help, the love between Angie and Jiang Defu would come to an abrupt end.

In Jiang Dehua, she began to go to the city to help with the children. She left several times before and after, and after each time, Angie and Jiang Defu were almost skinned by the children.

Children are the sublimation of the relationship between husband and wife, and also the touchstone to verify whether the relationship between husband and wife is hard.

Jiang Defu is a male chauvinist.

When Angie gave birth to her first child, there was no one to take care of the confinement, wash diapers and do housework, all of which fell on Jiang Defu.

One day, he came out with a pot of diapers to dry, and was seen by Mrding and a group of comrades, and laughed at him intentionally or unintentionally.

Jiang Defu was so angry that he picked up a porcelain basin and threw it at home, scaring the child to tears. Angie asked him what he was doing. He said angrily, "Let's find a nanny quickly. I am a regimental cadre and can't wash diapers at home every day. "

An Jie asked: "Regimental cadres are not people. What's your name? "

Jiang Defu made up his mind to tell Angie to bring his sister.

Angie naturally didn't want to take Jiang Dehua to see the children, so they quarreled.

Jiang Defu means that everyone can take his sister to look after the children, so why can't he?

Sister An means to let my aunt take care of the children, because others are not sensible and they can't help themselves.

Jiang Defu's next sentence expresses his careful thoughts: "As long as you are sensible and sensible, let your man hang diapers outside every day, which makes people laugh."

An Jie did not show weakness, and replied, "Whoever laughs at you will not be sensible."

Jiang Defu was full of grievances and said angrily, "A sensible person knows to lie at home and read novels every day."

Jiang Defu is a male chauvinist, no matter from his growing environment or his education. In him, although some other men have no advantages, he is a man with high emotional intelligence and knows how to coax his wife.

However, the old ideas and male chauvinism revealed in his bones cannot be adjusted in a day or two.

Let him take care of the children with Anjie for a while, and with his emotional intelligence, he may be able to accept and endure it.

However, along the way, plus Angie gave birth to five children before and after, even the best feelings will slowly wear away in the process of taking care of the children.

In the following story, he coaxed Anjie into agreeing to let Jiang Dehua come and take care of the children for various reasons and accommodation.

However, when they talk about their personal habits, Angie's arrogance in her bones shows that "it is difficult to transform a Jiang Defu, let alone have another Jiang Dehua". When he heard the word "transformation", Jiang Defu immediately changed his face. As a result, the two men quarreled fiercely.

Later, although Jiang Defu showed weakness and lowered his head, there was a fight at the head of the bed and the end of the bed was closed. However, at that time, he had "taken the plank road and slipped in" and took the initiative to bring Jiang Dehua here.

At that time, Jiang Defu and Angie had just got married and their first child was born. The relationship between two people is in a state of happiness and passion. Jiang Defu's emotional intelligence is very high, so he will naturally accommodate his wife.

Research shows that the love between men and women, the power of hormones, is only about 3 months to half a year. When the hormonal passion has passed, two people rely on the wisdom of interpersonal communication to get along.

Obviously, Angie and Jiang Defu, when they have feelings, can be regarded as flirting, but after a long time, Jiang Defu and Angie are unwilling to bow directly. Over time, it is not difficult to imagine how many feelings can last forever when there are more quarrels than quarrels and more hot and cold than hot and cold.

Feminine taste and pride in Anji's bones

No matter what age, it is really easy for a person to take care of children. They both have jobs.

Jiang Dehua came home from Jiang Defu's house for the first time, because she couldn't coax the children, so she lifted her clothes and nursed Angie's children. Angie happened to meet her, and Angie said that Jiang Dehua "can do such shameless things". Shamed, Jiang Dehua decided to return to his hometown.

After Jiang Dehua left, Angie, who was pregnant with a second child, couldn't even eat a hot meal, so she had to go to Mrding's house for dinner.

Fortunately, Anjie's family conditions are good. After discussion, everyone decided to ask her maid to come and help.

Imagine if Anjie's family didn't have such family conditions, and let Anjie, who was born with Miss Jiao, walk around the children all day and eat nothing. What would it be like?

As a matter of fact, Jiang Defu does not support having a "nanny" at home, which is not in line with their values and thinks that this is a problem of exploiting class talents.

Even if the nanny stays in their house for a long time, the pimples in her heart will only accumulate.

Jiang Defu left his home in Jiang Defu for the second time because Jiang Defu married Anjie and was assigned to work in Xiaoheishan Island.

However, Anjie resolutely refused to join the army and lived in that "bird does not shit" place. When Jiang Defu left home, she didn't go out to give presents.

Jiang Dehua and Wang Xiue discussed that the husband and wife had been separated for a long time, and something would go wrong sooner or later. In addition, Wang Xiue thinks that Mrding has wild desires for Anjie. Coincidentally, Anzhen's leader came to send vermicelli to their home, which showed Jiang Dehua and Wang Xiue a way to let Jiang Dehua go home first and let Anzhen take care of the children alone. She can't carry it alone, so she will go to the island.

So, when Anjie was not at home, Jiang Dehua quietly returned to his hometown.

Angie's taking care of the children alone is not only unbearable, but Angie's brother-in-law also sent An Xin and Lao Ou to remote areas for transformation because of the background of the times.

Angie's brother reminded Angie that instead of staying here and worrying her family and husband, she might as well join the army. At least Jiang Defu can protect her.

In this way, Angie decided to move to the army.

Later, Angie became pregnant with twins. There are two sons at home, and Angie is also very heavy. When Jiang Defu suggested taking Jiang Dehua, Angie accepted.

In fact, Angie's character is not the kind of woman who is willing to stay at home and teach her children. Whenever, she knows that women must have their own jobs.

However, in those days, children were usually born. She has to work, take care of the children and fight with Jiang Defu, so she can't take care of her energy.

A family of five, even Jiang Dehua was so tired that he shouted, "God, don't let people live." What's more, a working-class lady like Anjie would be too tired to have a soul if she had to take care of five children by herself.

Even if Jiang Defu is very kind to Anjie, he is only concerned and considerate on major issues. Jiang Defu can't help him do housework and take care of the children, not to mention the male chauvinism in his bones, and he won't help Anjie take care of the children too much.

At this point, from Anjie to the island, in order to save face, he deliberately "set" Anjie to carry water. It can be seen that he values face very much and sometimes even "sacrifices" his beloved wife.

In fact, Jiang Dehua's arrival assumed the responsibility that should belong to Jiang Defu, who took care of the children. Jiang Defu naturally has time to flirt with Angie, and you and I are very close.

More importantly, with the arrival of Jiang Dehua, the contradiction between husband and wife was passed on to Jiang Dehua. Angie and Jiang Dehua have spent most of their lives together, and they have been struggling for most of their lives. Although Jiang Defu reconciled with Wisdom, he also kept the beautiful love between him and Angie.

No years are calm, but someone bears a heavy burden for you.

Jiang Dehua devoted his life and was the bearer of the beautiful love between Jiang Defu and Anjie.

If a caring person helps to take care of the children, women will be grateful for a lifetime.

Jiang Dehua has lived in Jiang Defu for more than 20 years. In these 20 years, she almost took care of her children and brought up the little ones. The children especially like her aunt.

But always despises her sister An. After experiencing various things with her, she discovered Jiang Dehua's character, learned to get along with her, felt her simplicity and truth, and thanked her from the bottom of her heart.

Based on this, when she was vilified by her relatives in her hometown and questioned her status in the Chiang family, An Jie stood up and defended her, saying in front of everyone that "Dehua is the aunt of this family and keeps his word", and the relatives who came back had nothing to say. Such respect is beyond words.

Later, when she learned that Jiang Dehua had feelings for Mrding, she did not hesitate to pull her face down and go to Mrding to shake hands. As a result, Mrding threw cold water on her, and she was so angry that she didn't want to associate with Mrding any more.

In her view, Jiang Dehua is not only a sister-in-law, but also her benefactor and family. It is her bounden duty to protect, support and help her.

Among the parents' love, the most enviable love is Anjie and Jiang Defu, but the most touching person is Jiang Dehua.

In fact, both Angie and Jiang Dehua support each other from disgust, which reflects a woman's growth history.

When a woman marries for the first time, she must learn to change from a charming lady to a good wife and mother, even a daughter-in-law, and handle the relationship between menstruation and her sister-in-law like Anjie.

Compared with the simple interpersonal relationship at home, after marriage, we need to acquire more advanced emotional intelligence in order to better cope with all kinds of interpersonal relationships.

This process actually tests the married daughter-in-law, as well as the emotional intelligence and virtue of the mother-in-law and sister-in-law in this family.

At first, I naturally had my own habits and thinking, and there were some contradictions. This is also natural and inevitable.

I've been watching people's hearts for a long time. But if I have good intentions, do good deeds and accumulate virtue, and experience the tempering of time, people's hearts will naturally become popular. Even in the end, there are still some differences in ambitions and ways, but the "revolutionary friendship" we get along with is real.

In a family, not everyone's values, living habits and ways of thinking are the same, but there must be wisdom and measurement of seeking common ground while reserving differences.

You can accept my little temper, and I can tolerate your little shortcomings.

In fact, between Jiang Defu and Anjie, they can get along happily, largely because they all have such wisdom.

Anjie knows that Jiang Defu loves face, so he tries to give him enough face in front of others. Jiang Defu knew Angie's petty bourgeoisie, so he tried to satisfy her privately.

Similarly, when Angie and Jiang Dehua get along, the same is true.

Even if she doesn't like why she likes Mrding, she will try to rub it; Even though she doesn't like people like Rainbow Soo-e and Zhang Guilan, she tries to understand their way of thinking.

From Jiang Dehua's point of view, during more than 20 years with Anjie, she is also accepting Anjie's "transformation", and their living habits and ways of thinking are gradually approaching.

Many people say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to get along with, and it will be difficult to be with an inactive man.

In fact, as long as everyone lives sincerely, knows what they want, makes concessions to each other, and pays more attention to each other's strengths and efforts, life can also be beautiful.

Just like Angie, without Jiang Dehua's help and her love for Jiang Defu, her life would be a mess.