Who pays when you go out to eat with a boy? It depends on whether you are Fan Shengmei or Qiu Yingying

Qiu Yingying, who has fallen in love, and her prospective boyfriend Ying Qin invite Fan Shengmei to dinner. She wants to ask Fan Shengmei to comment on her new boyfriend to see if he is reliable. Ying Qin is a programmer who looks honest and dull. When he pursues Qiu Yingying, he spends a lot of money on treating guests and giving gifts. Qiu Yingying felt guilty and wanted to take the initiative to invite Ying Qin to dinner this time.

When paying the bill, Qiu Yingying was pulled back by Fan Shengmei: "Girls go out to eat with boys, how can the girl pay for herself?" The price dropped! Qiu Yingying looked embarrassed and said she was embarrassed to accept Ying Qin's gift. Fan Shengmei said nonchalantly: Eating, giving gifts, and shopping are all things boys should do when chasing girls. Men are reluctant to spend money when chasing you, and you will be worthless once they catch you.

After Qiu Yingying said goodbye to Ying Qin, she and Fan Shengmei returned to the room on the 22nd floor. Fan Shengmei was educating Qiu Yingying again about asking men to buy things for her. Even Guan Guan can't stand listening: Men's money is not picked up, why should they pay for women? Fan Shengmei was not convinced: Look, when Qu Xiaoxiao and Andy go out to eat, men pay for it!

Qu Xiaoxiao and Andy, two independent and wealthy sponsors, have men paying their bills, so they can bring value and benefits to the men. And every time Fan Shengmei falls in love, she expects men to pay for her. As a result, most men gradually stay away from her.

For a woman who covets the convenience of others, it doesn’t matter if others pay for you at first. But over time, this woman only accepts gifts from others and does not give gifts back to others. She only accepts other people paying the bill and never pays the bill herself. No one will want to be with this kind of woman in the long run. No matter men or women, everyone is an independent individual, especially when girls are talking about boyfriends, they can't always let boys foot the bill. They will see you clearly, look down on you in their bones, and maybe even play with your feelings.

-Girls must learn to respect themselves-

When it comes to paying the bill, girls often have to learn to respect themselves. Like the family where Fan Shengmei was born, she bought so many items for her family, but instead of being grateful, her family tried their best to ask for more. When Fan Shengmei falls in love or finds a boyfriend, she expects to find someone to help pay for her whole family, just because Fan Shengmei is beautiful. Beautiful women have an innate advantage in dating the opposite sex, but there are too many beauties in the world. Just because you are beautiful, a man will commit to you for the rest of his life.

On the other hand, Qiu Yingying is a very simple person, knows how to repay kindness, and knows not to covet other people's interests. She fell in love with Ying Qin. She liked Ying Qin's honesty and knew that Ying Qin was smart and capable. She knew very well that a girl like her, an ordinary and simple girl with few pursuits, would be satisfied to find a programmer like Ying Qin who owned a house, a car and a good career as her marriage partner.

As a financially adaptable man, Ying Qin initially despised Qiu Yingying because she was not a virgin. Later, he felt that because of his overbearing virgin fiancée, Ying Qin asked Ying Qin to write her name on the house and have to support her after getting married. Very stressful. He really likes girls like Qiu Yingying. The most important thing is that Ying Qin's fiancée beat up Qiu Yingying who was dating him, which completely made Ying Qin stop thinking about her.

The hymen is the best excuse for men to dislike women, attack women, and reject women. It is also the most comfortable psychological comfort zone for themselves when they want to abandon their girlfriends. Why did Ying Qin marry Qiu Yingying? This girl is simple, ordinary and motivated, she has ideas and works hard. At least she is not a woman who requires her name to be written on the house as soon as she gets married. Men are very calculating when it comes to marrying a wife. It is not enough for a woman to be a virgin, it is just a bonus. The repayment does not require a house and a name, but a job and no burden on the family.

On the other hand, although Fan Shengmei is an expert in seducing men, she always makes men pay for her, and it is natural for men to give her everything, just because I am a beautiful woman and I have privileges. There are too many beauties in this world. If you are beautiful, you will become old after two years. If a woman wants to marry a man with good conditions, she must also have good conditions.

Fan Shengmei spent 10 years constantly disguising herself as Bai Fumei in an attempt to have a wealthy son-in-law to support her family, but in reality? At Bai Fumei's level, she can only find affordable men. Even a wealthy boss cannot fill her bottomless pit.

-Women can be poor, but they cannot be poor at heart-

For a girl, poverty in the family is not scary, but she is afraid that she will always be poor at heart and like to take advantage of other people's small conveniences and take advantage of others. Asking for help is a matter of course. There are so many things in this world that are taken for granted. I met a couple before. Whether it was a class reunion or a treat for friends, they would never take the initiative to pay the bill. They would see others pay the bill with them. They were very confident. Later, almost all their friends stopped interacting with them and disliked the couple. They thought they were taking advantage of others, but in fact, almost no one would make friends with such people in the end.

When I go out to eat, I am the one paying the bill, regardless of gender. I am the one paying the bill. I am not used to being paid for by others, nor do I like to take advantage of others. Sometimes I would rather give others more money than owe others. Therefore, I have never met any scumbag men or women in my life. Almost these people do not exist in my world. You won't meet cheap men and women either.

You can clearly see what a person is like by paying once. If you think you are taking advantage of someone, in fact you are leading yourself into a social dead end. Even some of my buddies asked me in surprise: Don’t you bother paying for every meal? When I come out to you, don’t I just ask you to do something or listen to your opinion? Of course I have to pay for taking up your time? Of course, I sometimes accept gifts and payments from others, and it is also when others ask me for something.

The payment between people in this world is a kind of temptation, a kind of action and reaction force. As a girl, you should not be greedy for others' advantages, but take the initiative to pay the bills. For both the pursued and the pursuing men, there is a "love is love, money is money, what's yours is yours, and what's mine is mine." Attitude, will you be cheated by a man? Won't!

For men, they are embarrassed to ask women to pay for a treat, but they like to use the small matter of paying the bill to test women, and quickly make solutions for dating this woman, or how much to spend. Money can get this woman, the logic of how much this woman is worth.

When a woman uses money to measure her position in a man's mind, you are just a commodity in the eyes of a man. As a woman, if you don't be greedy for vanity and don't mess with small conveniences, your life will be much smoother. The so-called men are bad, scum, and ruthless. The attitude you use to treat men will be the same attitude they use to treat you. Isn't this fair? In this world, liars will only deceive people who are too kind and greedy, but they will never deceive people who are self-aware and do not take advantage.