Tear off the label and kick out the rich family, my sister is not afraid of starting over in life

In the past two days, have all the students started working one after another?

The hard-working Ba Ba only rested for two days during the entire Spring Festival, which means he started working early.

But for most people, now is the day when construction begins and a new atmosphere begins.

So I won’t mention the disturbing melons, let’s talk about something festive.

Nowadays, making money is the main theme. During the Spring Festival, everyone’s attention is focused on the box office explosion and the star’s popularity.

Amidst all the excitement, there is a small piece of good news that may not be noticed by many people, but it makes Ba Ba sincerely want to say congratulations: On Valentine's Day, the third day of the Lunar New Year, Fala Chen announced that she had given birth to a daughter.

What is worthy of congratulations is not only the matter of becoming a mother; but also because she allows us to see that the age fear and identity anxiety that trap many women are not as terrible as imagined.

As long as you dare to start over, you can still live a wonderful life.

——I refuse to tear apart the dividing line anymore——

Nowadays, when TVB Five Little Flowers are mentioned, many people miss that era when each had their own beauty.

Especially compared to today, the three-color Taiwanese flowers are lackluster in terms of recognition and acting skills. However, after watching the show, everyone discovered the value of the previous generation.

But during the period when Wu Xiaohua was active on the screen, there were many critical voices against them. Among them, the one who has been criticized the most harshly may be Fala Chen.

Among the Five Little Flowers, Myolie Wu, Yang Yi and Xu Zishan all have acting masterpieces; although Zhong Jiaxin's acting skills are controversial, she has always been a positive image of a good girl.

Only Fala Chen has been labeled with the most negative labels: pretty, poor in acting, bottom of the class, abandoned wife of a wealthy family...

During the Three Colors Channel, it seemed that she The only saving grace is her sweet appearance.

Fala Chen has won the Miss Asian America Pageant, the Miss Chinese New York Pageant and the runner-up of Miss Chinese International Pageant. The beauty pageant allowed her to enter the colorful entertainment circle.

After signing with TVB as an actress, what made her stand out was her beauty.

In 2007, a fuel-pushing scene in "The Troops" became the talk of the town. Later, she played a pole dancer wearing hot pants and fishnet stockings in "The Love Transfer", and her image of a sexy vixen was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

Originally, this kind of role can be regarded as a unique position that can be remembered among all the beauties.

However, the Hong Kong media had to upgrade the role of the actor and put the label of "Jiao Jing" on Fala Chen (note: "Jiao" means coquettish).

Fala Chen hates this nickname extremely and has said more than once that she hopes they won’t call her that again.

In order to get rid of this label, Fala Chen worked hard to take on other types of roles.

She acted quite well as the good girl in the two "Stormy Hearts" films. However, because of the popularity of the series and the lovable characters, it has also gained a lot of popularity.

But a low-difficulty role like a good girl can only be used as a beginner. When Fala Chen tried to take the lead again, she seemed to be struggling.

In "Stealth Sniper", she played the role of CIB senior female inspector Zhou Wangqing. She broke through the image and got a short hair style. When acting, she often had a blank face in order to appear capable, but the aura of the female boss was not revealed, and she was always not very powerful. enough.

What really made her the most criticized was the movie "Up to the Sky 2".

The role played by Fala Chen is indeed a bit "artificial". She often gets angry for no reason, bursts into tears and then runs away, but the point is that Fala Chen cried for a long time, but she did not cry any tears...

The static is fine, but when she makes exaggerated expressions, the whole facial features become distorted... No matter how beautiful the beauty is, such acting skills will lose points.

Fala Chen was criticized on-screen, and off-screen because of the feud between wealthy families, she became the object of entertainment and ridicule for the masses.

The Hong Kong media, which has always been snobbish, when the scandal between Fala Chen and second-generation rich man Xue Shiheng spread, they were all envious at first and shouted "Prince with a net worth of 1.3 billion" and "Prospective daughter-in-law of a wealthy family".

However, Fala Chen is very low-key. During her relationship, she always claimed that "we are all friends" and her marriage was not made public.

However, the news of the secret marriage was still exposed by the all-pervasive Hong Kong media, and the wedding ring on Xue Shiheng's hand was also photographed as irrefutable evidence.

Although Fala Chen does not want to stir up the topic, it cannot stop the Hong Kong media’s curiosity about the wealthy family.

Coupled with the encounter with Zhuge Ziqi, a strange sister-in-law and a senior patient with princess disease, she fell into an embarrassing situation where it was difficult to keep a high profile even if she didn't want to, and she had to tear her apart even if she didn't want to.

Xue Shiheng is the eldest son of Xue, and Zhuge Ziqi married the second son Xue Jialin.

Zhuge was originally a small model with no impressive achievements, but he managed to gain a small reputation for himself by relying on his ability to create hype.

She claims to be the 63rd generation descendant of Zhuge Liang, and frequently makes outrageous and stupid quotes:

"You don’t have to have a boyfriend, but you must have a servant." ""It's so easy to flip over on a bus. It's two stories high and it's easy to flip over with a bang when turning."

Someone also revealed to the media that Ms. Zhuge is suspected of having six ID cards with different names. Copies, birth years from 1978 to 1985*** 6 different years!

This operation is really breathtaking

Of course Ms. Zhuge, who became famous through speculation, did not He would miss the opportunity to tie up Chen Fala, the famous sister-in-law, to gain the upper hand.

The highlight was that Chen Fala showed up at the mourning hall to prove her identity as the eldest mistress of the Xue family, but because Zhuge cleverly diverted the attention, it turned into a drama. "Competition for favor in the mourning hall" is a drama between two heroines.

From the time of appearance in the mourning hall, who comes first and who comes last;

After the funeral, it is obvious that "the two women swear to have different cars". and, the Hong Kong media described it in detail, and the public watched it with gusto.

After turning a funeral into a battle for palace scheming, Zhuge continued to seize the opportunity to consolidate the image of the "double heroine" of the wealthy family. < /p>

When the Hong Kong media broke the news of Chen Fala’s secret marriage, she did not confirm it, but Zhuge revealed to the media that the rumors were true.

He also took the opportunity to add that she and Xue Ershao were in love with Xue during the Chinese New Year. Mother said hello, but Chen Fala did not do this, secretly criticizing Chen Fala for not having a tutor.

After hearing the media reports, Chen Fala angrily criticized Ms. Zhuge for talking too much, saying: I have been in this industry for so many years because of my hard work. I don’t know why she does it. !

Then, when the second son Xue and Zhuge Ziqi officially held their wedding, whether Chen Fala drank the tea offered by Zhuge became a hot topic again.

I have to say. , Zhuge still knows very well what topics the public likes to watch, and topics are where the traffic is.

Fala Chen originally wanted to keep a low profile, but had to passively respond to this wealthy family fight, which became the subject of her parents' TVB dramas. This is a plot to insinuate.

Of course it would be annoying to have such a sister-in-law, and more importantly, Xue Shiheng didn’t live up to expectations.

The "rich family" of the Xue family relies entirely on the legacy built by Xue Shiheng and Xue Jialin's father, Xue Jijie.

Xue Jijie started in the printing industry, and later entered the karaoke industry. NEWWAY, which was once popular in Hong Kong, Macao and Southeast Asia, was his family's industry.

As the eldest son, Xue Shiheng was originally the first heir, but due to his lack of business acumen, his performance disappointed his father, and his younger brother Xue Jialin took over.

Therefore, in the fight with Chen Fala, Zhuge Ziqi took the initiative to provoke and behaved arrogantly, relying on the confidence that his husband won the battle of successors.

In order to further consolidate his status as the "No. 1 Young Mistress", Zhuge seized every opportunity to boast that he was filial to his parents-in-law, and quickly became pregnant and gave birth to a child, all in a bid to win favor and position.

But she forgot one thing: the Qing Dynasty was dead. Women in the palace had to fight because they had nowhere else to go; modern women have a broader world, so why should they linger on boring palace fights?

In 2013, Fala Chen and Xue Shiheng divorced.

The Hong Kong media, which has always worshiped the superior and disdained the inferior, immediately turned into a mockery of the "abandoned wife of a wealthy family" by kneeling down and licking the face of the "young wife of a wealthy family".

They described this divorce as Chen Fala's dream of being a wealthy family was broken, she was abandoned and driven away, and she was greedy for money.

The headline was "The Xue family confiscated the car building and Fala Chen beat her up because she was in despair", and it was even revealed that she was asking for 50 million yuan in alimony.

Chen Fala just smiled and clarified that there was no 50 million in alimony, and the monthly living expenses of 200,000 Hong Kong dollars were all earned by herself.

It wasn’t until Xue Shiheng came out for an interview the year before last that everyone knew that it was Fala Chen who kicked out the wealthy family and initiated the divorce.

At that time, he thought that Fala Chen was just quarreling with him and just trying to calm her down, but he did not expect that she would never look back.

Discovering that Fala Chen really wanted a divorce, he tried hard to keep her, but in the end it was ineffective.

He said that after the divorce, he drank to drown his sorrows and did not know how to accept it. "The most difficult thing is to grow up."

From Xue Shiheng’s words, we can also know why Fala Chen decided to divorce.

She saw through the empty airs of the wealthy family and was fed up with the boring fights. She tried to point out the problem to her husband, but he regarded it as a quarrel and thought it would be better to coax her.

If the couple works together, they can always change for the better; but he is a young man who has neither the courage to face difficulties nor the ability to solve problems.

Then why bother with the false magnificence of the "young lady"?

It is better to rely on your own hands to create a real and beautiful new world.

——I am the dividing line in the restart of life——

Fala Chen, who left the wealthy family, pressed the restart button of life at the age of 32 and began to tear off the pasted clothes with her own hands each label.

Today’s beautiful waste that has no business ability can also be packaged into an enviable lying-win koi. The "old school" Chen Fala seriously feels that it is shameful to be a loser.

She was afraid to re-watch her previous works and found that "every character can be improved", and she only felt ashamed.

Fala Chen replied: "When miracles happen to me for ten consecutive years, apart from hard work and dedication, I can only be grateful."

In that year, she went to the United States to study.

This is not the kind of study that is done just to show off one’s talent, but actually admitted to the drama department of Juilliard School, which is ranked among the top in the United States.

There, she learned theater performance in a down-to-earth manner;

She also learned to direct and shoot her own movies.

To complete a stage play, there are many tasks involved.

For example, designing costumes;

There are also stage special effects and makeup;

Even music and singing, she can do it herself.

When she graduated from Juilliard School and received her master's degree, Fala Chen's grades were all A's.

After so many years since her debut, she has finally learned to truly enjoy the stage and become a shining presence.

She is still beautiful, but her sweet appearance is no longer her only weapon.

Look at this homeless person living on the street. Can you recognize her?

This is the short film "People Come and Go" that she directed and starred in, which won the short film award at the Sundance Film Festival.

Later, she starred in the independent film "The Wild Goose Flying to the South" by female director Yuan Yuan for free. This film has won 7 international awards.

UTA, a well-known American agency, signed Fala Chen to its agency. The year before last, she also starred in the HBO series "The Undoing" starring Nicole Kidman.

While having a colorful career, Fala Chen also found a new love.

Emmanuel Straschnov, who walked into the auditorium hand in hand with Fala Chen the year before last, is a talented and handsome man.

He graduated from Harvard University and served as a French diplomat in Japan and a special assistant to the CEO of Prada in the United States. Later, he started his own business and founded Bubble, a web and app production company.

Fala Chen once said in a media interview that the two are very compatible and have a tacit understanding, and there are always endless topics to talk about.

She also said that she was grateful for his company and support in pursuing her dreams. When she was discouraged because of obstacles in her audition, he would help analyze and enlighten her; her successful graduation was all thanks to him.

Now, as she approaches her 39th birthday, they have become a happy family of three.

When Fala Chen tore off the labels of beautiful waste and abandoned wife of a wealthy family one by one with her own hands, and rebuilt her wonderful life with her own hands, what was the "winner of the palace fight" busy with back then?

Ms. Zhuge, who once provoked and started fights everywhere, became the first young mistress as she wished after Chen Fala left the Xue family.

But without an opponent, how can you satisfy your drama addiction? It doesn't matter, as an outstanding graduate of the Drama Academy, she can act in a play by herself!

One moment she loses weight and admits to the marriage change with tears in her eyes, and the next moment she shows off her huge diamonds and denies the marriage change. Although she no longer has Fala Chen as her sister-in-law to tie up, she still attracts a lot of attention.

In 2019, Zhuge Ziqi suddenly announced that he had given birth to a second child, a son.

But three months ago she attended a public event with a flat belly, and a month ago she went skiing in Japan and ate sushi.

Before and after childbirth, she really didn’t look like a pregnant woman. So, is it really not surrogacy?

Although there are endless doubts about surrogacy, Zhuge insisted that his youngest son was born by himself and that he was born naturally.

No matter whether it was her own child or not, when she was still considering giving birth to a son as the way to win for a wealthy family, the crisis was already quietly ambush.

The Xue family’s once-famous karaoke empire has gradually failed to keep up with the trends of the times, and its business has continued to decline. It has also been sued in court for arrears of rent and copyright fees.

As the daughter-in-law of the Xue family, Zhuge Ziqi is still addicted to showing off famous brands and luxurious daily life.

Due to the epidemic last year, the Xue family’s business crisis intensified. Zhuge went to Canada to escape the epidemic, but he still lived a luxurious life, showing off his mansion where he can play basketball in the living room.

Due to debt collection, the Xue family had to sell the company headquarters building to pay for the debt, but Zhuge was still busy showing off sapphires and giant diamond rings.

Reminds me of a line from "The Grandmaster": In life, some people live to save face, and some live to live in dignity.

She clings to the identity of a wealthy lady because all her sense of superiority and existence comes from this face.

Chen Fala dared to throw away this superficial appearance and rely on her own hands and hard work to live the way she wanted.

Women living in this world are always instilled with various prejudices and oppression.

People tell you that the older a woman gets, the more she devalues, and she must maintain her marriage no matter how bad it is; women should not work too hard, and they will be happiest when marrying a rich man who can eat, drink, buy and buy.

In this public opinion environment, it takes courage to dare to throw away the envy of others and live the life you really want.

And Fala Chen’s story tells us, don’t be afraid, everything is worth it. When you learn to take the world into your own hands, you will find freedom, beauty, and infinite possibilities before you.