What should you do if your mother-in-law speaks ill of you behind your back?

If you want to "set the rules" by bumping into your mother-in-law who speaks ill of you behind your back, the best way is to just hold your horses, record the situation at that time, and then cry piteously to your husband. After that, you can cut off contact with your mother-in-law on the grounds that you don't know how to face it.

If your husband asks you why you are recording, you will say to him weakly, "I have always respected my mother." I really can't believe my mother would say that if I hadn't seen it with my own eyes.

There are some small grievances on weekdays. I have been afraid of my husband's embarrassment and have never told him. This time, I really don't know what to do, and I dare not rush out to refute it. After all, that's the mother of the male god, and I have no one to rely on. I can only record it, please help. "