"He doesn't really love you that much" Sun-he has a wonderful design: don't teach a 30-year-old young woman badly.

Recently, I heard a sentence, the female writer Maori said: "Anyway, as long as she is a woman, she doesn't deserve a good life."

Very Japanese. Who says not? Look at the recent domestic TV series. How many TV dramas have normal heroines? How many TV heroines have not experienced bad and disgusting things?

See what's in The Next Stop is Happiness. 32 years old, no emotional experience. He was laughed at by his college classmates, inquired by his neighbors and laughed at by his colleagues.

What's more, the former ambiguous object in college is getting married. In order to please his wife, he introduced a divorced middle-aged man with a big belly to her on a blind date, naked and looked down upon.

Look at Li Jianjian in "In the Name of Family". He has a cheerful personality and simple emotional experience. Originally, I finally had the courage to face the future with the male host, but I met a troublesome and troublesome prospective mother-in-law, and all kinds of demon feelings made the audience sigh.

Recently, I watched another movie "He doesn't really love you that much". After reading it, I only thought the actor was handsome and beautiful, but people were really embarrassed. In daily life, if a 30-year-old girl is still so headstrong, it is really incomprehensible to be vomited by people around her, especially Sun Yihe.

Sun Yihe is the most special role among the four female TV hosts, but also the most abnormal person.

Sun Yihe's personal design is simply the best model to teach 30-year-old girls, so the majority of 30-year-old unmarried girls should never learn from Sun Yihe, and you will regret it.

The first bad teacher: encouraged by the boss, take yourself to complete the task.

At the beginning of the TV series, Sun Yihe's middle-aged female boss Yi Zheng verbally asked Sun Yihe to finish his work.

As for the job of inviting guest Joy Chen to do a show, the boss's reason is, "If you don't look for him, our whole company will close down. Do you have the heart? "

Seeing this, I feel that the plot is very embarrassing. Isn't the boss responsible for the future of a company? Why put all the responsibility on one employee?

Sun Yihe actually agreed, and after agreeing, he pestered the man to make all kinds of inappropriate actions.

The second one is not well taught: do something that is not suitable for your age.

In order to gain Joy Chen's trust and complete his work, Sun Yihe spared no effort to retain foreign customers needed by Joy Chen by pretending to be crazy, asking for autographs and dancing in flash dance.

This is actually very embarrassing, which will bring misunderstanding to young girls in the workplace and think that one dance can solve everything. Isn't this harmful?

Work in the workplace is work. It's no use pretending to be crazy and crying. It's king to implement the work quietly and down-to-earth.

Doing things that don't match your age will only bring you more embarrassment and embarrassment, instead of gaining a Gao Fushuai.

The third is not easy to teach: entangled with ex-boyfriend Sam.

Sun Yihe has an ex-boyfriend SAM, who has a good self-sustaining condition, so he feels particularly good about himself. On and off with Sun Yihe, if you don't want to appear after breaking up, you won't appear. If you want to find your sense of existence, come out and sneak around.

I think it is necessary for the screenwriter to think about it. Shouldn't ex-boyfriends leave Sun Yihe's sight completely? Why do you need so many injections? Is it blocked?

Sam doesn't really love anyone. He always loves only one person, that is himself, so he takes Sun Yihe for granted.

Don't you know that there are such men in reality? If there is, let him hurry to get the lunch box, not sticky, entangled and accommodating. Why?

What should a 30-year-old unmarried girl do?

In fact, a 30-year-old girl was born in 1990, or after 90. Girls born in this period are mostly young. Maybe their parents received a good education, so these girls received at least 9 years of compulsory education. Among them, there are many excellent girls with excellent grades and excellent work.

Girls in 1990 grew up in a more intense environment and were relatively easy to be tempted, but they matured early in this complex society.

They know better what they want and what kind of life they want. For them, love is never the whole of life, and marriage is never the only criterion to judge whether life is happy or not.

Among the 30-year-old girls I know, they are very strict with their feelings.

For example, a boyfriend can't be duplicitous, he must be responsible for the mother's baby, love and respect the woman, and can't trample on her dignity and family at will.

Ask clearly, so as not to let yourself suffer unnecessary harm. This is a mature view of feelings.

In addition, among the 30-year-old girls, they are also serious and responsible for their work and will not be perfunctory. But there must also be a bottom line and principles, instead of consuming yourself without a bottom line in order to complete the boss's work tasks.

You can change your job, and your dignity and personality can't be trampled on. If you don't respect your boss and boss, you won't have a good future. After all, the vision and vision of a company boss is directly related to the level of an enterprise.

Having one's own bottom line for feelings, respecting one's personality, protecting one's dignity, not consuming oneself, living and working hard, this is the normal appearance of a 30-year-old girl, instead of being completely distracted and crying crazily all day, and being able to get rid of it.

In fact, I really hope that the writers of TV series will use snacks and have a sense of social responsibility, otherwise it will cause many young girls to make mistakes in judgment.

I remember watching TV dramas in Hong Kong when I was a child, such as Imperial Court No.1, Elder Martial Sister Tuoqiang and Forensic Records. And I have a super good impression of the heroine in the TV series.

Because these women are not only good-looking, can dress up, but also treat their feelings and careers with great respect, and shape the female image of an era with the image of professional women.

You know, many girls finally have a preliminary career plan and life pursuit because they watched these professional women's Hong Kong dramas from childhood.

Although we no longer watch Hong Kong dramas, they left a deep and positive impression on us. We hope that the current domestic dramas can also set a good image and role model for young girls, instead of all kinds of mindless actions.

Growth and progress, not only from family, but also from TV series, so encouraged.

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