The Art of Humor

My previous understanding of humor was biased. I thought I was a humorous person at first, but as I grew older, I found that I was not. The first time I felt humorous was in pri

My previous understanding of humor was biased. I thought I was a humorous person at first, but as I grew older, I found that I was not. The first time I felt humorous was in primary school. There is a toilet in the school. When the students went in, they faced a wall in the west. Let's see who can pee on the wall. Once, I peed on my head and everyone looked at me and laughed. Although I feel embarrassed, I still feel that I am a humorous person. Later, I was very happy to tell others how I peed so high. People say I'm 250. I think this is a ridiculous thing. I can't figure out why everyone laughs at me and calls me 250. When you were young, you were confused because no one taught you how to be humorous.

When I was in primary school, I was often scolded by my teacher. Every time I organize an exam in the village, the teacher calls me to the office and says to me, "Don't go to my village for an exam. I'll give you two days off." I watched him treat me so well, and my heart melted, but thinking of his bad attitude towards me at ordinary times, I told him categorically, "I want to take an exam." Every time I finish, the teacher's smile disappears instantly. I thought to myself, "Be nice to me at ordinary times, why not?" Seeing the teacher's legs shaking, because as long as I take the exam, the class average will definitely be at the bottom. When I was a child, I thought I was humorous, but later I found that cleverness is not humor.

When I grow up, I find that humor has the following characteristics.

1. Humor is an observation and aesthetic that is detached from events, just like playing truant with my cousin in high school and being caught by my uncle. When I grow up, I can feel my uncle's kindness from this matter, and then I will observe this matter after I understand it. This matter shines with the beauty of human nature. I joked with my cousin that "although we have never experienced a special period, we are also people who swim across the street."

Parents force their children to study at home every day, which makes them shine on you and fangs. If we can take this incident out and observe it, from the child's point of view, there is a classic joke that vividly explains everything. It is said that there are three kinds of birds in the world. One is that stupid birds fly first, the other is that stupid birds don't fly, and the third is that stupid birds don't fly. They lay eggs, hatch a bird and make it fly.

When my son was in grade one, a new Chinese teacher came. Once he went home and cried that he would not write Chinese homework in the future. I asked him why. He said that the Chinese teacher often punished him for copying homework. If one person in the group doesn't do his homework, the whole group will be punished. As soon as I heard it, I said angrily, "Don't say you don't understand, neither do I.". Why does a person have to copy a fine for not doing his homework? " What's the point? Don't cry, dad will help you. Does the Chinese teacher drive to work? "After listening to my words, my son asked," What are you doing? "I said," I let go of his tire air, which made me very angry. " My son said, "Stop it, people don't drive." I added, "I must set this tone. Do you know where his home is? " The son said, "Why? Are you going to someone else's house to find a teacher? " I said to my son, "I'm not looking for him, I'm trying to break his glass." Speaking of this, the son said, "Do you think your quality is still a university teacher? The teacher is also very kind to us. The Chinese scores in our class have improved now. I'm not angry, so don't be angry. "I thought to myself," If I don't squat down, how can I look noble? "How can you forgive the Chinese teacher? How do I do my homework? "

2. Humor in life practice is a kind of cooperation, which makes people jump out of conflict and not win or lose. A child wanted a mobile phone, but the parents didn't reply in time and said to think about it. A few days later, the child said, "I want a mobile phone. Do you buy it or not? " Dad said, "How much is the mobile phone you want to buy?" The son said more than two thousand, and the father said, "more than two thousand?" How to buy such a cheap mobile phone? After buying more than 3,000 yuan, the child paused and said, "Dad, are you crazy or am I crazy?" Dad said, "My son needs a better mobile phone. In his view, you deserve a better mobile phone. " . This kind of humor is the art of life, and it is a cooperation that will not lose if it jumps out of conflict.

3. Humor is a reasonable surprise. A man had a broken bone, and the doctor asked, "How did this happen?" The patient said, "don't mention it, I got sand in my shoes." I walked to the beach with a telephone pole. A buddy saw it and hit my leg with a stick. " Light comedies in life are very interesting.

After the college entrance examination, my original goal was anyang normal College. Feeling that the exam was almost over, I went to school and asked the teacher. The teacher said, "You didn't enroll in junior college in our school." I said, "No way, I think I did well in the exam." The teacher said solemnly, "I really don't have you." The teacher looked at my face and almost cried, saying, "Don't be sad, you really didn't get into the junior college this year, and Henan Normal University accepted you." At that time, I didn't know whether to cry or laugh. The teacher's humor was really comfortable after nerve-racking.

A man and a woman are together. The girl doesn't know what to eat and suddenly wants to fart. In order to hide her embarrassment, she used her quick wits and said to the boy, "I learn from you. Does it sound like you?" The girl farted while learning cuckoo, and asked the boy, "Is it nice?" The boy said, "The fart is too big to hear clearly." I used to lean back when I saw this kind of joke, but later I found it was not humor.

Humor is always one step away from embarrassment. Bo Huang has a sense of humor and high emotional intelligence. On one occasion, Ma Yun said to Bo Huang: "Celebrity endorsement products are free of charge, which is more credible. How about giving us a free endorsement? " Bo Huang reacted quickly. "Yes, just empty my shopping cart." . The funniest thing is Xiao S, who often plays embarrassing jokes. She asked Bo Huang, "I fell into the water with Lin Chi-ling. Who will you save first?" Bo Huang said, "Save you first." "Why?" "Because she is tall" "You mean I am short?" . See Bo Huang's answer, always one step away from the embarrassment. Xu zhēng hosted a charity party and said, "If you shoot 8 million, Bo Huang will be naked." Bo Huang said, "Yes, but you have to shoot 654.38+million. I gave the gift away before I streaked, and Xu zhēng has streaked. " Keep one step away from embarrassment.

Humor is the optimism and warmth that makes people laugh and cry. After listening to the story of Zhao Liang and grandma, my tears came out, not laughing, but Zhao Liang's attitude towards life. Always be optimistic and enthusiastic. My son didn't do well in primary school, so the teacher asked him to repeat the grade. The child came home crying and said, "The teacher said I can't." I said, "Stop crying. Is it because the teacher says you can't, and you can't? " "The teacher said no, can I still do it?" My son didn't think he was dying after the countdown. The teacher said a word and he cried. I said, "Let's sell a house, donate money to the school and let the teacher say' you can do it' again. Are you okay? " My son said, "Not necessarily." I said, "He said you could, but not necessarily. He said you can't, so you can't? " The son woke up and said that what the teacher said was not necessarily right.

6. Humor is a philosophy of life beyond utility and the highest embodiment of human wisdom. A parent asked me for advice. She said that she would educate her children according to the methods taught by Teacher Dong, and as a result, her children came last in every exam. I asked her, "Do you know what major Miss Dong's daughter studies?" She said "film and television director major", and I said "you don't have to go to film and television director major, just go to Hollywood to write scripts". She looked at me for a while, then suddenly smiled and said, "Teacher, how can you tell?" She turned their family upside down and tested me. I said, "when I look at your face, I think of a melody in my head, and I know what you said is not true." My mother asked, "What song did you hear when you saw my face?" "When I saw your frown, I thought,' The king sent me to patrol the mountains'." She smiled again. What a mother can say if she can laugh, but her happy mood is not activated, so it is useless to consult. Educating children, there are no parents who are all right and no parents who are all wrong. When interacting with parents, it can bring them warmth and joy, relieve their anxiety and be very happy.

This is humor that I understand at my age.

Humor is not a prank, a talkative mouth, a vulgar joke, cleverness, malicious irony, or standing up and talking as if it were easy. Observing the humor of Mr. Dong and Mr. Zhang, Interpretation of Humor has revised many of my humor concepts, and I strive to cultivate humor literacy in my life. If parents can make good use of "humor", the happiness index will be immediately increased by 10 times, and contradictions will be reduced. On the road of love practice, landing the wisdom of life will get twice the result with half the effort. This is a very good tool given by God to mankind, because life is too boring and spiritual life is too lonely. We should learn to use this talent.

To sum up, there are some suggestions on how to cultivate the ability of humor.

1, people close to you are silent, want to be humorous, spend more time with humorous people, watch more humorous literary works and TV programs, and recommend reading books, such as books by Lin Yutang, Qian Zhongshu, Mark Twain and Bernard Shaw.

2. I laugh when I think so, and consciously train my own aesthetics and open mind. In your own spiritual space, you can make your own decisions, master humor, jump out of the event, win or lose, have an optimistic attitude, and humor will accompany you.

3. Be an interesting person, cultivate more hobbies and enjoy them.

4. Relax physically and mentally. When you are nervous, you have no sense of humor.

5, consciously keep a distance from the event.

6. Practice telling jokes that make people laugh. At first I told jokes, but I was afraid to tell them, for fear that others would not laugh after I finished. Remember, don't be afraid of embarrassment. As long as you are not embarrassed, others will be embarrassed. Who can make people laugh at a joke? Find someone to practice more.

Humor is God's most useful tool for human life. I hope that the family will be full of laughter, turn conflicts into happiness, turn winning and losing into cooperation, and always stay away from embarrassment and pass by.