What's wrong with balancing work and family? How come?

Harmony. I have been on the day shift for a long time, and I basically work at home. Buy food, cook, cook or be an expert. Put the clothes in the washing machine in the morning and mix them. She helps the children get dressed and clean. She dries clothes at noon. And we feel that we have plenty of time and are not tired. To tell the truth, there are not many things to do together and there are not many quarrels. In the evening, the whole family can take a walk, talking and laughing.

If you want to do a good job and run a good family, you must work harder than a full-time nanny at home. Speaking of this, I'm not saying that it's not hard for a nanny to take care of the baby at home full time. Once, I took care of her baby at home alone. I know very well that the hardships of taking care of the baby at home full-time are beyond others' understanding, except that we used to take care of the baby at home full-time.

I, since my mother came to help me take care of Zi Xuan last year, I have also become a professional woman and a housewife.

Mom, she is a person with poor health. It would be great if she could help me protect my Zi Xuan and cook for my Zi Xuan. Of course, the most important thing is because at first, my mother didn't want to help me take care of Zi Xuan. After all, that's my niece. She's afraid she didn't bring it, and she'll be responsible for anything.

I still remember that when my mother first came to help me take care of Zi Xuan, she was unfamiliar with the urban environment and couldn't move her head.

Therefore, going out to buy food can only be done when I am not at work. I still remember that at that time, I didn't go to work until after nine o'clock, and I didn't go to work until I had finished buying vegetables. Sometimes, because Zi Xuan's home is noisy, in order to let my mother take care of my Zi Xuan, I will love to cut all the dishes before going to work, so that my mother will be much more relaxed.

Because when my mother takes Zi Xuan out to play, she can't control Zi Xuan. So, after work at noon, I will come back and take my Zi Xuan to play outside, howling at the sun. Sometimes, if there is no sun, she will be taken to the playground of the supermarket to play. After all, playing is the most important thing for children. So I can't take her out to play because of work, because children will become introverted and afraid of meeting people if they don't go out for a long time.

At night, when I come back from work, my home in Zi Xuan is often awake. In order not to let my Zi Xuan lose her mother's company because of work, I will tell her stories until she sleeps soundly, and I will get up at home and mop the floor.

Of course, with the help of my mother, I feel much more relaxed. Otherwise, I have to go to work alone to bring people, so I guess I can only become the Monkey King.

Work is the main means of life and can never be abolished. Everyone lives like this, of course, there is nothing wrong. Sometimes, it is really difficult to be "right", but as long as husband and wife live in harmony, understand each other and take care of each other, there is nothing they can't overcome.

First of all, life and working hours should be completely separated, and they can't be confused, otherwise both aspects will be bad. This is self-evident.

Secondly, the difficulty lies in the period when children are young. It is the bounden duty of the wife or mother to take care of the baby. Therefore, in this period, the father must bear the responsibility of bringing home the bacon. I have to take care of my wife and children when necessary.

Third, when children are two or three years old, they can be fully taken care of by kindergartens. Of course, the first time a child leaves his parents, especially his mother, it is a passport. First, there is a process for children to adapt to collective life, and second, family expenses must increase. However, children's plasticity is great. Both husband and wife can work at the same time and share the responsibility of raising a family and educating children.

Fourth, the key is to have a long-term plan. In particular, many problems such as children's education and future require huge expenses or accumulation, so we must consider them carefully in advance.

Fifth, birth, aging, illness and death are inherent laws in the life cycle, and there may be some accidents. We should not only consider them comprehensively, but also make psychological and financial preparations.

Sixth, interpersonal relationship is essential for both work and life. Therefore, if you leave room for all expenses, you can be calm when something goes wrong.

Seventh, by the way, media and online business, as well as opening physical stores, are all very fashionable now and can be operated at home. In this way, natural work and family are correct.

Although the sparrow is small, it has all aspects. Running a family is like running a business. Details determine success or failure. Living at home seems simple, but it is not. It seems complicated, but it's not complicated. As long as everything is well planned and you are good at creating an atmosphere, you can achieve "two mistakes" between work and family.

This sentence is absolutely correct. It's up to someone to do it. Take me for example. I am a self-media worker and have free time. I don't earn much money, but it's enough to support my family. I have no entertainment every weekend and have enough time to spend with my family and children. On the other hand, no matter how much money I earn, people have to live all their lives, whether they are alive or dead. I cherish my favorite relatives and friends in my limited life because I don't necessarily have a family.

1 You must learn to give up something first.

God is fair. When we want to have a family and a job at the same time, we must give up something else.

Keep your distance from your mobile phone.

We always carry mobile phones, so our brains can never rest. I can't help refreshing my circle of friends and Weibo. As a result, we didn't gain much, and added extra pressure to the brain with redundant information.

Don't neglect yourself.

The easiest thing for a mother to forget is to take care of herself. "Taking care of yourself is the easiest thing to give up because no one will complain to you."

Give yourself some time to think.

A mother who really balances work and family is not always as busy as a top every day. They always set aside some time to sit down and think about what they should do to really live the life they want.

Don't be too hard on yourself, there is no 100% perfect working mother.

Give yourself a hug! It's good to be a working mother!

Balancing work and family is the foundation of a harmonious society. A family is like a social cell, and a small family is harmonious, prosperous and peaceful.

Family members have their own division of labor, and the convention is that "the woman is in charge and the man is outside." However, it is different for different families, so just choose the best way.

How to coordinate the relationship between work and family? First try to do your job well, and then take care of your family. If the job is special and you can't take care of your family, family members should give and take.

Family harmony, hard work, members create a happy family.

Professional women often twist the two together in their work and life, giving consideration to family work and small family. Why some people can easily cope with the same work and family affairs, work smoothly, family harmony and happiness, while others are physically and mentally exhausted, but still in a mess. As a result, their jobs and families are not good. How to balance work and family is a problem worthy of our consideration and discussion.

As a professional woman, we have to run between work and family every day. It is not easy to do homework correctly. In fact, there are certain skills and methods to do a good job and run a good family. As long as we find the way to finish the work and the skills to run the family, we can not only do the work better and faster, but also run the family well and make the family harmonious and happy. So be good at finding the skills to finish work and run a family.

Let's start with work. I remember some things. I am an operator. Because it's far from home, we implement a three-shift system, that is, we work for five days in a row, rest and go home from work. In order to save time on the station, we often use the time after the shift change to hold a meeting on the station for study and training. The standing meeting was originally to summarize last month's work arrangement and next month's work. In addition, webmasters never make speeches, and often stop halfway and lose contact. Often he can't finish the last sentence, which not only makes him wrong, but also confuses the listener. /kloc-get off work at 0/2 o'clock and start the station meeting, so people who get off work often catch the last bus at 18 o'clock. Later, when the new stationmaster took office, I told her, "stationmaster, we have a lot of housework to deal with at home after work!" " But before, we couldn't even go home for dinner, let alone deal with housework. Can you sort out an outline in advance, what do you want to say and what do you want to explain at each standing meeting, so that you can be concise at the meeting, finish it concisely at one time, and explain it clearly in an orderly way, so that it is not easy to miss it, and people on duty can go home early, and people on duty can quickly enter the working state without having to. So, before the meeting, she made a general description of the contents of the meeting and the work that needed to be explained in advance. The meeting that used to take five to six hours ended in less than two hours.

As operators, making reports is a task that we must complete, such as annual report, quarterly report, monthly report, weekly report and temporary report. It takes half an hour or even a lot of time to calculate the 24-hour average load value of a single outlet, and the calculated value may not be correct. In the single 1 10 kV Panxi substation under my jurisdiction, there are 6 10 35kV outgoing lines and 210 kv incoming lines. A single average is enough for us to count for half a day, let alone make other reports, and there is corresponding work. In order to improve work efficiency, we entered the corresponding formula in the report. In this way, the efficiency of calculating the average value is greatly improved. Later, we tried to enter the corresponding formula in other reports. As a result, it takes several people a day to finish the report of a station, and one person can finish it in half an hour. It not only shortens the time, speeds up the speed and improves the efficiency, but also has accurate data and guaranteed report quality.

In our operation, I think planning is the first step to complete the task, and scientific planning and reasonable arrangement are the preconditions and conditions for us to do every task well. For me, I will never do random work, because the randomness of work will only make me forget things and often miss some key links. For example, I am doing this job and suddenly remember that I haven't done that job yet, so I can't concentrate. Even the works made are full of mistakes and need to be revised repeatedly. As a result, even the most basic work can't be done well and the quality of work is not guaranteed. For our operation, some links in the work are often the key to determine the quality of the work, which will affect the time, speed and efficiency of the work. For those who are engaged in operation, if we don't make a good work plan, we may miss some key details, and the negligence of any detail may lead to unsafe factors, which may lead to safety accidents. Then we should be good at sorting out the head system from the complicated work, make a good work plan, and make every work orderly. In planning, we can give priority to and wait for important and important work to be completed first. In fact, some of our work can be completed in advance, some can be completed a little later, some must be completed during the day, and some can be completed at night.

For operators, it is necessary to ensure not only the efficiency of work, but also the safety of life, equipment and power grid. In the power industry, operation is a special and dangerous job, and there can be no carelessness in the work. Any negligence or omission of details may lead to safety accidents, so every minute of the shift should be guaranteed, and power accidents often occur during the shift change. Although it is stipulated that some work should be avoided as much as possible during the handover, it is inevitable in many cases. Take my experience as an example. Before taking over, I spent 10 to 15 minutes to adjust my mood and mentality, so as not to let all my people go to work, and my mind hasn't turned yet. I will do everything well during the rest time, and I will never bring family emotions to work to deal with family affairs and working hours. (article reading network: www.sanwen.net)

Without a minute off work, I never think about my work to avoid distractions, distractions or inattention, which may lead to mistakes in my work. Some people can do it at once, but I never do it at once. If there is anything unpleasant, don't bring the unhappiness at work to the family, which will affect the harmony of the family. Instead, bring the unhappiness at home to work and let yourself go to work with emotions.

For those who do patrol work, traffic safety is also a problem that we should pay attention to. We patrol three shifts on duty at 1 10kV Panxi substation, and patrol at 1 10kV Fuzhao switching station and 35kV Hongtongdian substation, so it is inevitable to patrol, so traffic safety during driving is also a problem worthy of our attention. Although I don't drive, the safety of drivers is also related to the safety of inspectors. Therefore, during the inspection, I will pay attention to the driver's driving speed. If he drives too fast, I will remind him to slow down. Whenever he meets a bend or passes through a village or a fork in the road, I will remind him to pay attention to pedestrians and animals crossing the road. If the weather is bad or the road is bad, he will get off and give instructions. Drivers, especially the most taboo is drinking, but it is inevitable to stop to eat when checking. Of course, they will meet friends and acquaintances to propose a toast. I am not afraid of your jokes, so I will stop drinking for the driver! The above is my feeling of doing a good job and ensuring safety.

Let me talk about the skills of running a family.

Because of the particularity of our substation operation, there is no concept of time at all. During the break, we often have to make emergency calls and have to deal with the faults in a hurry. Therefore, we should learn to communicate with our families so that they can understand and support our work.

I remember a colleague's child's birthday, and all the guests were present, but there was a temporary equipment failure in the substation, so she had to say goodbye to her family and guests and go to the substation for corresponding troubleshooting. It was late at night after the troubleshooting, and when she got home, the guests had already dispersed. Her husband complained, "What do you think this life is like? The child looked around and finally hoped that you would spend a birthday with the child, but you were still not there ... ". In the face of her husband's accusation, it is simply a fire! Still ignore it and engage in a cold war, because she is very tired and tired. But none of my colleagues have. Instead, they poured a cup of tea and said to her husband, "If you want to be angry or complain, please finish this cup of tea first." Seeing his wife so tired, the husband sighed, "Even if I have any anger, I can't vent it after drinking this cup of tea." I saw my husband's face turn from cloudy to sunny. She turned to her unhappy daughter and said, "Today is your birthday, son. It is reasonable to say that mother should not be absent, but the equipment in the substation is out of order. If mom doesn't deal with it with her colleagues, there will be no electricity in a village powered by our substation tonight. If the children in that village happen to celebrate their birthdays on this day, it will be dark. Of course, other children can't even finish their homework and will be at school early tomorrow morning. " My daughter is very clever and kind. I may not want to do this. Well, don't be angry. Wait until your next birthday, and mom will accompany you. "In fact, my daughter knows that this promise has been fulfilled several times, but she still smiles through tears. Instead, she comforted: "Mom, you must pay attention to safety in your work, so that my father and I can rest assured, because your safety is related to the happiness of our whole family. Now you are very tired. Go and rest. You have to go to work tomorrow! "

In fact, this kind of thing often happens. When we have holidays, we often have to leave our relatives and friends because of the need of work. As an electric power employee, I feel more guilty about my family.

I once read the diary of a colleague's child. The child wrote the Mid-Autumn Festival. There is such a description in the diary: "I can't remember how many Mid-Autumn Festival I spent. Today, the Mid-Autumn Festival is coming. I expected my parents to accompany me, but as the Mid-Autumn Festival approached, my father went to check the line and my mother was on duty for an aunt whose child was sick. It's a pity that I enjoy the moon alone this year. " I said to him, "In fact, your parents also want to spend the Mid-Autumn Festival with you, but their work is special and they can't accompany you. I hope you can understand them. " He said to me, "auntie, actually I'm not complaining about them." I'm just a little emotional. It pains me a little to see my parents working so hard every day. " I said to him, "If you do well in your studies, you will give them great support at work." He said to me, "Aunt, I will study hard and won't let them down. I want to be an electrician in the future."

In fact, in our power industry, not only the Mid-Autumn Festival, but also other festivals need to ensure power supply. If you have a temporary job, you will be even busier. "

A colleague of mine once told me that her husband didn't understand her work, so she was often hot and cold, and her friends ignored her at home, just like the air. I have been to her house several times. After observation, I found that her husband is not the kind of person who refuses to stay away from people, but he is not good at expressing himself. I said to her, "In fact, you have a certain responsibility on this issue. Don't just blame each other, for leadership. " As a result, she first admitted that she was wrong in front of her husband. Recently, she invited people to dinner, and she did whatever I said. When introducing her, her husband was very enthusiastic and treated people like a different person. After dinner, she told her husband that I am going shopping with my friends today, and I will leave all the housework to you tonight. I didn't come as a full-time job, so as a part-time job, you should behave well and I will come back. As a result, when she got home, everything was safely collected and the floor was cleaned.

As an electric power professional woman, don't treat people, colleagues and family members too strongly, which will only make people feel a sense of oppression. Of course, bossing around makes it more disgusting. Even if you are excellent, there is no need to be so sharp-edged and domineering. If you always want to be above others and speak with thorns everywhere, then you are full of thorns. People will stay away from you. As a professional woman, it is the wisest choice to show weakness in front of others and fully display her wisdom. Strong women are often not accepted, and of course nagging women can be annoying. People can't stand talking all day. Don't impose their subjective consciousness on him, whether in the family or in the process of getting along with others, don't cry, make trouble or commit suicide at home because of a little thing. This doesn't solve the problem at all.

In addition, no matter how busy you are, you should spend some time communicating with your family and get their understanding and support at work, so that you can do your family work correctly.

Balancing work and family is just a good wish, most of which are difficult to achieve.

Nowadays, the competition in the workplace is fierce, and the professionalism is still insufficient. Plus the family drag, who has superhuman powers? How to deal with it? The family burden is not easy now. Families with 42 1 and 422 structures, as long as there is an old man lying in bed and a child going to school, are bound to be in a situation of work and family delay.

Family responsibilities and considerations make you more capable of judging others. Taking on family responsibilities and worries will only make you a more understanding person.

There is nothing wrong with this sentence: work and family are both correct, so do it with your heart.

1. You must learn to give up something first. God is fair. When we want to have a family and a job at the same time, we must give up something else.

2. Keep your distance from your mobile phone. We always carry mobile phones, so our brains can never rest. I can't help refreshing my circle of friends and Weibo. In this way, we not only don't gain much, but also bring extra pressure to the brain because of redundant information.

Don't neglect yourself. The easiest thing for a mother to forget is to take care of herself. Taking care of yourself is the easiest thing to give up because no one will complain to you.

4. Give yourself some time to think. A mother who really balances work and family is not always as busy as a top every day. They always set aside some time for themselves, sit down and think about what to do in order to really live the life that high live wants.

Don't be too hard on yourself, there is no 100% perfect working mother. Give yourself a hug. It's good to be a working mother.