My wife went back to her mother's house on Mid-Autumn Festival and saw some leftovers she brought back. Why did her husband get angry and ask for a divorce?

Mid-Autumn Festival is a time for family reunion. Many people who work in other places will go home to visit their parents and have a reunion dinner with them. Yuanyuan will go back to her parents' home with a gift this day. I didn't expect her husband to complain about divorce when he came back. Let's see what happened first.

Sean and Yuanyuan were high school classmates, but at that time they were just ordinary classmates. Yuanyuan is beautiful and has a good academic record. Many boys like her. Sean is one of them, but Sean likes her silently, because he is ordinary and his family condition is not very good. He can't give Yuan Yuan a present like other students. He even felt inferior in his heart and felt that he was not worthy of Yuanyuan, so he kept up with her deliberately. There is no connection between these two people. After graduation, they went to different places.

A few years later, they met again at the high school reunion. The origin at that time was more beautiful. Sean's eyes kept staring at her, and she couldn't move for a moment. With the help of classmates, Sean finally confessed to Yuanyuan. What he didn't expect was that Yuanyuan actually agreed.

They fell in love quickly, and Sean bought Yuanyuan whatever she liked. Later, they naturally got married. Yuanyuan also has a younger brother. For the Yuanyuan family, the younger brother is the apple of his eye. Not only his parents love him, but Yuanyuan also loves his younger brother. At that time, a brand-name mobile phone just came out, and Yuan Yuan bought one for his brother directly with his salary, which cost thousands of dollars. When Sean knew this, he said to Yuanyuan, "You are married, so you shouldn't buy such extravagant things for your brother."

Yuanyuan said, "We are all family, so why bother?"

The round brother dropped out of school before he finished high school. He didn't want to learn craft, so his parents asked Yuanyuan to find him a job. Yuanyuan's younger brother is either tired from work or has insufficient money. He spent three days fishing and two days drying nets, and refused to work hard. The money he earns is not enough for him to spend. Later, my brother talked about friends, which cost more. My parents asked Yuanyuan to make up more money for him.

Yuanyuan always doesn't care about these things, and parents often say that the family should help each other. Yuanyuan is an elder sister, so it is proper to take care of her younger brother. But that doesn't mean Sean's family doesn't mind. Every time Sean's mother and Sean told Yuan Yuan about it, Yuan Yuan plausibly said, "I didn't spend your money, I earned it myself. Besides, it is natural for me to help my brother. You are not qualified to take care of me like this. "

Patience again and again, let Sean suddenly broke out. On that day, Yuanyuan went back to her parents' home for the Mid-Autumn Festival. She took more than 3,000 yuan and said that she would buy gifts for her parents. Families in Sean are not particularly rich, so 3000 yuan is their living expenses for several months. But the neighbors felt embarrassed and humiliated at the thought of Yuanyuan going back to her parents' home hard and bringing gifts.

When Yuanyuan came back, she brought a box of biscuits and the leftovers they ate that day, which made Sean feel very warm and sweet, but Sean only took a few bites. Yuan Yuan said: "Let me tell you something, my brother talked about the object. They are getting married now, but we don't have a house at home. My mother said to take 200,000 from us first, and then return it to us when my brother has money. "

Upon hearing this, Sean threw down his chopsticks and asked Yuanyuan for a divorce. Yuanyuan looked puzzled. She felt that she had done nothing wrong. Why did Sean do this to her?

But Sean also said why. In recent years, Yuanyuan has not given less money to her younger brother, nor has she given less help to her younger brother. He can let bygones be bygones, but now he needs money to buy a house, and those who buy this and that will need money later. As an elder sister, she can't help him all her life. She should let her brother make money by himself, instead of always relying on others and letting her sister be a "helper".

Listening to this story reminds me of Fan Meisheng in the fire TV series Ode to Joy a few years ago. Yuanyuan and she have a lot in common. For example, they are all good-looking and have decent jobs, but they often have to worry about their younger brothers. Fan once thought that finding a rich husband could be done once and for all, but later she learned that her brother is like a bottomless pit that can never be filled in. What she should do is to stand on her own feet and let her brother learn to be independent and not depend on others.

Bian Xiao thinks it is an obligation to help others, and it is an obligation not to help others. Nothing is taken for granted. He should help others within his own ability. If your own life is difficult, how can you help others? At the same time, it depends on whether the object of help is worthy of our help. Of course, we should help those who know how to be grateful and grateful, but we can't help those who rely on others and don't make progress. Remember, you really can't help others all your life. And even if a man loves you again, he won't indulge you for a lifetime.

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