Leftover women, others have introduced them to the poor, and the good two sides have been asking about you everywhere before they meet. They also asked the leaders of your unit what to do with my pare

Leftover women, others have introduced them to the poor, and the good two sides have been asking about you everywhere before they meet. They also asked the leaders of your unit what to do with my parents. Maybe you studied civil engineering. Don't you have a famous joke in civil engineering? Haha.

I'm kidding. It doesn't matter.

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Actually, you can teach yourself. I'm not changing the subject, I'm serious. Because all walks of life lack knowledge, the most important thing is that knowledge can help you get customers, whether male or female, and help you improve your skills and win people's hearts.

There are many possibilities for leftover women.

First, if the other person is very good and picky in all aspects, it may be the personality itself. Treat you as a customer with a bad personality, do what you like, and influence her with your personality charm and aura. Generally speaking, she may habitually refuse you, resist you and test you with experience. As long as you keep changing, keep facing her with sincere and warm words and deeds, and let her feel your fiery heart. Never mind, not today, maybe tomorrow. Not tomorrow, maybe the day after tomorrow; Not this month, but next month is very likely!

Second, if the other person is in good condition, but not too picky, but has had some twists and turns in his emotional journey and has been hurt, then he will be more cautious in the face of a new relationship. I suggest that in the first set, in addition to choosing the charm+aura influence method, the key point is to talk to her and help her heal. The treatment system is very popular now. As long as girls really know how to cherish it, the healing system is definitely the best choice. Therefore, in addition to your penetrating skills, sincere and warm words and deeds, you also need gentle and healing tolerance, which can help a man like you to appreciate quickly and get extra points.

Third, if the other person's conditions are not perfect in all aspects and there are shortcomings, then it is suggested to get married late, bypass the other person's shortcomings first, focus on whether there is any part of this person's other qualities that is particularly suitable for you, emphasize this part, and help her improve other parts by constantly praising this part.

For example, this girl is beautiful, but she can't cook. It's okay. Always praising her beauty. To put it bluntly, girls will be shy at first, and they will be afraid that you are an emotional liar or a master of picking up girls. But it doesn't matter. After a long time, you treat her like this, whether in front of people or alone. Over time, it will become the driving force for her growth.

Next time, after you have confirmed your relationship for a period of time, skillfully introduce some beautiful female friends you know who can cook to her. Over time, your girlfriend will be transformed into a perfect woman by you.

Fourth, if this person is a workaholic, you must first find out whether she has any other fixed objects besides workaholic. If not, you should talk to her about dating or dating again, otherwise you should quit early and don't delay yourself. For workaholics, dating in the office, or finding cafes and libraries where you can work online on weekends should be a good choice. You can also pay attention to attending small group meetings related to vocational training with her as a way and means of dating. Of course, there are movies, shopping, eating, playing chess, games, video games, traveling and so on. Can be mixed together.

Fifth, if there is a problem with this human orientation, you must first really understand whether the other person can't like men at all, or just be bisexual. If you are bisexual, refer to 1-4 above and treat them separately; If you are an unchangeable homosexual, I suggest you take a detour and don't hang yourself on a crooked tree.

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Finally, if it is the first time (or the first three times) to date a girl. It is suggested that the front line should not be so long.

From the first half month to 20 days, each date lasts half a day on average, up to one day. For the next two months, I met at a fixed time every week.

Make her more and more emotional, and the more time she spends meeting and dating, the greater the chance of success. If you have been dating for a long time, but you will date again after a long time. That would be better than not asking.

In addition, after determining the relationship, porridge should not be less than 15-25 minutes every day. Call her at a fixed time. Calling her according to her routine is nothing more than asking about things you like, interesting things happening around you, your history, things she likes, interesting things happening around her, her history and past.

For customers, ears are usually softest around 1 pm, and for women, ears are softest before going to bed.

Ps:

First, for a relationship, if you regularly arrange appointments every week for more than 2-3 months, even if it is not confirmed verbally by both parties, it is actually a relationship between men and women. You should let nature take its course and make it clear on your own initiative.

Two. In your current plan, it is suggested to compress the appointment schedule to half a day, and then go on a date two days later to realize a complete plan.

Three. Be sure to say hello after the date. It's good to say hello, but it's really not good to say hello.

First, your investment (money, time, energy, etc. ), although women don't say it, they all understand it. Money and time need to be invested, but they also need to be invested continuously. So, don't throw yourself into it all at once, otherwise, if you take a break here, the other party will think you have two minds. Then what you put in is wasted.

Finally, good luck.