It's beautiful. Let's go out less.

If you are too beautiful or go out less, many beautiful girls will give advice. Everyone has it now, so pay more attention to safety. Try to be accompanied by others when you go out. Don't go out alone. See if you are too beautiful or go out less.

Too beautiful to go out 1 0 1 Women are too beautiful to be jealous.

There is a theory in psychology called "projection effect", to the effect that people often have an illusion, accustomed to taking what they think and see as the standard, and then project it on others, thinking that the other person is the same.

It seems that people's impressions of beautiful girls are always unreliable and vicious. The more beautiful, the more dangerous the signal is, the more people are afraid to get close, and the more likely they are to be hated.

In the film The Beautiful Legend of Sicily, the heroine Monica monica bellucci is recognized as the most beautiful woman in this town. However, fate is confusing. I thought married life was to get married and have children all my life, but war is always cruel. Her husband was forced to join the army, and then her life became a mess. Gradually, her beauty was envied by women. Some people spread rumors about her seducing a married man, and everyone rushed to beat her, tear her clothes and cut her.

But on weekdays, she doesn't have much contact with the people in the town. Even those who are not familiar with her, everyone did not stop evaluating and attacking marlene dietrich, but regarded her beauty as an unforgivable sin.

Carnegie said: "Many times women will be jealous when they see that others are better than themselves or surpass themselves in some places."

Although we always say, why should women embarrass women? But I don't know when it started, and we found that the malice towards girls in society seems to come from women themselves. Where there are many women, there are rivers and lakes.

The essence of jealousy is the discomfort of feeling replaced. Whether you are beautiful or not, as long as she thinks you are more beautiful than her, it will be difficult for you to establish a good relationship. Your beauty threatens her, and your existence makes her feel eclipsed. Especially when you are single and unmarried, she will treat you as an imaginary enemy and competitor, and be hostile and defensive to you. For example, she doesn't want to introduce her favorite object or boyfriend to you, for fear that she will become a green leaf to set you off, and that men will ignore her at a glance.

Women are so beautiful that people feel incompetent.

There is a halo effect in psychology: it means that an individual will form a good or bad impression on a person's characteristics, and then judge by this impression in the subsequent development process.

There is always a stereotype about good-looking girls, that is, most good-looking girls are vases, which are superficial and have no strength at all.

I saw a question on the Zhihu: Are the beautiful girls with poor grades in your class doing well now?

It seems that everyone is a little biased against beautiful girls, and everyone always thinks that beautiful girls must be incompetent.

Besides being a student, beauty is easily questioned by IQ, and it is more easily discriminated in the workplace. No matter how hard you work and how talented you are, when it comes to promotion, your results will become complicated. If you promote your male boss, he will bear a lot of gossip. If the promotion is successful, in the eyes of others, you are also superior by virtue of your beauty. In the eyes of laymen, it is normal that beautiful women cannot be talented and lack the spirit of suffering.

Although you can increase your face value in the interview, in the promotion of the workplace, beautiful women have become a vulnerable group.

There is a line in Nezha: "The prejudice in people's hearts is a mountain, and no matter how hard you try, you can't move it."

In the entertainment circle, Christy Chung gives most people the impression that she is a sexy beauty. Because of her charming figure, coupled with her casual love view and stubborn fertility view, many people think that she only shows off her figure and has no brains.

But in fact, Christy Chung is a master who can speak seven languages, and he can switch between them freely. Anyone who knows her and has worked with her will praise her as a "little" woman.

People often talk about a person's appearance. They always think that a beautiful woman can get everything by her beauty without thinking. If a girl is beautiful, independent and rich, she will always think that she is backed by her financial master and that happiness is not achieved by herself.

A woman's transformation often depends on her own, and for good-looking girls, in addition to overcoming gender discrimination, we should also try to tear off the prejudice of "beautiful women have no brains"

Women are too beautiful, but there are few pursuers.

There is a stereotype in psychology: for a certain kind of people or things, people habitually give a place in their own impressions and evaluate people and things according to their fixed impressions.

A program once interviewed Jiang's husband Gu Changwei, "Your wife is so beautiful, how dare you chase her?"

Gu Changwei replied, "Maybe no one dares to chase her. Everyone dared not chase her, and I caught up with her as soon as I chased her. "

In everyone's subconscious, a beautiful girl must be chased by someone and have a boyfriend. But this is not the case. In fact, many excellent girls are really not chased, or no one dares to chase them.

For the intimate relationship between men and women, writer Roland Miller once put forward a formula. From the appearance alone, the attraction of the other party is equal to the product of "the appearance of the other party" and "the possibility of the other party accepting itself".

That is to say, although everyone loves beauty, on the premise of very beautiful appearance, if a person's acceptance of others to accept himself tends to zero, then he will think that the other party is not attractive to him.

If you are too beautiful, you should go out less. Girls should not dress up too well.

It is easy to put children in danger.

There are many good people in this world, but there are also many bad people. One kind of people are pedophiles. This kind of person has a persistent love for children, and will pick some older and better-dressed children to start.

Speaking of this, many parents may be nervous and feel scared instantly.

Although there are few such cases, there are still "accidents", so as parents, we should know that we can dress our children beautifully, but we should always guard our children and prevent them from traveling alone.

If you want to protect your child better, but you can't always be around him, then dress your child as popular as possible, not too prominent, otherwise it will easily attract the attention of you and may put your child in danger.

It may lead some children to be too vain.

Vanity is everyone's.

But if children's vanity is too heavy, it will have a negative impact on their lives.

Now some parents are unconsciously cultivating their children's vanity from a very young age. For example, Bao's father and Ma Bao dressed their children too fashionably when they were young, and even let them wear various luxury brands, perm their hair and get their nails done when they were young.

Such behavior makes some children form vanity and comparison psychology from an early age.

They may always keep up with their neighbors in dressing style and take pleasure in keeping up with them in some accessories they buy. Slowly, the vanity of these children will prevail, so their minds will not be completely focused on their studies. If there is no inner knowledge and cultivation to fill themselves, their lives will be directly affected.

It may lead some children to form bad consumption habits.

Every parent wants to dress their children more beautifully, and it doesn't matter much if this beauty is only based on wearing skirts and choosing some trinkets. However, if parents like to buy all kinds of luxury goods for their children to dress up since childhood, then this may lead to the formation of bad consumption habits.

In fact, children don't know much about these things at first, and they don't know those famous brands. Instead, they often mention the difference between famous brands or which one is expensive after their parents buy something for them, so that children will be influenced by their parents and pay more attention to famous brands.

If parents instill this luxury consumption concept in their children from an early age, they will also form bad consumption habits. These children may become more and more extravagant in the future and are dissatisfied with some famous brands.

It will also affect children's academic performance.

Finally, parents should pay attention to the fact that if they only care about dressing up their children beautifully from an early age, but do not pay attention to developing good study habits and a correct outlook on life, then it is possible to cultivate their children into empty "vases."

Children may attach too much importance to their appearance and only like to spend time and energy on dressing themselves, ignoring the importance of studying hard, so their academic performance is mostly average.

If you are too beautiful, you should go out less. There are three girls, don't let the children dress up too beautifully!

0 1, the child becomes vain.

"If you don't buy me an Apple phone, I won't go to school!"

When Apple phones became popular in those years, many students pestered their parents to buy Apple phones. Threaten not to go to school if you don't buy it. Some children even sell their kidneys and eggs directly in pursuit of vanity.

Some girls also sold their one-night youth at a low price for a cosplay skirt with a price of 1000 yuan.

It is natural for children to love beauty, but if they pursue it too much, it becomes vanity. Parents should guide their children in time and tell them that the outside is only one aspect, and what is more important is the inside.

Wu Xiaochen shared her experience of plastic surgery in the program. She was taken by her mother for plastic surgery from 14 years old. Her mother is also a person who loves beauty. When others don't know what plastic surgery is, her mother has often had plastic surgery. Later, Wu Xiaochen spent more than 4 million yuan on plastic surgery.

Parents can not suppress their children's nature, but their obligation is to make them realize that the outside is not unique.

02, cover up the child's nature.

When a person cares too much about appearance, his energy will be taken up.

Wu Xiaochen's childhood photos, although not stunning beauty, are very cute and simple. Children's nature is not only beauty, beauty and appearance, but also innocence and romance that only belongs to children.

Besides being beautiful, children love to move, run and jump. When parents blindly let their children pursue beauty, they may ignore other natures.

For example, in kindergarten, let children wear beautiful princess dresses and dress up beautifully. The child looks good and happy, and the parents feel very proud. But is it convenient for children to walk around the school?

Even the kindergarten teacher said: it is better for girls to wear pants at school, and it is not safe to wear skirts. Wearing a long skirt may trip others, or you may be stepped on.

When children are young, they can't tell the pros and cons, and they don't know what the correct three views are. These all depend on the guidance of parents, so when children excessively pursue the beauty of appearance, they need the correct guidance of parents.

In the past, many people preferred sons to daughters because they preferred sons to daughters. Nowadays, many people don't want to have daughters because they think it's too much trouble to raise them.

There is a daughter at home, and parents always need special attention. They want their daughter to be beautiful, but they are worried that her daughter will not fall in love or meet someone who doesn't know how to cherish.