I'm the clown.

As the saying goes, people are more popular than others. A lot of pain comes from comparison.

There are too many people in this world who are better than themselves. It can be said that there is no harm without comparison. The more you compare, the more painful it is.

But in real life, many people still like to compare their own shortcomings with others' advantages, and finally compare them to doubt life.

I still remember a joke: it is also a nine-year compulsory education. Why are you so good?

There are always people in this world who are better, richer and stronger than you. It is almost impossible to be better than others.

Compare yourself with others less, because the starting point is different and there is no comparability.

If you really want to compare, you should compare yourself rather than others.

Make a little progress every day and constantly surpass yourself in the past, then you can become a better person.

After graduation, I have worked for several years. Some students are married and have children, live in big houses and drive luxury cars.

In just a few years, the gap between students has gradually widened with the naked eye.

Many people think that when they study, they all feel the same. A few years after graduation, why do so many students suddenly get along? They not only buy houses and cars, but also get married and have children. They are happy, and their circle of friends should not be sour.

To tell the truth, I am a little envious of these students who are doing well, but I am not jealous.

Because their success is not accidental, there may be a little luck, but it is inseparable from their efforts and struggles.

The harder you work, the luckier you are. Many people often only see the glory after success, but ignore the countless bitterness and sweat behind success.

Moreover, everyone's family background is different. Some people have good family conditions and can be several times better than ordinary people with a little effort.

In real life, people who like to compare with others often feel inferior. Compared with others, it turns out that they are clowns and really throw stones at their feet.

I heard from my best friend that she has a colleague who is not very beautiful, but very vain.

She saw that a rich second generation in the company bought luxury bags and cosmetics, which was praised by other colleagues. She also made a rich boyfriend.

She itches, too She is not rich. She will use the credit card money to buy more than 20 thousand bags and many big-name clothes and cosmetics. She thinks she looks good and will definitely find a rich second-generation boyfriend in the future.

A few months later, the rich boyfriend didn't wait, but the phone calls from major banks came, which also alarmed the company leaders. In the end, not only did she lose her job, but her story was regarded as a joke of the company. Even more exaggerated, I heard that she went to the black clinic to buy eggs and paid back the money.

In fact, most of us are ordinary people and live an ordinary life. Don't be too competitive, don't be superior to others.

What everyone needs is a normal attitude towards life, doing their own thing seriously, and being down-to-earth is the best attitude towards life.

People really can't be compared together, and once they are compared, they feel unrecognizable.

In fact, there is really nothing to compare. Even if you win, you lose, and if you lose, you lose.

Sometimes it's too much, which will make you vulnerable and jealous.

Life is like drinking water, and you know it.

No one in this world is perfect, just be yourself.