Adults always joke with children that "parents don't want you", how much impact will it have on children?

I think some parents like playing games with their children. Tease them and say, "mom doesn't want you." These words may be harmless jokes for adults, but they are not funny for children. Children can't tell whether an adult is telling the truth or a joke. Even saying these words may leave a lifelong shadow on children.

Children are really cute and know the outside world. Adults always like to play jokes on the children of the teaching assistants, listen to the children's language, and then laugh from the heart. But in fact, many times, the so-called jokes are a bolt from the blue for children, and even leave a lifelong shadow for children. So, please don't joke with children like this in the future!

In a child's world, he will deeply remember every word his parents said, not their thoughts. Children know nothing and will soon forget it. In life, we often hear parents tell their children that they will take you to the park after you finish your homework, or their mother will bring you a cake after work in the evening.

Sometimes, in order to make children happy, adults will deliberately say, "Why are you so ugly? ! "Then, watch the children get angry, argue and laugh. In the eyes of adults, they just want to make their children happy, but for children, they will feel malicious and even make them feel inferior. Therefore, never joke about hurting children's self-esteem.

Or when the child is ready to go where he wants to play for a long time, his parents tell him, "My parents are busy with work and have no time! I'll take you there when I have time. " If you can't do it, don't promise your child easily. In the eyes of children, the image of parents is tall and powerful, and they can face all kinds of difficulties.

If parents do this for a long time, they will lose the trust of their children. In a short time, children may be made to work hard, but in the long run, children will know that hard work is useless. In any case, parents will not do well, so it is best not to work hard. Not only that, children will follow suit and form a bad habit of breaking promises.