Remember Johnny Ma, a Peking University girl who questioned Hillary 22 years ago? Later, she married to America. How's it going?

I have to thank these years of wandering, let me away from the center, away from impetuous, let life really sink. In the long night in northern Europe, I fell into despair again and again, praying silently, for this moment, for the next life, and for overcoming my inner weakness. -North Island

In today's world, Sino-US relations have become an important indicator that affects the global nerves. 1972 since Nixon's visit to China, Sino-US relations have been normalized, the two countries have resumed diplomatic relations, economic and cultural exchanges have become more frequent, and the conceptual differences between the two peoples have constantly collided, which has brought more extensive thinking.

1998, then US President Bill Clinton decided to visit China. When he was giving a speech in Peking University, Johnny Ma, a female college student, refuted him in public. Her remarks caused an uproar and were called "anti-American fighters" by the media at that time. Later, she married an American. Now, what is her life like after being abandoned?

First of all, young anti-American fighters

1On June 29th, 998, Clinton gave a speech at Peking University. When talking about the core of American freedom spirit, he quoted Mr. Hu Shi's remarks: "You must sacrifice your personal freedom for the freedom of the country." Clinton extended it to: "To fight for individual freedom is to fight for national freedom. To fight for individuality is to fight for national character. We Americans think Hu Shi is right. "

When his speech was over, the students in the audience began to ask questions, and the atmosphere was always mild and pleasant. It was not until Johnny Ma, a girl from the Chinese Department of Peking University, made a sharp speech that this atmosphere was broken. She quoted Mr. Cai Yuanpei's words to refute: "Tao goes hand in hand without contradiction, and everything breeds without harm."

She believes that there is no contradiction between the freedom of the country and the freedom of the people. The atmosphere is already tense, and Johnny Ma is particularly inadequate. She finally added: "Only those who truly understand freedom will respect the freedom of others more."

For such a sharp speech, Clinton couldn't refute it at the moment, and the venue fell into awkward silence. The tense atmosphere quickly spread and the whole audience was in an uproar. The media was moved by the wind and trumpeted stories such as "Peking University girls questioned Clinton in public". Some media even exaggerated Johnny Ma as an "anti-American fighter". Johnny Ma suddenly stood at the forefront of public opinion, and her words and deeds attracted the public's attention.

Second, marry to America and confess the past.

A few years later, Johnny Ma once again aroused public opinion, because she resolutely married an American man, whose Chinese name was Bailong Kou, and became an American citizen and settled in the United States. Her actions caused an uproar, and everyone questioned that Johnny Ma questioned Hillary's behavior in Peking University many years ago as a show and hype. Questioning, condemnation and ridicule poured into Johnny Ma like snowflakes, but she went her own way and never made any response.

It was not until Johnny Ma was interviewed by Southern People Weekly in 2006 that the true face of the 1998 query was revealed. Johnny Ma admitted that the radical remarks made at that time were selfish, because she had contact with Kou Bailong at that time, but Bailong Kou clashed with her and disappeared. The girl immersed in love is in a hurry.

At this moment, the eyes of the whole world are focused on Clinton's visit to China. She wants to have news reports about her, and Bailong Kou can see her news. But what Johnny Ma didn't expect was that the fermentation of public opinion was so horrible that the eyes of the world were as dazzling as incandescent lamps, and she realized the seriousness of the problem.

After the report came out, the public understood Johnny Ma's marriage to the United States, and Johnny Ma gradually faded out of public view, leading a happy and dull life and almost disappeared.

Third, marriage broke down and middle age was bumpy.

In 20 12, Johnny Ma returned to the public eye, and she published an article called Looking for You, Please help me find this American. It turns out that Bailong Kou and she reached a divorce agreement on 20 1 1. According to the agreement, the daughter will be raised by Johnny Ma for one year, and then the custody will be discussed after the expiration of one year. However, in 20 12, Bailong Kou took her daughter and disappeared without leaving any statement.

In desperation, Johnny Ma can only turn to netizens for help, hoping to get Bailong Kou's home address and telephone number, and send him a court summons to solve the child's custody problem through litigation. This marriage, which once had a high degree of public opinion, broke down in such a bleak form, which was enough to make people cry. Presumably, Johnny Ma's heart is also mixed feelings.

Now, Johnny Ma's divorce has long been settled. She chose to live in Xiamen, facing the sea and looking forward to welcoming her later life in spring. After years of wandering and tempering, Johnny Ma's whole body was stripped off, and she became peaceful and obedient. Perhaps because of his own choice or the elimination of the times, Johnny Ma is just an ordinary primary school librarian now.

Now, Johnny Ma is always with children and books, and her life is full of children's innocent smiles and a vast sea of books. Perhaps, in such a highly pure world, Johnny Ma finally realized his life value. She once shared the experience of international educational exchange and often led children to perform programs and write books. After the ups and downs of middle age, Johnny Ma finally found her utopia, happy and happy.

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Ma Nan was at the center of public opinion three times. Under such tempering, she became more transparent, abandoned impetuousness, understood the value of life and overcame inner weakness. It is hard to say whether the public pressure on Johnny Ma has increased her pain.

On the one hand, Johnny Ma was misunderstood by the public. Her combination with Bailong Kou didn't go well at first, because in the public impression, she was a staunch "anti-American fighter". But no one really cared about what Johnny Ma really thought. People only rely on hearsay reports in the media to label Johnny Ma as such. Her frivolous behavior also made her pay a corresponding price in later years.

On the other hand, Johnny Ma grew up through repeated tempering in life. In the end, she was not afraid of the power of public opinion, but used it to put pressure on Bailong Kou. After the dust settled, Johnny Ma found his own gem on the beach of life. She may not have the life experience of teaching in colleges and universities like other students, but she also manages her life in an orderly way. She never fails, even enjoys it.

It is difficult for ordinary people to experience the public attention like Johnny Ma, but this does not mean that most people's lives are smooth. What we can learn from Johnny Ma is to find inner peace, to find the true nature of self, and to find the true meaning of life sinking after impetuous.