How to guide the baby to learn to speak?

In daily life, when parents breast-feed, change diapers, provide life care for their babies, or take them out, they are all excellent opportunities for oral communication with their babies. So, how to teach your baby to learn to speak?

1, pay attention to daily communication

When changing diapers, you can say, "My baby's ass is dirty, and my mother changes diapers. Ta-da-da twice, and put a small tape on it. The baby is so happy when changing diapers! " When feeding your baby water, you can say, "Drink water." When looking in the mirror, point to the mirror and say "this is the baby" and "this is the mother". In addition, when taking the baby out, what you see and hear along the way can be used as the content of talking with the baby.

2. Appropriate language stimulation

When talking to the new baby, the voice should be soft, the speech speed should be slowed down, and it can be accompanied by a beautiful melody. For example, a mother can gently sing children's songs to her baby; Read poems to children, "Saint Amethyst" and so on. But the mother must grasp the degree, the language stimulation should not be too frequent, and the time should not be too long, so as to avoid the baby's brain and nerves being exhausted, and the result is counterproductive.

3. Pay attention to intonation and onomatopoeia.

Although babies can't speak, they feel different about different intonations. Parents should communicate with their babies in a high-pitched voice. The rising tone is used to attract the baby's attention, and the falling tone is used to comfort or arouse the baby's positive emotions. Parents should use onomatopoeic words and overlapping words that the baby likes to listen to when talking to the baby. For example: "Chickens quack, Ducks quack ..." The baby will be very happy after listening to it, and then imitate it naturally.

Step 4 Use gestures skillfully

According to scientists' research, the sooner a baby can point with his index finger, the sooner he can express his needs and speak. 8- 10 months, the baby can already express his needs with gestures. They will touch an object with their fingers to attract their mother's attention, hoping to meet her needs. For example, mother can first demonstrate the baby's photos with her fingers, flip chart, point and say, and then pull the baby's fingers. After many trainings, the baby can learn to pull! When the baby points to an object, the mother should say the name of the object, speak more slowly and develop the baby's language.

5. Use more positive words and phrases.

In the process of baby learning to speak, parents should use as few negative words as possible, such as "don't touch it" or "stop, don't do that". Positive words will bring great confidence to the baby. For example, if the baby is naughty and wants to play with the teacup, you might as well give him a rubber ball and say, "Let's play with the rubber ball. Mom rolls the ball over, the baby catches it and rolls it to mom. "

Step 6 play games

Babies naturally like games, and they can learn a lot in game interaction. Mom and dad should often play games with their babies in life to create a happy atmosphere. For example, in the nose touching game, you sit face to face with your baby and let him look at you. You say a certain part of the body, let the baby point it out. You ask him, "where's mom's nose?" The baby will point his finger at your nose. You can also point the baby at your body parts according to your language prompts. Babies can acquire language naturally and happily in this organized game.

Teach the baby to talk. You can't be these three types of parents.

Parents witnessed the growth of their children bit by bit. The most exciting thing is the baby's first sentence "Mom and Dad". In fact, when the baby babbles, parents should pay attention to three forbidden areas, otherwise the baby's language learning is likely to lag behind because of parents' misconduct!

Forbidden area 1: "talk grabbing" type

The baby pointed to the cup, and the mother immediately got the message and asked the baby, "Do you want to drink water?" Then the baby nodded approvingly.

I analyze

In the initial stage of language learning, babies are inevitably slow-witted or don't know how to express their needs. Although mothers can quickly understand the baby's needs for their own movements and expressions, the quick response like the mother in the example is actually not conducive to the baby's language learning. Parents meet their baby's requirements too much, which can easily slow down the baby's language development. If parents are often in such a hurry to express themselves, the chances for the baby to speak and exercise will be much less.

What should parents do?

In the initial stage of baby learning to speak, parents should create conditions for baby to talk more, rather than grab words. If the baby still uses gestures or expressions to express his needs, the mother can properly guide the baby: "Tell her, what does the baby want?"

If the baby has difficulty in expression, the mother can hold two items in her hand and say in another way, "Does the baby want a doll or a ball?" The baby just uses gestures. Don't give it to him yet. Guide him to talk until he makes a sound.

Don't refuse to give the baby something just because the baby's pronunciation is incorrect. What parents should do is to create opportunities and encourage their babies to talk more. Parents should be patient enough not to put pressure on their babies. After a long time, the baby realizes that he can't get what he wants without using his mouth, so he will consciously express it in words.

Forbidden zone 2: "children talk with their mouths full" type

Mother took the baby to the park to play, and wanted to take the opportunity to let the baby contact the outside world and have a basic understanding of things. So the mother will teach the baby to say "this is a flower and this is a dog". At home, my mother also said "eat."

I analyze

When the baby starts to speak, it is monosyllabic repetition, which is children's language. Some parents think that speaking children's pronunciation will make their babies easier to accept and learn, so they choose this way of speaking when talking to their babies. But in fact, children's language is a stage of children's language development and a manifestation of low language ability.

Moreover, once the baby is used to speaking in children's language, it will be difficult to get rid of this way of speaking in the future. At this time, parents need to spend some time to correct their baby. Therefore, parents should try to avoid communicating with their babies in their children's words, and talk to their babies in a normal and standardized way so that they can learn.

What should parents do?

When communicating with a baby who has just learned to speak, parents should be careful not to follow the child's language style, let alone use the child's words to teach the child to learn a language. Parents should pay attention to using standardized language to communicate with their babies every day, and gradually reduce the time and opportunities for their babies to speak children's languages in the initial stage of their learning.

For example, when you see a car on the street, the baby may say, "Here comes the car." At this time, parents can teach their baby to say, "This is a red car." Parents should also emphasize to their children that this is a car, not a car, and then let the baby repeat what you said.

When you see a car in the future, your mother can ask your baby what it is. If the baby can say car instead of car, it will be the progress of the baby's language learning, and the mother should praise it in time!

Forbidden area 3: "joke" type

Babies always mispronounce when they first learn to speak. For example, he would pronounce "eating" as "seven" and "lion" as "learning Chinese characters". These funny pronunciations really make people laugh, so his mother sometimes learns his baby's pronunciation and laughs with his father.

I analyze

Mom and dad learn the baby's pronunciation and then laugh, which is difficult for the baby to understand. They don't know what their parents are laughing at, and the baby may even think that their parents are joking about his mistakes, which will make the baby feel embarrassed. This way, the baby may not dare to speak in front of parents next time.

What should parents do?

It is common for babies to learn to say incorrect things. When the baby's pronunciation organs gradually develop, under the guidance of parents' correct pronunciation, the baby's pronunciation will naturally become correct gradually.

But parents should pay attention to some problems when correcting them. First of all, parents should not laugh at the baby because of inaccurate pronunciation, which will easily hurt the baby's self-esteem and make him afraid to speak and express himself at will next time.

Moreover, parents should not be too strict when correcting their baby's pronunciation, and try to help the baby make it clear in a gentle way. Otherwise, parents' overly competitive attitude will easily dampen their children's self-confidence in learning, thus reducing their enthusiasm for learning a language.

In fact, over time, babies will have a process of correcting their own language through constant dialogue with others. Therefore, parents should pay more attention to their baby's interest and habits in language learning when teaching their baby to learn a language. If the baby is interested in language learning or has good habits, and is in a suitable language learning environment, the child will eventually speak well.